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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

juhirashOA
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hintofdave
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Hello, welcome to my place on 7 cups of tea. I am currently not available to additional chat requests. I'm a trained listener and I like to hear true colors. I have gone through a divorce and a number of years of therapy. My time in therapy helped me understand and appreciate the person I truly am as opposed to the person I thought I needed to be or should be. At the moment, I am considering applying to a counseling master's program and have taken a couple of counseling courses as a non-degree student. I like walks to the nearby river; I have a Bianchi Milano bike that I'm fond of. I like Fluevog shoes; Dr Marten sandals; felt slippers from Etsy; Oshkosh overalls; dead-stock Old Navy bootcut jeans; Amy Butler towels; artisan bread; music: Beck, Breeders, Bob Dylan (esp. Nashville Skyline and Love and Theft), early Neko Case, Concretes, Camera Obscura, Isobel Campbell, Jenny O.
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pamharley003
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***** Not taking any 1-1 chats right now please use https://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ to find a Listener. ***** Will not take any chats with sex of any nature  I am sorry ***** *****twins with @Thedoctorno12 *****                   Adult and Teen Listener I am  a long term listener and a verfied listener on 7 cups. I also have the door keeper badge. Chat's I do take: Anxiety BipolarBorderline (BPD) BreakupsBullying Chronic Pain Depression Diabetes Disabilities Domestic Violence Eating Disorders Exercise MotivationFamily Stress Financial Stress Forgiveness General Mental Health Getting Unstuck Grief LonelinessManaging Emotions Panic AttacksParenting PTSD/Trauma Relationship Stress Self-Esteem Sleeping Social Anxiety Spirituality Student Life Weight Management Work Stress *** I will repsond back to Your PM'S when I return online ****
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ShadowFaerie
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Hi, I'm Faerie, & I'm glad you found me here on 7cups I would like the opportunity to "hold your hand" through whatever subject you need help with, whether light or heavy. I will take the time to listen, without judgement. I'm a verified listener here, in the "35+" age group, & I have experience working with adolescents & adults, (including LGBTQIA+), professionally, & in volunteer positions. I have experience with a wide range of topics, including family issues, relationship issues, dv, rape, abuse, painful breakups, disabilities, homelessness, chronic pain, addictions & other speed-bumps/road-blocks that life throws us, often when least expected. I enjoy cooking, reading, painting (watercolors and sometimes acrylic), writing creatively, being independent, having picnics outside, music (of all different genres) & sci-fi, among many other things. Welcome! I look forward to meeting you! "Our sorrows and wounds are healed only when we touch them with compassion". Buddha If my status icon is Red 🔴 I am currently unavailable and I will try to return your message as soon as possible but it could take a while. Please allow for up to 24 hours. If my status icon is Orange 🟠 I am busy with another member or with other roles here. I will return your message as soon as possible but it may take an hour or two If my status icon is Green 🟢 I am available and should return your message shortly Special thanks and cheers to my bubbly, energetic listener twin from down under @bouncyCandy4246
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GlenM
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Welcome to 7 Cups! I'm the chief cook and bottle washer here. I love 7 cups and the community we have built. Really proud of all that we've accomplished and excited to see how we continue to evolve. I unfortunately do not have much time for listening, but please drop me a note if you have thoughts or feeback. Glad you are here!
