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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

Countrygirl095
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------------------------- ------------------------- I'm Tylia  a verified listener on 7cups. I'm here to provide you with confidential support without any judgment. No matter what topic you bring, I'll do my best to make you feel welcome, safe, and understod  Important notice: I kindly inform all members of 7 Cups that although I am available for listening on Fridays from 12 PM to 3 PM Eastern Standard Time (EST), 11 AM to 2 PM Pacific Standard Time (PST), and Mountain Standard Time (MST), there may be instances where I am unable to attend to your requests. If you leave me a message in my inbox, I will make every effort to get back to you as soon as possible, but there may be instances where I am unable to respond immediately. I apologize for any inconvenience this may cause, but I assure you that there are plenty of other active listeners available to connect with. Please note that 7cups is not equipped to support crisis situations.  Sí, hablo español Mi nombre es Thalia y soy una oyente verificada en 7cups. Estoy aquí para brindarle apoyo confidencial sin ningún juicio. No importa el tema que traigas, haré todo lo posible para que te sientas bienvenido, seguro y comprendido. Noticia importante: Les informo amablemente a todos los miembros de 7 Cups que, aunque estoy disponible para escuchar los viernes de 12 p. m. a 3 p. m., hora estándar del este (EST), de 11 a. m. a 2 p. m., hora estándar del Pacífico (PST) y hora estándar de las montañas (MST), Puede haber casos en los que no pueda atender sus solicitudes. Si me deja un mensaje en mi bandeja de entrada, haré todo lo posible para responderle lo antes posible, pero puede haber casos en los que no pueda responder de inmediato. Pido disculpas por cualquier inconveniente que esto pueda causar, pero les aseguro que hay muchos otros oyentes activos disponibles con quienes conectarse. 1. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline (U.S.): 1-800-273-8255 2. The Crisis Text Line: Text "HOME" to 741741 3. The Samaritans: 1-800-273-TALK (8255) 4. The Canadian Mental Health Association: 1-833-456-4566 Remember, it's okay to ask for help. Your well-being is important, and there are people and resources available to support you. Don't hesitate to reach out if you need someone to talk to. Despite her condition that affects her mobility, she does not allow it to affect her will and determination to make a difference in the world. Through her many life challenges and obstacles, she discovered her passion for writing.
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LongCoffee
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Eyah !  Surely I'm not the best listener you'll find on 7cups, but I will try to be a great shoulder.
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pamharley003
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***** Not taking any 1-1 chats right now please use https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to find a Listener. ***** Will not take any chats with sex of any nature  I am sorry ***** *****twins with @Thedoctorno12 *****                   Adult and Teen Listener I am  a long term listener and a verfied listener on 7 cups. I also have the door keeper badge. Chat's I do take: Anxiety BipolarBorderline (BPD) BreakupsBullying Chronic Pain Depression Diabetes Disabilities Domestic Violence Eating Disorders Exercise MotivationFamily Stress Financial Stress Forgiveness General Mental Health Getting Unstuck Grief LonelinessManaging Emotions Panic AttacksParenting PTSD/Trauma Relationship Stress Self-Esteem Sleeping Social Anxiety Spirituality Student Life Weight Management Work Stress *** I will repsond back to Your PM'S when I return online ****
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RakyTacky
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Once an awesomePiano6000, always an awesomePiano6000....
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Kace01
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Hi, I'm Kace. I'm part of a System! (Feel free to ask who's fronting if you want to know!)  They/He please!  Stuff i may not want to talk about is mostly me not having enough knowledge on the topic! (Feel free to help me learn more about anything!) 17 Medically Recognised! Woo!  (Really into CoD and stuff, Not really doing listener stuff ATM due to our mental health issues but feel free to PM us if you want to just chat or something :) <3)
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Dahlia8
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Hi! Glad you found me here at 7cupsoftea. I have survived many obstacles during my time, with that I learned that someone that would listen is valuable treasure and so I am here to listen and help you. I have learned to enjoy the good things you get from life like reading, music, anime and manga. I am very opened minded, as it is not my place to give opinions or judge what anyone is going through or how they choose to lead their life. My firm belief is that we all have the strength to create our own happiness. So anything you want to relate long days, too much homework, things sometimes do not make sense, I am here for you.
