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After 35… life had other plans

User Profile: SimplyCompassionate
SimplyCompassionate February 5th

Man proposes, God disposes.

Somewhere after 35, many of us realise life didn’t follow the plan we once had. Things changed - work, relationships, health, priorities. Some days we’re okay with it, some days it still stings.
We can talk about those twists and turns, without fixing or judging- just sharing. 

• What’s one plan life changed for you?
• How are you dealing with it now?

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User Profile: HearshotKid
HearshotKid March 20th

@SimplyCompassionate

I never planned on having kids. Or giving the entirety of my youth/early middle age to a deadend career that I hate just so I can provide them the best life that I possibly can.

How am I dealing with it now? I just look to my family. They need me to make sacrifices, and so I do, and in the end knowing that they have what they need from me is what makes it all bearable.

To be honest, if I hadn't started a family, then I'm fairly sure I'd be a lot worse off today. I'm not exactly someone who makes their own motivation.

I have a distinct feeling that I'm supposed to be exactly where I am, even if exactly where I am doesn't always feel great.

User Profile: powerfulHouse9182
powerfulHouse9182 March 20th

My life complete took U turn after break up. Had so much plans for my girl giving her stability at the age of 34 while she was struggling with things she can't afford because of living in expensive country. Wanted make dream relationship but it ended up. Being too good is not always you'll get sweet fruit sometimes it gets bitter too.

User Profile: DrKaste
DrKaste March 20th

I'm really impressed with your profile and personality. I also admire your good sense of humor here. I don't normally write in the comment section, but I think you deserve this complement.... I'd like to be your friend if you don't mind sending me a friend request. Thank you

May your heart be happy and your days be bright, may your roads be smooth and your burdens light, may you find dreams and touch a star and never forget how special you are. Hope you're having a great day just as your gorgeous smile. I tried sending you a friend request but it didn't go through. Please, I hope you don't mind sending me friend requests. Thank you