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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

BecauseImBatman22
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Greetings, I am here to really listen to you. It is often difficult for us to reach out, talk to someone about our problems, or really just open up about how we've been feeling. Which is why I'd love to help you, even if its the tiniest bit of help, to improve your mental health. I aim to do so by listening to you empathetically, treating you with respect and showing professionalism. I will not give you advice but will rather work together with you and brainstorm till we find a solution that works best for you. After reading the above lines, if you feel like our chat might go well, please feel free to message me. I may not respond instantly but you can expect a response within 12 hours. We can then coordinate a time when we're both available and then have a nice chat. My roles here: 1) Verified Active Listener 2) Safety Patrol Flagging Team (If you stumble upon a user with an inappropriate username/bio/profile photo, feel free to message me their profile's link so I can flag them).
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Courage7
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not taking chats at this time.  Hello, my name is Courage!  I am currently taking chats on spirituality, parenting, domestic violence, and family stress, but I also take chats on anxiety, loneliness, self- esteem, and general mental health. I look forward to getting to know you! I do not take chats on sexual health.   
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AriadneLove
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 (IMPORTANT if you are having anxiety, panic attack [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8xZ2L8il6W4] Now and I am offline please scroll to the bottom of this text to the section marked:  🐬) Hello, Thank You for checking my profile! I am Aria, nice to virtually meet You.  For me, it is significant that You feel comfortable and safe talking with me. I will be more than happy to do anything I can for us to talk in a friendly and trustful atmosphere. My purpose in 7Cups: I am here to listen to You because what you feel and think matters, [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=veEQQ-N9xWU&list=LL&index=43&t=8s] support You to the best of my ability,  be with You so You do not feel like You are alone and assist with figuring out steps in your situation.  (I will try to tell you the basic things about me which could be decisive for You to know before You start talking to someone) My personality:  I am a rational,  optimistic, and open-minded person. I do not have a 'judgment bone' :)  For me talking things out is often helpful in getting clarity and identifying the best next step with any issue.  Do you know what is your Personality Type?  You might enjoy finding it out > here [https://www.16personalities.com]<. I would love it if you drop me a line about what you have found out and how did it make you feel. My personality type is Protagonist A   „…Protagonists take a genuine interest in other people, approaching them with warm sociability and a helpful earnestness. They are valued for the capacity for insightful and inspiring communication and sensitivity to the needs of others.’’(16personalities.com [http://16personalities.com]) My Experience: I had a lot of challenging events in my life including, health issues, several relocations to another country, challenging relationships, school/work troubles, and war. All resulted in me being personally acquainted with anxiety, panic attacks, sleep troubles, PTSD and personal crises. Those events transformed my life drastically, I became braver and changed my path. Me Now:  I am checking the box 25-30 years old. At the moment, adjusting to a new period in my life, at a new place and trying to claim my authentic identity after major crises and learning about freshly diagnosed ADHD.  Therefore, unfortunetly not as often on Cups as used to be. We all have periods in life when it is not easy to be 'present' in our own lives, but as Robert Frost once wrote: 'the best way out is always through'. This is especially true when battling a traumatic event.  Thank You for reading until this point, You are a very carrying soul! I hope it helped to get an idea if you feel like writing to me.  _________________________ ✨My Active Roles: Chat Support Peer Support Doorkeeper Group Support Room Mentor Support Team Leader for Sharing Circle Listener Chatroom Supporter Listener Sharing Circle and Sharing Circle Host Safety Patrol My inactive roles: GLDD Academy Mentor Leader CDM Academy mentor Group Chat moderator in Anxiety Support, Relationships Support, Support Plus and Newbie Hub communities _________________________ (I trust my Tweens can support you with issues that are out of my range)   @alwaysindigo [https://www.7cups.com/@alwaysindigo] is my generous, devoted, and very gifted Tea Twin.  