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ShadowFaerie
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Hi, I'm Faerie, & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha If my status icon is Red 🔴 I am currently unavailable and I will try to return your message as soon as possible but it could take a while. Please allow for up to 24 hours. If my status icon is Orange 🟠 I am busy with another member or with other roles here. I will return your message as soon as possible but it may take an hour or two If my status icon is Green 🟢 I am available and should return your message shortly Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246
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SherlockX221b
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For English, scroll down 👇🏻  أهلا بيك 💙 يشرفني إني أسمعلك في أي موضوع من المواضيع اللي محدداها، دي أكتر مواضيع انا مريت بيها او عندي فكرة عنها، هسمعلك بكل اهتمام مادام الاحترام ما بينا 💙 متشخصة بـ delusional disorder و اقدر اساعد في المواضيع المتعلقة بالذهان و الهلاوس السمعية والبصرية انا مش بقبل أي موضوع جنسي  Hey there! welcome to my profile, I'll try my best to help you and listen to you as long as you need, don't hesitate to text me :).  ​​​​​​I'm just a girl who wants to help everyone  I've been dealing with a lot of things and I've been diagnosed with delusional disorder so I can relate to psychosis ( especially auditory hallucinations ) , and many other things I don't talk about sexual topics         
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CrystalFly
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hey! hi! hello! i'm crystal! (or any variation of my username works too!) i'm here for you for whatever you need! even if its something simple, or something really really hard, i'm here with you to make sure you get through this challenging time! i do NOT take casual chats and i can't offer ANY advice my chats will range from 20-40 minutes at a time about me! my pronouns are they/them my favorite color is teal  topics i take: - depression - anxiety - lgbtq+ - self harm - family stress topics i do NOT take: - active self harm - active crisis - any sexual or sexual health chats - religion - relationships things to ALWAYS remember <3  - you are enough, you are worthy of and deserve love - you are amazing - you matter <3
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lueurspace
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**busy with university at present, NOT accepting any chats. replies will be delayed** **please read my bio before messaging [at least till the start of about me section]** hi! I am lueur :3 my name lueur means a glimmer of light and the PM land with me is a space I aspire to make une lueur d'espoir (a glimmer of hope) for you. I take up member chats when I can. if you're reaching out to me for support, please also express how I can be of help and share what you need support with (kindly check my chat topic triggers below to see what I may not be able to best support you with), so that we can be off to a great start! :) a simple "hey/hello, can you help?" doesn't give me an idea of what you want support with, so do let me know what you're seeking support with by saying something like, "I need support with relationship stress/anxiety, etc,". I am not filtering what MBTI types I support people with, saying you are an X type, doesn't give me an idea of your situation. topics I am not comfortable with and for which I may re-direct you to another listener: self-harm, eating disorder, substance use, OCD, panic attacks, and schizophrenia. it would be helpful for me if you do not reach out to me regarding these topics because I am very limited in my knowledge and/or triggered by these topics. topics I love supporting people with: relationship stress, breakups, general mental health, student life, managing emotions, grief, family stress, depression and anxiety. other topics, that I haven't listed, don't trigger or make me uncomfortable, and I'd be open to listening to you on them. ミ⛧ about me ⛧ミ pronouns: she/her second-year university student studying psychology // infp 9w1 my interests: anime, writing, reading, listening to music, playing keyboard and guitar, tv shows such as this is us, rick and morty, b99, f.r.i.e.n.d.s, parenthood, gilmore girls (paris is my favourite character), and blah blah (basically, the generic stuff) [^^ it's beautiful to love the ordinary ^^] »»————- ♡ ————-«⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅»————- ♡ ————-«« ‿ʚ˚̣̣̣͙ɞ words that resonate with me ʚ˚̣̣̣͙ɞ‿ "maybe anyone worth knowing is worth knowing for only a short while. maybe anyone worth loving is worth loving inconclusively. and when you look at it that way, it doesn't seem quite so unbearable at all: to allow yourself to love someone with everything you've got - and then to fully and completely let them go." - Heidi Priebe "touching people's lives in a positive way is as close as I can get to an idea of religion." - Keith Haring "but it cannot be a mistake to have cared... it cannot be an error to have tried... it cannot be incorrect to have loved." - Nikki Giovanni »»————- ♡ ————-«⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅»————- ♡ ————-«« ♡ people people people ♡ @Starmedia & @Mango3 people who have had the most special impact on me @greasemonky 🐳 my whale buddy, somebody who brings out the best in me  @Yukihiko & @DreamTouch my listener twinnies @Starlasky @Sunisshiningandsoareyou @SparkyGizmo @DonaldDraper @whenitsdarklookforstars @mamtasha22 ♡ ————-«⋅ʚ♡ɞ⋅»————- ♡
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daydreammemories
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Hi ~Just a human being 🌿 (Currently accepting new member buddies, feel free to reach out. It's a pleasure to talk to you all. 😄 Note: Unless I take your general request, I will be taking personal requests from the topics 'anxiety', 'panic attacks', 'PTSD', 'depression' and 'student life' regarding non-relationship issues ONLY. I try to keep it respectful at all times, and I expect you to do the same, so we can create a really awesome place for you to share and feel safe. Everyone has their own unique story, and I'm honored to listen to yours. 😊) ------------------------- I'll be there for you              When the rain starts to pour ; ) " There is still a joker roaming around the world. He will make sure that the world never rests. Whenever possible -and wherever possible - a little fool will jump out wearing long donkey ears and jingling bells. He will look deep into our eyes and ask, who are we? Where do we come from? " Jostein Gaarder, The Solitaire Mystery ♧ ------------------------- Dear fellow reader, how have you been? 