Ghosted again
So I was ghosted by someone who I thought was a decent person. We dated from Jan to Aug then they stared to be distant in speyember and full on ghosted me Oct. No explanation nothing. There was no big blow out fight or anything. Just a conversation about how communication has been. I'm hurt and confused.
I'm sorry. I guess the other person wasn't invested. What a coward...to not say anything after dating. Thank goodness they didn't take up too much of your time (as in years).
@brightLion87 I've experienced being ghosted , ignored over and over by someone I dated and all I can say is they aren't going to change no matter how many times they come back and make up some lame story of how much they love you or want to be with you. cut them off before they emotionally and mentally destroy you because from my experience all they are after is to hurt and make you feel like your not important. don't even give them the time of day to be able to contact you
@brightLion87
I’m sorry you feel hurt and confused. It takes time to heal and from the looks of it something triggered the other person that made them become distant.
Sept, Oct, Nov, dec,Jan. you are getting closer to healing ❤️🩹
you got this !
@brightLion87 Being ghosted is indeed not a small deal to take. You have the right to feel the pain you have right now, and you don't have to repress the feeling, you have the right to cry yourself out, hoping to release the pain inside, you have the right to tell the listeners here about your pain, and also, you have the right to have a friend to talk your heart out :) Luckily you have found 7 Cups who you can pick one or some listeners here to talk to about your days ;)
@brightLion87 I am sorry to hear that happened to you. It is upsetting when someone just stops communicating. I think it's especially hurtful because there is no closure and they do not give a reason why.
In 2023, I hope that you can surround yourself with encouraging, supportive people who appreciate you for you!
@brigthLion87 I’m on the same boat as you, we dated from august to December, they became distant in December until they ghosted me. It’s definitely tough not being given an explanation, I’m also hurt and confused but I remind myself every day that it was nothing I did, it was not my fault nor is it yours! It’s hard but I know we’ll get through this 💜
@brightLion87
I am sorry your going through this the other person shoud of been open about their feelings to you and maybe did not know how to tell you. You seem to of not done anything wrong and it could be the other person was not fully committed to a realtionship but ghosting you can hurt and I hope you will know it was not you.