They are so electrifying and knowledgeable,  thanks to them I am on my way to speaking a new language.  Indigo [https://www.7cups.com/@alwaysindigo]has experience helping with eating disorders [https://www.7cups.com/eating-disorder-help/],  self-harm [https://www.7cups.com/self-harm/],  bullying [https://www.7cups.com/bullying/], exercise motivation [https://www.7cups.com/how-to-get-motivated-to-exercise/],  forgiveness [https://www.7cups.com/forgiveness/],  [https://www.7cups.com/sleeping-well/]sleeping well [https://www.7cups.com/sleeping-well/] and others. @jovialButterfly6752 [https://www.7cups.com/@alwaysindigo] is my brain mirror image, sometimes it seems we absolutely, can communicate telepathically. Jovi is a tireless innovator and the most efficient leader.    @kindLemonade [https://www.7cups.com/@kindLemonade]i [https://www.7cups.com/@kindLemonade]s my incredible Multipotentialite [https://www.ted.com/talks/emilie_wapnick_why_some_of_us_don_t_have_one_true_calling?language=en#t-181079] Twin. With their kaleidoscopic abilities, they challenge me to be better every day.  @mentalspace7cup [https://www.7cups.com/@mentalspace7cup] is my talented Listener Twin. A very kind, loving and caring person. They can support with issues like depression [https://www.7cups.com/depression-help-online/], loneliness [https://www.7cups.com/how-to-deal-with-loneliness/], eating disorde [https://www.7cups.com/eating-disorder-help/]r,  and others.  @SparkyGizmo [https://www.7cups.com/@SparkyGizmo] is my kind friend. Honorary recipient of Aria's Biggest Heart Award. One of the most encouraging and supportive people here on 7Cups. _____________________________ 🐬 I am so sorry you are going through severe anxiety right now. I know it is very scary and even physically hurtful sometimes, but You will be Ok. It is not a physical failure it is just your brain got scared because of some trigger. A panic attack usually lasts between 5 and 20 minutes, rarely up to an hour (www.nhs.uk [http://www.nhs.uk]) but It Will Pass, it always does.  Please if you have the ability to reach people who can support you it might be a good idea to do so. The most important thing is to get in control of your breathing, it might calm down your brain.  1) Diaphragm breathing helps when you have difficulties breathing and will help to calm down, here is the link to a video guide >Breathing [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8-_NNCrrdus]<   If you need it urgently, the direct instructions about breathing start at 00.43 (You can come back to my profile to try other steps after checking the link)  2) It is possible to use the gif to regulate the birthing rhythm. Just breathe in when the flower opens and out when it closes >Gif to breathe with [https://www.7cups.com/img/exercises/breathing.gif]<. You are doing well! You will calm down soon. 3) To calm the anxiety it is important that we Ground ourselves there are many techniques to do it including Bilateral stimulation. Here is one of them, it is simple and can be done in any situation: > Butterfly [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iGGJrqscvtU]<  If you need it urgently, the direct instructions start at  00.17 You might search for 'grounding technique’, 'bilateral stimulation’, 'dissociation for fear/thoughts’, 'cognitive defusion techniques to find more mechanisms that can help you to calm your anxiety. 4) Defusion, separation from fear. Anxiety usually circles a scary thought in your mind, you feel afraid. Please instead of saying 'I am anxious about… or I am afraid of… ' try to use this templet out loud: 1*st say: I am feeling fear about…..  after saying that  2*say: I have a thought that I am feeling fear about… after go for 3*saying: I have noticed a thought that I am feeling fear about… 5) I am so proud of you for helping yourself and seeking support!  If you feel like it please connect with another Listener. You might benefit from getting in touch with the listener, who has personal experience with Anxiety, to do it click "More filters” -> „Topic” -> „Anxiety" and you will see the list with listeners. Browse for listeners here [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] You are amazing and so strong for coping with anxiety! ❤️ >My love [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=prEtWxsKe3U]< and care are with you! I hope you will feel better as soon as it is only possible. (Please,  write to me a few lines about how are you feeling after the crisis or when you are feeling like it because I am worried about you. I will answer as soon as I see it)
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AnyaS
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Hello! I am a retired 7 Cups Ambassador!
