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Just a danishÂ guy trying his best to make the world a better place
hi thanks for contacting 7cups we hope we can help you my name is Beko and I'm here to assist you I like (programming/video game) I went through a lot in my life and hopefully I can help you from my experience and feel free to send a message even if I was offline I will reach out to you when I came back online
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Hi! My name is Lynn, and I'm glad you've found me! I'm a trained listener with a degree in English and psychology as well as professional training in peer counseling. I am NOT a professional psychologist, and I cannot provide therapy services. My scholarly focuses were in ethnic, cultural and gender studies, and psychological studies in abnormal psychology and human sexuality. You'll find me to be exceptionally open-minded and able to talk about practically anything that is on your mind. I am GLBTQ+ friendly. I have personal experience with a number of things, and my professional training has focused mostly on sexuality, depression/anxiety management, and autism spectrum disorder. In my free time, I enjoy writing, movies, and MUSIC!!! Feel free to reach out to me anytime I'm online, and if I'm not, I'll respond to messages as soon as I can after getting notice.
Please read previous member reviews before connecting with me. If you're a fellow listener, I appreciate your interest, but I will hold you accountable to the listener agreement and will not provide emotional wellness support outside the parameters of that agreement, no exceptions!
I am, in general, an acute situation listener. I focus on immediate needs. This means I'm not likely to "just chat" though I am open to doing so. Just note that I focus on emotional crisis first.Â I do not have long-term relationship availability at this time.Â
I am also a person living with ASD. My vocabulary and style of speech has been accused of being mean, harsh, aggressive, you name it, I've heard it. I cannot help it, and I cannot change it. Believe me, I've tried. If you're sensitive to that sort of thing, it's best to move on! This being said, IÂ amÂ a person and I have feelings. All I can do is try my best, but I limit my support list for a reason and ask certain questions at the start so we can be on the same page.
My style is to talk about progressive approaches and necessary steps, whether or not they "feel good"... I'm not one to try and package up harsh realities in fuzzy packages. I firmly believe that every adult has the ultimate responsibility for their feelings and their response to those feelings, so a discussion with me will be about accountability, self-honesty and can sometimes be a "rude" reality check. My expectation for members that talk to me is that they have read this description and accept that this is what they will get from me; that I expect them to be a grown adult, able to speak about issues with maturity and a desire for affirmation and change, and will understand that it is up to them and them alone where the power lies. I am simply a facilitator in your own conversation with yourself; if something I say is sharp, hits home, there is a reason.
Generally speaking, I do not provide support for relationship issues, domestic violence, sexual trauma, discussions of incest and/or other non-consensual sexual experiences. I do not provide detailed discussions of sexual desires, fetishes or dysfunctions; if you need help in this area, I recommend working with a professional.I cannot discuss self-harm, suicidal ideation/events, or abuse events. Please seek support from another listener if you need this kind of help, or reach out to suicide.org
As any listener on here has the right to do, I reserve the right and ability to set conversational boundaries and protect myself as an emotional being. If at any time I feel that either involved party is at risk during our conversations, I will advise as much and do my best to direct the member to the best path.
While I have professional training and education, I cannot provide therapy services or fill in as a replacement for your mental health professional.Â
*Not taking new chats at the moment due to time constraints!**Life is a journey that everyone goes through. Think of it as a story told by you. There are many ups in life as well as many downs but it is up to the author of each story to determine the next chapter.* ~Anya Members/GuestMental health is important 365 days/year. Many people suffer from mental health struggles but they are too afraid to speak about it because of the stigma all around us. But whatâs harder than dealing with mental health issues, is pretending that you arenât struggling. You shouldnât have to pretend like you are always okay, out of fear that others will judge you or talk about you or think any less of you. No matter what you are dealing with, you are still you. The only thing that matters is that you know your strength and your courage, and let me tell you, everything that you are is more than enough, no matter who you are or what you are going through. So donât be ashamed of any part of it. Your battles are what shape you into the strong and amazing person you are. And no matter what anyone tells you, itâs okay not to feel that you are strong and amazing every day. Itâs okay not to believe it for a while. Itâs okay to struggle. I assure you, you are not alone. Every single one of us goes through that at some point or another.I will always be here to listen to your story, and I will not ever judge you, or make you feel ashamed of what you are going through, or see you as anything less than the wonderful person you are. Because I know that at the end of the day, the one who has the courage to speak about it, is the one who is the bravest of them all.ListenersI want you all to remember that you guys are truly amazing. Spending time on here to help others during your free time shows dedication, compassion, and kindness on your part. Thank you so much for doing this. I know that all of our fellow members truly appreciate it! Got a question for me? Feel free to send me a message at any time and I will get back to you as soon as I can!
