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I am afraid I am no longer taking support requests/listening requests. If you are looking for a supportive listener, please find one here!
I am Misty.I am a trained and verified active adult and teen Listener, and I am very glad you found me on 7 cups of Tea. **** ~ ***** * ***** ~ *****I am happy to listen to you on many topics. I have experience of lots of different areas - anxiety, depression, bi-polar and mental illness, families and relationships, love, school, college or work related problems, financial stress, healthy living, food, diets, eating disorders, I can also offer support for chronic pain, illness and disabilities. I am part of both the adult and the teen listening team, (and yes I can still remember being a teen lol) and I also offer long term support to those that I can and who are in need.
I am happy to take chats on Coronavirus CoVid19 wuhan and 7 Cups has a whole category of forums devoted to the topic here:-https://www.7cups.com/forum/QuarantineSupportCoronaVirusCoVID19_201/If I am not online then you are welcome to leave me a message - but please tell me what you want to talk about so we can get off to a flying start. I will get back to you when I am next able, but please bear in mind that I get a lot of messages and I will reply to the most urgent first so if you just say hi, do you really just want a hi back?At weekends my response will be slower as that is usually my time off from 7Cups, and I may not respond to new requests till Monday.
I hope you understand that. We all need time for ourselves to recharge our batteries and relax. ONE STEP AT A TIME"We all have different size footsteps that we leave behind on our journey through life.
Sometimes we can change the size of our footsteps, the imprint, the impact, the direction.
Sometimes our footsteps land on rock and they do not show, or they land on sand and stay for a while,
Other times they get washed away by massive oceans or powerful waves.
But each and every footstep is important in so many ways.
Ways that we may not even know about.Watch your step, think about your steps, plan your next step, and the rest will follow." Listening ... one step at a time
Butterflies are a symbol of hope that we can all change from a small
brown grub into a beautiful amazing butterfly! One step at a time!
Okurrrr! Heya there! I'm Lex. I know it can be daunting for you to talk about what you're going through to a total stranger like me but if you just want someone to listen to you or you just want to rant or you need help on certain issues or you just want to chat, I'm here for you. I'll support you to the best of my ability and you can feel safe talking to me.If you want to schedule a chat with me, do NOT put your email in the box that requests for it. Put an obviously fake email (eg. firstname.lastname@example.org) instead. If I receive a scheduled event with a possibly real email, I will cancel it and it will not be acknowledged. Thank you 😁Schedule a chat with meI am only comfortable with chats about:
✨ Depression ✨
✨ Bullying ✨
✨ Eating Disorders ✨
✨ Panic and Anxiety Attacks ✨
✨ Forgiveness ✨
✨ Anxiety and Social Anxiety ✨
✨ Loneliness ✨
✨ Self Esteem ✨
✨ General Mental Health ✨
✨ Managing Emotions ✨
✨ PTSD/Trauma ✨
✨ Weight Management ✨
✨ Exercise Motivation ✨
✨ Student Life ✨
If the topic you'd like to discuss is not listed here then feel free to click here to look for another listener to support you
🌟 Roles 🌟Peer Supporter - If you had a hard chat or a chat that left you feeling triggered or unsettled, I can help you feel better.Listener Verifier - If you're interested in being a verified listener, I can help you with that. Feel free to look at the requirements hereDiscussions Leader - I host weekly discussions on different topicsSafety Patrol Team - I keep 7 Cups safe for everyoneTranslator - I'm a member of the Translation Team and I help translate the site into French🌟 Listener Shoutouts 🌟
💜 @saltinecrackers22 is my close listener friend and my almost bday twin 💙 @Dababy9322 is another super awesome friend of mine
💚 @YaboiRogers is one of the chillest and funniest people I've met and they're super fun to talk to
🧡 @RiverHudson1 is one of the most supportive people I've met; can be super blunt as well xD
**IMPORTANT PLEASE READ THE BELOW INFORMATION BEFORE MESSAGING IF YOUR A MEMBER for chats please see my catagories what topics i can cant do & Listener if wanting mentoring/mock chats to get verified/or mentoring mocks**
id prefer SCHEDULED chats only you can use the book now at bottom of bio if you cant see this pm me and ill give you the link for it .since im super busy with my other roles . Thankyou For understandingAbout me