😊 I’ve been meaning to write this for a while now, and I finally took the courage to do so. I appreciate your patience going through my profile. We are stuck in a world with tons of problems, each and every one of us carries their own. These problems can change, but from my own personal experience, there is never a time when we don’t have any. I can relate to that as well, I know you do too. BUT, the way we approach our problems matter. That’s what helps us grow. I know we might never recover from our pains, our bad memories are always going to be a part of us as well, although, the important part is that they get lost between the good ones. I’m not going to tell you what to do and what not to do, but to let you know that my main reason to be here is that I simply care. I want to be with you when making tough decisions, when dealing with something harsh which life threw at you. I’m not a saint or an agnel. I make mistakes and take some actions that I might end up regretting, I’m not going to judge you when you do as such. Pinky promise. ------------------------- Some things that I’ve come to learn during my life: (The list will be updated during time lol) ✨You can’t be the hero in everyone’s story. ✨You don’t need to keep everyone satisfied to feel happy. ✨Take your steps based on what feels right to you, not everyone else’s. ✨Space and time make some things better, if you’re not sure they apply to a situation, try them. ✨We all gain our initial deep motive to help us keep going in hard situations during time. Time certainly makes you a master. Take your time, and build that motive. This doesn’t mean that you will go through challenges happily, but to solely be able to get through them eventually. ✨I agree that even best friends can’t be hundred percent there for each other, I agree that us as listeners have our own issues going on as well. But I truly believe you might still find someone caring about you in silence. If you feel like troubles are there weighing on you, and it feels harsh to move on carrying those burdens, I’m here to help easing up that pain as much as I can. ------------------------- About me: 🕊️A fellow soul in my 20s, searching for the meaning of life and pursuing my passion in college.  🕊️I love learning new languages. 🕊️I’m passionate about reading, listening to music, and hiking. 🕊️I love reading mystery novels and watching movies in this genre.  🕊️Friends and Modern Family are my two comfort shows. 🕊️I'm a pretty good photographer 📷. 🕊️Green is my favorite color 💚.  🕊️I am here to at least make another fellow soul feel a bit better.  May all your days be blessed, Take care!😇 “Message in a bottle is all I can do Standing here hoping this gets to you” T.S. 😊 💕
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Kyoshi
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Open to new members (also long term) I'm planet hd 18977 3b ✧✧✧ 𝓐𝓵𝓵 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓷𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓲𝓼 𝓯𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓱, 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪 𝓵𝓲𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓫𝓲𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓲𝔁𝓲𝓮 𝓭𝓾𝓼𝓽 ✧✧✧ I don’t have to be an expert I just have to care -------------------------  About me: Hello there! I'm Kyoshi (Kyo), my pronouns are they/them. I'm 25 years old and passionate about mental health. I strongly believe in self reflecting and growth because there is always space for improvement. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Boundaries are an important aspect of listening, not just for me but also for you as member.  During our chats you will experience; - A safe space for you to vent and share; our chat is your safe space to talk about anything on your mind. What you share during our chats will stay in our chats. - A non judgemental enviourment; there wont be any judgement from me during our chats. Disclaimer: I'm not a professional, although I have knowledge on DID/OSDD and advocate for a better support system and safe place on cups for those with DID/OSDD(and questioning) I cannot provide a diagnosis, to be diagnosed with a Dissociative disorder you have to work with a professional that specializes in such cases. Thank you for understanding •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•   Topics I’m comfortable with      -Dissociative Disorders  Dissociation  Dissociative Identity Disorder Other Specified Dissociative Disorder  -Trauma/PTSD Child abuse  Sexual abuse/assault Trafficking Ritual abuse Mind control Organized abuse Domestic violence Religious abuse -Family Stress  Parenting Foster care (also for parents who have children in the system) Also open to casual chat note: I only provide support on the topics mentioned above as I have personal experience in those and can relate to you. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•  Status Green: I am currently online and accepting new personal requests, my response time will be within a few minutes. Orange: I am online but occupied with other tasks on cups, either I'm already in a chat with someone or I can be found in one of the rooms. My response time can vary (5-15min) Red: I'm currently offline and not available on cups, please leave me a message and I will come back to you in 48 hours. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Leadership roles -Group support mentor I mentor specific areas to strengthen and improve specific areas in the group support chats, if you have questions regarding group support you can reach out to me  -Chatroom Moderator (global) I help keep the rooms safe, supportive and inclusive! -Chatroom mentor  I help keep the listener rooms supportive and inclusive and I mentor listeners on their listener journey  -Chat support   I support listeners with difficult ongoing chats and answer listener journey related questions, if you need help with anything related to listening feel free to message me -Doorkeeper  I can open and close rooms, if you need to have a room open or closed please message me  -Safety Patrol I flag accounts that go against site guidelines, if you find an account that needs flagging please send me a message ------------------------- Helpful forum posts I have written everything below is clickable -Information on DID [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DIDDissociativeIdentityDisorderexplainedandhowtohelp_254545/] -Differences between OSDD-1(a,b) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/OSDD1OSDD1aOSDD1bTheDifferences_263532/] -Different roles in a DID/OSDD system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/TRIGGERWARNINGDIDOSDDAltertypesrolesexplained_263478/] -Information on religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiouschildAbuse_266210/] -How to support someone who experienced religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiousabuseandhowtosupportsomeone_266350/] -Fight and flight response [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/EventsDiscussionsResources_2334/FightorFlightResponseTriggerwarning_264481/]
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