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Aloha, I'm Moana!I'm currently occupied with other things on this site so my response rate will be very slow.Â
I'm currently doing only one member chat a week due to time constraints! If I don't reply right away, feel free to poke me again. â¤Â
I'm not always fast with responding so it is possible I am around the site but will still take time to get back to you, this is because I have some other commitments on the site!For members - You're all awesome and brave to reach out for help! The topics I'm comfortable with are listed on my profile but I'm still open to talk about anything that is on your mind! If you do message me, please include what you want to talk about. If you're just greeting me, it might be hard to schedule a chat without knowing what we have to talk about. So, I would appreciate if you let me know what's on your mind in your initial message. I'm not accepting personal requests and only taking one member chat from the General Requests. So, if you're looking for a listener it would be best if you search for another listener from the Browse Listeners Page. I hope you will understand!For listeners - You're amazing! Having doubts with your listening is natural and completely fine. I'm a Quality Teen Star and a part of Quality Coaching Team. I'm currently not accepting mentees due to my role as CTSL for TSEBI, it will take me some time to get back to accepting some mentee requests, I hope you will understand. Although if you have any questions or want to get more involved in the community, feel free to PM me and I will get back to you as soon as I can!Some of the roles I have here are -Chat SupporterPeer SupporterQuality Teen StarCommunity Teen Star Leader for Teen Self-Esteem & Body Image sub-communityÂ
Hey All Iâm Tamara!Â
I AM NOT ACCEPTING NEW MEMBERS AT THIS TIME!!MY INVOLVEMENT IS PEER SUPPORTSAFETY PATROL WELCOMING TEAM MEMBER DISCUSSION LEADERTEAM MEMBERVERIFIED LISTENER
VERIFIED LISTENING TEAM
Hello! I'm Blaze
I am not taking any new 1-on-1 support chats. You can find another listener here:Browse Listeners
If you do contact me, please leave a message saying what you need and how I can help you. I will not reply to single messages saying "hi" or "I have a problem" and nothing else. This goes for both Members and Listeners.
Iâm strongly focused on Quality ProjectsÂ on 7 Cups.Â Iâm a Quality Mentor. If you're a Listener and would like toÂ get in touch with a Quality Mentor, you can message me.Quotes
Do not listen with the intent to reply, but with the intent to understand. ~Stephen Covey
Not accepting New Chats at this time! Please feel free to reach out to another one of our great Listeners for support. YOU ARE IMPORTANT!!!*Please Note that I have limited availability at this time but please feel free to reach out and I will be happy to set up a time a time for us to chat."No Act of KINDNESS, no matter how small is ever wasted"Hello, I am so glad that you have found me and I want to be here and help you with whatever struggle you are going through. I can't solve your problems, but I can offer a safe place for you to open up and talk about what is going on. I don't have set available days or times when I am online but most likely to be found in the evening est. If you want to chat and I am not online please feel free to leave me a message and I will get back to you as soon as I can. I would greatly appreciate it if you would leave a review after a chat as it helps me as a listener learn and grow.Â If you are looking for other listeners you can also reach out to My very awesome Listener Twins: musicalMagic, and TsukinoTheHag . Without them I wouldn't have gotten this far in my journey.
Hey there! I am 30. I am from Panama. I love music... Let's chat!
Listener twin:Â charmingTime
I am a verified listener and my next goal it's to become a peer supporter as well.Â Also, just for you to know I am comfortable listening any of the topics, it's just that there are some that I still need some training so I'd rather let other listener trained in the topic to speak to you for better attention. I am working on that =)Â Please not sexting, not flirting for this is not a place for this. If you are struggling with, for instance, incest or obsession with pornography or something like that is sexual related but it's a real problem that affects your every-day life or just want to vent about it, you have a lending ear in me.Â
If you need someone to listen to you more often that is out of my possibilities, please consider looking another listener at:Â https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/
Also, you can look for a long-term listener or a therapist. It's completely up to you, you know best what do you need and what suits you better.Â
Right now I am not accepting long-term members, sorryyy but it's really hard for me. I'll make, however, follow-ups from time to timeÂ Â
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