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Kyoshi
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Open to new members (also long term) I'm planet hd 18977 3b ✧✧✧ 𝓐𝓵𝓵 𝔂𝓸𝓾 𝓷𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓲𝓼 𝓯𝓪𝓲𝓽𝓱, 𝓽𝓻𝓾𝓼𝓽 𝓪𝓷𝓭 𝓪 𝓵𝓲𝓽𝓽𝓵𝓮 𝓫𝓲𝓽 𝓸𝓯 𝓹𝓲𝔁𝓲𝓮 𝓭𝓾𝓼𝓽 ✧✧✧ I don’t have to be an expert I just have to care -------------------------  About me: Hello there! I'm Kyoshi (Kyo), my pronouns are they/them. I'm 25 years old and passionate about mental health. I strongly believe in self reflecting and growth because there is always space for improvement. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Boundaries are an important aspect of listening, not just for me but also for you as member.  During our chats you will experience; - A safe space for you to vent and share; our chat is your safe space to talk about anything on your mind. What you share during our chats will stay in our chats. - A non judgemental enviourment; there wont be any judgement from me during our chats. Disclaimer: I'm not a professional, although I have knowledge on DID/OSDD and advocate for a better support system and safe place on cups for those with DID/OSDD(and questioning) I cannot provide a diagnosis, to be diagnosed with a Dissociative disorder you have to work with a professional that specializes in such cases. Thank you for understanding •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•   Topics I’m comfortable with      -Dissociative Disorders  Dissociation  Dissociative Identity Disorder Other Specified Dissociative Disorder  -Trauma/PTSD Child abuse  Sexual abuse/assault Trafficking Ritual abuse Mind control Organized abuse Domestic violence Religious abuse -Family Stress  Parenting Foster care (also for parents who have children in the system) Also open to casual chat note: I only provide support on the topics mentioned above as I have personal experience in those and can relate to you. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────•  Status Green: I am currently online and accepting new personal requests, my response time will be within a few minutes. Orange: I am online but occupied with other tasks on cups, either I'm already in a chat with someone or I can be found in one of the rooms. My response time can vary (5-15min) Red: I'm currently offline and not available on cups, please leave me a message and I will come back to you in 48 hours. •──────•°•ʕ•ᴥ•ʔ•°•──────• Leadership roles -Group support mentor I mentor specific areas to strengthen and improve specific areas in the group support chats, if you have questions regarding group support you can reach out to me  -Chatroom Moderator (global) I help keep the rooms safe, supportive and inclusive! -Chatroom mentor  I help keep the listener rooms supportive and inclusive and I mentor listeners on their listener journey  -Chat support   I support listeners with difficult ongoing chats and answer listener journey related questions, if you need help with anything related to listening feel free to message me -Doorkeeper  I can open and close rooms, if you need to have a room open or closed please message me  -Safety Patrol I flag accounts that go against site guidelines, if you find an account that needs flagging please send me a message ------------------------- Helpful forum posts I have written everything below is clickable -Information on DID [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/DIDDissociativeIdentityDisorderexplainedandhowtohelp_254545/] -Differences between OSDD-1(a,b) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/OSDD1OSDD1aOSDD1bTheDifferences_263532/] -Different roles in a DID/OSDD system [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/DissociationRelatedDisorders_2335/TRIGGERWARNINGDIDOSDDAltertypesrolesexplained_263478/] -Information on religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiouschildAbuse_266210/] -How to support someone who experienced religious abuse [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/ChildAbuseDomesticAbuse_601/triggerwarningReligiousabuseandhowtosupportsomeone_266350/] -Fight and flight response [https://www.7cups.com/forum/TraumaSupport_60/EventsDiscussionsResources_2334/FightorFlightResponseTriggerwarning_264481/]
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ecstaticocean
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Bella20
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I do NOT take sexual chats of any kind. Please do not request me if it is sexual in any kind of nature Hiya everyone! My name is Kayla. 😊  I would like to start out by saying that I am super excited to be here as a listener! I have been through a lot in my life. Without all of the trauma and challenges, I wouldn't be who I am today and I wouldn't change anything given the chance. 🥰 I have personal experience with many different  areas of Addiction and I’m also 2.5 years sober as well! I am very passionate about listening and helping others. Everything listed as chats that I take, are issues that I have personal experience with. 💕 HOURS I AM AVAILABLE ***(Hours are subject to change dependent upon my personal life)*** Monday through Friday: 6pm - 11pm EST time Saturdays: 9pm - 12:00am EST time Sundays: Self-Care Day, Not available for chats, May take a few but it truly depends on the circumstances of the day for me ***If I am offline when you message me, I will respond as soon as I can!