Hey all my names Brit. I’ve been a listener for 4 years almost 5 .I'm a verified ATL too I'll only take chats for one hour slots at a time if you need regular we will set up a time and date after every chat i take Always accepting long term members .Teams I’m OnPeer supporter this is for the listeners who get rough chats we also can support the Mentors in answering any questions you may have Peer Supporter BuddyGroup ModeratorSupport teams : Disability Support , Self Harm and TraumaVL team- Project Agent for VL (1-1 trainings and member checkins )Chat Support i can give ongoing chat support if you are Stuck in a chat also able to give basic mentoring------ if you cant find a chat support in LSR you can use this link to fill a form in to request one Chat Support formQuality Mentor Leader for VL Track - Adult Coordinator -here are some VL Links you wish to become verified here's how - How to become a Verified Listener & Ask Me Anything about VL!DJ Of 7CupsQ&A approval team (Answers and editing answers)ATL (Adult Teen ListenerForum Mentor DisabilityForum Mentor for Trauma SubcomForum Supporter Self HarmSafety Patrol Team checking profiles follow guidelines
My Listener Twins are : MagicallySmiles50 , PalmTreesNRainbows, BeckyisHere ( bunny twinny) and RumpleSteeleSkin
Please click below on the book now if you wish to book a chat with meClick HERE to book me if you cant see the above button
**Please note changes** I'M CURRENTLY TAKING A BREAK FROM CHATS AT THIS TIME..... I APOLOGIZE.. HOWEVER, PLEASE FEEL FREE TO BROWSE FOR ANOTHER ONE OF OUR MANY WONDERFUL, AVAILABLE LISTENERS. "BROWSE LISTENERS HERE" (However, my Pm's are always open if you are in need of help or assistance "outside" of chats.)~
Hello, Glad you found me here on 7cups of Tea. I am PoliteOcean~ (You can call me "OCEAN")~~ I'm a Spouse, a Parent, and also registered in the Healthcare Field.~ I am also a fitness instructor with a passion for Dance, ZUMBA, & POUND~.... I am here to listen,support and not judge and will be glad to talk with you! I cannot solve all problems but I've gone through many of my own personal issues so perhaps I can help! Please feel free to contact me. If I'm away, please leave me a message. My Pm's are always open.**LISTENING STRENGTHS**
*CURRENTLY ACTIVE IN***Community Ambassador* Community Mentor Leader* Adult Chatroom Mentor* Forum Mentor*Teen "Chatroom" & Teen "Quality" Mentor* Group Support Quality Mentor* Support Room Mentor* Healthy Living Team ~ (Team Leader)
* Group Moderator* Discussion Trainer* Welcome Committee* Verified Listening Team *** MY LISTENING TWINS***
Welcome to my profile! I have been a listener on here since June 2016. I spend most of my time studying to become a licensed therapist and working fast food. If I don't reply to you, don't get discouraged. There are hundreds of listeners. I encourage you to message ones with a green light for immediate response. If you need short-term support or just have some questions, feel free to message me. Anything else that is urgent, please either message another listener or give me time!Fraternal Twins with MidnightRaven999
Due to my busy schedule i’m unavailable to take 1-1 chats so if you are seeking support, please find and connect with a listener here!🔸Unfortunately I DO NOT take any kinds of sexual (orientation or topics), suicidal, or self harm chat requests.🔸🔻Read before clicking to chat with me!🔻"Life's like a cup of Tea, it's all in how you make it"📍 MY LISTENING STYLE 📍GMT+8 / UTC+8 / EST+12 timezoneMy chat lasts 30-45 minutes and I'm generally around during Monday - Thursday 5AM to 9AM ET with breaks in between. My status is rarely online now but you can still pm me. But please allow me to reply back within 3-7 days. If I'm already chatting with you please feel free to send me a message! If i don't reply you for over a week, please know that my chat logs are many so it may have been lost in it, feel free to pm me back if i missed you!My style is mostly messaging back and forth through out the day(s) since i have no set schedule. If we were to be online on the same time, in that time I’ll totally focus on you, to listen and support you, yet I can't provide you any advice. If we speak and you appreciate our conversation, I appreciate it if please let me know in a review!Chinese and Malay is my native language with English but I'm not as fluent as others. I'm sorry in advance if it sounds awkward or if i said wrong, please correct me on this if i do so as im willing to learn more. Feel free to message me if you would like to chat in these languages. I am Proficient in English, with Chinese and Malay as a secondary language and a minor in Japanese.New and Current members are encouraged to read the topics I take, If I do, you can make an appointment HERE
Booking an appointment ensures that I will be online and focused on You. If you prefer offline just pm me and I'll reply as soon as I can🔆 USEFUL RESOURCES 🔆If you are having suicial thoughts, Please click www.imalive.org or www.befrienders.org to seek for support.
If you are self-harming, or any crisis situation Please click www.imalive.org or www.suicide.org to seek for support.
If you are suffering abuse, Please click www.rainn.org or safehelpline.org to seek for support.
