Looking for a companion
Hello everyone, im 35/male from india/hyderabad. I am alone and lonely person since long time. Im not understanding what is happening in my life. I want to live a meaningful life, looking for a person with whom I can talk and share my emotions. Thank you.
@rationalTown5633
I'm sorry you are feeling lonely. I can relate to that situation. It was around that age that I too wanted to find someone to share my life with. To give it meaning and purpose. What I found was this was an unreasonable expectation of soneone else. I wanted someone to fix my life, to give me what I was missing. These aren't bad or wrong things to want. Except I hadn't thought enough about what I was going to give. I hadn't thought enough about what the other person was going to want. What if they expected me to fix their life too? To give them what they were missing? That's hard work, and I wasn't ready for that. But it was only reasonable. If I expected my partner to give me what I needed, it was only reasonable for them to expect me to give them what they needed.
I hope that, unlike me, you have given as much thought to what you will give, as what you want.