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How many decades have you been trying to get it together?

User Profile: lifeisweehaw
lifeisweehaw June 24th, 2025

Just thinking about how it's been 30 years, three freaking decades, that I've been saying I'm going to get organized, get educated, get healthy, etc. but I'm still a mess.

Somehow I raised a couple of kids to adulthood but I'm still a mess.

Let this be the year I at least declutter!

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User Profile: toughTiger6481
toughTiger6481 June 26th, 2025

@lifeisweehaw

being hard on ourselves and looking at all we did not accomplish this week this year last year etc only makes us feel like a mess. I bet you are more put together then you think. 

I do not count how long because what i was focused on even 10 years ago is NOT what I am focused on  getting together now. 

User Profile: wisteria28
wisteria28 June 26th, 2025

You seem like an amazing person you should be less hard on yourself raising kids is a big deal on its own no one is always organised or healthy because we aren't perfect and that's okay celebrate rasing amazing kids and the beautiful memories you made along the way ❤️ ♥️ i hope your days are beautiful

User Profile: gwen03
gwen03 June 26th, 2025

I think nobody has it together at all times. My idea of having things together is trying. Especially when we get off track starting again from where we left off. You’re not a mess. You’re human❤️

User Profile: DaveMarx
DaveMarx June 26th, 2025

Who Says you're a mess?

User Profile: endorphin18
endorphin18 September 14th, 2025

@lifeisweehaw - I don't think anyone has everything together.   Others may "look" all put together on the outside, but the parts you don't see are rarely the same.    We will always have aspects of our lives that just tossed in a hamper or pile, waiting for attention.