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Mel
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Ambassador Teen Advocate. Teen Only Zone Community Mentor Leader. I'm a doorkeeper so I can open/close rooms per request. Feel free to message me at any time. ------------------------- Thanks for stumbling into my profile :) It's very nice to see you! I'm Mel and I'm a young girl from Buenos Aires, Argentina. I'm a college student majoring in physics. I work as a support teacher for young kids mostly. I love teaching and explaining things - I think everybody deserves their chance at understanding a difficult matter, even if they need more time for it than someone else would.  I'm not much of a talker as a listener. I feel like it's very important that every single person out there has someone to rely on and be there for them. I want you to feel like you can tell me anything on your mind, feel heard, understood and never judged. That's what I aim for. I know I can't change your life nor magically solve your problems (Although I would really like to be able to do that) but I do can promise to be here, as much as possible and as much as you need. I'm your friend and I'll always care about you. I deal my own battles every day and I know that talking helps. You are never alone here. I would like to be a writer someday, because books mean a lot to me. Everything I want is what I write to be special for someone, if I could make at least one (only one) person feel something by something I wrote, I would already feel realized. Writing has always come naturally to me. It's who I am. As a kid, I would always grab a pencil and write, instead of drawing. I would always make stories up in my mind to tell other people. I would always write too much, speak too much, and take too long to tell an anecdote. I was born a storyteller. At the moment, I just do it for fun and for myself or my close ones. Anything else you would like to know about me, feel free to message me and ask, I'm pretty much an open book! and will love to get to know each other more. If you are around here and have any question or need someone to chat or you are a new listener and want a long term mentor to cheer on you and be happy for all your success - I'm your gal.  Much love, Mel. 
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CercaTrova99
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No Longer Using 7 Cups. "Don't measure how valuable you are by the way you are treated"  –Charlie Mackesy  ​
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Kanga
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"​To love means loving the unlovable. To forgive means pardoning the unpardonable. Faith means believing the unbelievable. Hope means hoping when everything seems hopeless." ​-Gilbert K. Chesterton Hi there! My name is Roo, and welcome to my profile! For members:  I am so glad that you've decided to reach out and talk about whatever it is that is on your mind! I know how scary and intimidating it can seem sometimes, but just know that I am here to provide a safe, positive, and nonjudgmental space for you to talk ❤ The topics I specialize in are LGBTQ+ related issues, and anxiety, but I promise to do my best to help you no matter what you may be struggling with! I also am willing to talk about issues regarding sexuality, or issues regarding sex. This does NOT mean I am willing to engage in a sexual chat WHATSOEVER. Some topics I'm not so good at are eating disorders and trauma. Sometimes there is a better suited listener, and I just want to make sure you are receiving the best support possible! If you feel we might not make a good fit, you can click >here [/notes/7cups.com/BrowseListeners]< to browse for other listeners. I DO NOT take chats on self-harm, as these are triggering topics for me. Thank you for understanding! For Listeners: I am also a member of the verifiers team, so I can conduct a mock chat with you to help you earn the verified listeners badge. To learn about this and apply for a mock chat, click >here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerProjectsampTeams_148/VerifiedListenersProjectVLProjectQualityProject_685/IWanttobeaVerifiedListener_46935/1/]< I am a former Quality Teen Star, Support Team Leader, Feed Team Leader, and Chat Supporter/Peer Supporter. If you have any questions regarding to this, don't hesitate to ask! ​​​​  About me My name is Roo and my pronouns are she/her. I live in the USA with my 4 chicken children (and my family of course). I love to dance, read, listen to music, and to paint. I am a self-proclaimed literature JUNKIE and quote enthusiast. I consider myself to be an advocate for mental illness and equality. I believe everyone deserves to feel loved and respected 💕 I am a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, and I support people of all sexual/gender/romantic identities.