*** CHATS I TAKE✅: Work Stress Panic Attacks Alcohol/Drug Abuse Chronic Pain Family Stress Forgiveness Parenting PTSD Relationship Stress Women's Issues Self Esteem Spirituality CHATS I DO NOT TAKE❌: Anxiety Depression Sexual Health (I will not take any chats that are sexual in any nature. Whether that be fantasies, roleplays, or in general sexual health.) Domestic Violence Grief Loneliness Men's Issues  Personality Disorders Self-Harm Schizophrenia  Everything that is said between me and you will remain between me and you. 💕  Remember: YOU ARE ENOUGH! AND YOU ARE LOVED! ♥️ Looking to send an appreciation for a listener or member? Click the button below to spread some smiles🥰 Peer Appreciation Form Button [https://www.7cups.com/forum/AppreciationGratitude_170/AppreciationProgram_2310/PeerAppreciationFormButton_285738/] Community Projects I am a part of: ⭕ Peer Supporter ✨ ⭕ Listener Chatroom Supporter ✨ ⭕Room Supporter for Member Community Room/Sharing Circle/Support Room 24/7 ✨  ⭕ Peer Appreciation Team  (Star Leader, Dashboard Designer, and Smile Spreader 💕) ✨ ⭕ Leadership Development Program ✨ Listener Twins: @OllieRNLI999 💕 & @MindfulJourney22 💕 Mentors: @Kristynsmama🌸 & @Sunisshiningandsoareyou🌸 LINKS FOR MEMBERS Moderator/Listener Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScmfpQqScgcFxOSHveQfbP52m-XNu-DBC6oK7ieTHrGQ4hJ3w/viewform] Why did I get this warning? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/underconstruction_44686/] Rules of Engagement [https://www.7cups.com/forum/Welcome_27/CommunityGuidelinesandProtocol_446/RulesofEngagement_62/1/] Member FAQ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/InformationUpdates_822/GroupSupportMemberFAQ_37007/] Group Support Chat Room Emergency [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScRXkwrrPicWRzUvBPYq2wrblHE5HexqFmVA3k3B4QLEoNyHw/viewform] Report A Missing Discussion/Event [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSe8EnUN-ZDdjEBQDP5D6-vi2noQdLndJ2H13woo89UhxlkhlQ/viewform] LINKS FOR LISTENERS Sign Up to be a Group Mod [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScX7nNahJocq0tgDYBesRicWxTfExFCe5QMI-O-04K-qBjZrA/viewform] Sign Up to be a Room Supporter [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSetyJ7jp7W52-EIpqvFYLhfmpsgTW4BbzUwmi9r22OQ9AdH8w/viewform] Become a Peer Support [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenersOnlyForums_38/PeerSupportForum_397/PeerSupportBadgeGetInvolvedSupportTheCommunity_2474/1/] Join a Support Team [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/]  [https://www.7cups.com/forum/GroupSupportChatRooms_140/KatesCave_1395/JoinASupportTeamUpdatedInfo_102743/] New Listener Hub [https://www.7cups.com/home/welcome/?notifyID=178791978] Apply to Become an Adult-Teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/WelcometotheListenerLearningSupportForum_59/ApplytobeanAdultTeenListenerHere_1035/1/]
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Juul
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Welcome to 7Cups! My name is Julia and I can be your listener.   I'll try to help you by sharing my personal experiences and providing a safe space where you can share your story.  I'd really appreciate it if you'd leave a review after our session! We can have one session or talk daily/weekly/monthly. Things might seem dark right now, but I promise, there's light at the end of the tunnel!  Love, Julia
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Ranaeil
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Thank you for finding my little spot here at 7cups. I will do my best to listen to you and hear you out. I can't guarantee solutions, only a listening ear. Some areas where I can best support are: anxiety, grief, disability. I enjoy listening to music, playing video games and reading. I have had my share of rough patches in life, but I came out on the other side. My current roles here at 7cups: •Chatroom Mentor •Chat Support •Peer Support •Safety Patrol Team Member •Anonymous Evaluation Team Member I do not take pregnancy or parenting chats.
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LovingSparkle
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                                                                                           Hello! :) I am Rio and my pronouns is they / them. Im studying social work. Usually my listening time will be around an hour once a week or 2 x 30 min twice a week. I do accept chats, if it is a topic I support. If you are contacting me, please let me know in a few words what our conversation will be about. Feel free to message me.
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AlphaDom
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The toughest opponent you’re ever going to have to face is yourself “I believe there’s an inner power that makes winners or losers. And the winners are the ones who really listen to the truth of their hearts.” – Rocky Balboa I'm a mature trained active listener with many life experience and support people who are struggling with: -PTSD -BDSM, D/s over 25 years experience -Feeling lonely I do not have sexual chat so please respect that I welcome the opportunity to have a chat and consider Myself as someone with a different perspective on situations and life that help others with their problems and enjoy the outdoors, hiking, swimming, movies, reading books, yoga and farming. You should never feel alone, I am here for you, we can talk about anything you like. If I am online please feel free to start a chat with me if not then send me a message and we can set a time to connect. Thanks for being here! and I am looking forward to our chat soon
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