If you are seeking support on COVID-19, you can find 7Cups resource page here🔹ABOUT ME 🔹Hi! I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea. I'm an active and verified listener and I love to listen to your story! I'll try my best to help you out in anything you want to talk to me with! For Listeners, I'm also here to hear you out as a peer supporter or casual chat! So don't hesistate to pm me 💖I'm Tea, and I'm in my 20s, she/her pronouns, single and i dont have much experience with relationships. Currently pursuing my bachelor degree in Architecture. I don't have many friend in my life and had conflicts over the years because I'm just different in whatever i try but I still stand strong until now. I had suffered from social anxiety, anxiety, overthinking, loneliness, slight depression, bullying and minor eating disorders throughout my life, though I've never been officially diagnosed. I would dwell on it too but i would just want to believe i can do it despite the odds. My family members has been a great support for me and I would love to be able to help others in the same way they have helped me. My listener twins: If I'm not on and you need urgent chat, you can find them as well. They're wonderful! : @HelloWorld29 and @meltingstonesFUN FACT: Im “The Mediator” (INFP-T) personality and a HUGE anime/manga fan. Read more on my Feed here🔺 MY ROLES HERE ON 7CUPS 🔺✿ Adult-Teen Listener (ATL)
✿ Adult Quality Mentor
✿ Community Mentor Leader for Student & Career Support
✿ Forum Supporter for YPOC
✿ Global Group Mod
✿ Internship Mentor
✿ Internship Graduate (with Honors)
✿ Listener Verifier Team
✿ Needs Reply Team
✿ Peer Supporter/Peer Support Buddy
✿ Q&A Team
✿ Safety Patroller
✿ SPOT Team
✿ Translator [Chinese & Malay] Last Edited on 2 June 2020
| Teen Quality Mentor | Teen Transition Mentor |Active Listening 1 (Grading & Feedback)You can call me Abhe!Greetings, I'm so glad that you've reached out for help. I know that life can seem like a complicated journey sometimes. During this time, it is not unusual to feel overwhelmed, confused or frustrated. My goal is to provide comfort and care for you as well as a safe and non-judgemental space to talk about everything and anything. Sometimes we just want someone to listen, and even that alone can be therapeutic. I am willing to listen to you and help you understand your thoughts and feelings better. You don't have to feel you are alone on the journey.
Hi! I’m sorry that I’m rarely here lately. 😌
There have been a number of unusual events. I had several bouts of extended bronchitis and pneumonia, which knocked me to bits. I had my first asthma attack, which was no picnic.
And I experienced two unexpected but deep loves that have been the most extraordinary of my life. A special baby->toddler I was caring for, and a lovely man who reawakened a part of me that I had buried long ago.
Also, after being one of the earliest listeners at 7 Cups (joining in August 2013), with many warm and wonderful times, I had two very bad experiences in late 2017 and early 2018. I pondered why it occurred, how it came about, and the extent of my own responsibility. Very difficult. I became uncertain. And afraid, and the joy drained out of being here.
Plus, I turned 66 years old in 2018. It feels unreal to keyboard that. Yet, from January through mid-April 2019, I worked more than 60 hours per week at my three part-time jobs. (Yes, one of my weaknesses is being unable to say Nowhen people express a need for my help.)
Anyway, in April 2019, I quit two of my jobs. Time for Annie to reach out for her dreams.
I’m going to live in France for three months starting in September 2019. I have signed up for four cultural exchanges that provide room and meals in exchange for volunteer work like teaching. I’m so excited, I keep grinning all day.
Access to internet will be sketchy. If you write to me, it could be weeks before I can reply, I’m so sorry!
Love and peace to all. ☀️🙏🏼❤️
(* Sometimes we can't talk with a friend or family member because it's too confidential. But we need to talk with someone, just to share what's going on with a friendly person. I'm here to listen. *)
"You are always one decision away from a totally different life."Hello everyone, I'm known as Obs and I'm one of the members of the Community Management Team. Here are some resources in case you need them -
If you are unable to see any group support rooms, probably you would need to meet some requirements. Check them here!
Join us in various group discussions? check the community calendar for the schedule and details. Group Support Frequently Asked QuestionsWeekly CommunityMod & Rooms ScheduleA few steps of growth as a listener
If you are a listener and need some Chat Support, check this resource Please feel free to PM me with any questions or doubts regarding our community and roles. I am here with you to help with the best of my efforts while we keep building our community better each day with team efforts. I am unable to take chat requests right now as I am unable to respond timely. I request you to connect with other available listeners here- Browse Listeners. We all are here with you to listen and support. Do not say, "I am having a bad day." Say, "I am having a character-building day." - Les BrownHave a wonderful day and thanks for stopping by!!