🌈 I joined 7 cups in May of 2017 while seeking support during a difficult time in my life. In October of 2017 I signed up to be a listener, in hopes of making a positive impact on other's lives, and surrounding myself with love and compassion. I am very passionate about the 7 cups community, and I am always looking for someplace to improve myself :) Lovely person reading my bio, here are some things I want you to know: You are strong. Stronger than you could ever know. You are alive, right now, at this very moment! Do you know how much strength it takes to just be alive? ⭐ You are beautiful. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Often times we lack the ability to see the beauty in ourselves that others see in us. Regardless of how you look, you are beautiful, inside and out.  ⭐ You are worth it. Your self worth can not be measured by anything anyone says, or what your brain tells you either! You deserve love, happiness, and respect. You deserve to get better. ⭐ I believe in you. I think that everyone has the ability to heal, to pursue their goals, and to have good mental health. You are no different! No matter what is going on in your life, or how difficult your struggles might be, I am rooting for you! ⭐ I am here for you. We all come from different walks of life, and I will never judge you because of yours. I am here to support you and offer kindness, sympathy, and compassion. I hope that we can be friends! ⚠This account is a SAFE SPACE for ALL. Anyone who tries to invade that safe space WILL be blocked & reported IMMEDIATELY.⚠
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kindLemonade
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I am not taking on any new member chat. Please find other listeners >here< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] Due to commitments offline, I am unable to support you as much as I wish to. I am currently working full-time, so it's difficult to find time to give you the best of me, as a listener. Thank you for reading. Progress Not Perfection  When life gives you Lemonade, practice mindfulness ‣Free Mindfulness Exercises > [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]HERE [https://www.7cups.com/exercises/mindfulness/]< [https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] What are your favorite self-care activities?  TWINNIE ‣ 🐺 [https://emojipedia.org/emoji/%F0%9F%90%BA/] Wolfie Twinnie: @DigitalKnight ‣ 🎶 Events Twinnie: @Star996  ‣ ❤️ [https://emojipedia.org/red-heart/#:~:text=A%20classic%20red%20love%20heart,other%20for%20two%20consecutive%20weeks.] Room Supporter Twinnie: @MilaTheListener ‣ 👽 Alien Twinnie: @mentalspace7cup [https://www.7cups.com/@mentalspace7cup]   ‣ 🎨 Multipotentialite [http://www.ted.com/talks/emilie_wapnick_why_some_of_us_don_t_have_one_true_calling?language=en#t-181079] Twinnie:  @AriadneLove (she made my profile picture!) ‣ 👭🏼 Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/PeerSupport_397/UpcomingPeerSupportTrainingDiscussions_253073/]Twinnie: @unique73 ‣💅 Self-care & Higs Twinnie: @jovialButterfly6752 MY PAST ROLES  I am a verified listener, mentor, and global forum supporter on 7cups ACADEMY ‣Academy Mentor for CDM (Content Development & Marketing) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ContentVolunteerTeam_198/ContentDevelopmentandMarketingProgramCDM_2192/] & GLDD ‣Graduate for GLDD, LDP & Internship, QLP & CDM (with honors)  ‣Project agent for LDP SUB-COMMUNITY ‣Co-Support Team Leader for Healthy Living ‣Chatroom Moderator for Healthy Living, Positivity & Gratitude, Mindfulness Center OTHERS ‣Peer Supporter ‣Listener Chatroom Supporter ‣Doorkeeper ‣Discussion Host for Listener Discussion, Peer Support Discussion, ALE sessions, Pop-up events, Past: LCI, LSC, SC ‣Others: Team Lightship, Project Agent for Sharing Circle & Listener Sharing Circle 
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Mercylistensalways
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I'm Mercy. I am here for you. It is my pleasure to support you.   
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AutumnLeigh
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SmileyPower
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*LEFT CUPS* Hello! I'm so glad you have found me on 7 cups of tea. I'm a verified and trained adult-teen listener and I'm here to listen to you and support you in the best way I can. Members You are free to message me and I will try to respond as soon as possible. How I do chats? I'm doing 1 hour for live (scheduled) chats. Listeners Feel free to message me for any questions you might have Projects and roles I'm involved 🔸 Group Moderator (ex) 🔸 Peer Support (ex) 🔸 Verified Listener 🔸 Safety Patrol Team 🔸Support Session Leader (ex) 🔸Safety Patrol Outreach Team (team member) (ex) 🔸 Quality Mentor (ex)
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Yourstruly2000
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chats i dont take: self harm, loneliness Get in here!! Everything will be alright , we will figure this out together, Do not worry!! I am here for you.
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