50+ Check-in December 6-9, 2021
Hello community 😊
This week we can explore the importance of communication: it is a process of creating and sharing ideas, information, views, facts but also feelings and emotions.
* do you struggle or feel at ease in your relationships communication?
* what do you usually express when you communicate with others?
* what is something positive/nice someone told you that helped the communication with them?
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@MeaningfulSilence
Someone told me that i am patient while they expresses themselves. And that i asked the right response questions.
@exquisitePeace7976
Cool 😄
* do you struggle or feel at ease in your relationships communication? I feel at ease.
* what do you usually express when you communicate with others? Various things.
* what is something positive/nice someone told you that helped the communication with them? "I love you" from my fiance'.
@Offmytrack
that's nice @Offmytrack!
Good communication for you 👍
I’ve been told by many that I am a very patient listener and that I give the best hugs and we all know we need a good hug sometimes
@Margiewm
hello, thanks for sharing 😄
@MeaningfulSilence
* do you struggle or feel at ease in your relationships communication? I am at ease when I have managed to avoid anger and frustration.
* what do you usually express when you communicate with others? I try to express joy and good feelings
* what is something positive/nice someone told you that helped the communication with them?
I told someone that they were making 7cups a more supportive place.
@soulsings
Hello there Soul, thanks for sharing.
I wonder if anybody told you something that helped you to better communicate with them. That's what i asked with the question 😃
@MeaningfulSilence
1. do you struggle or feel at ease in your relationships communication? I struggle very much. I have developed a vocal tremor and it is hard for me to talk.
2. what do you usually express when you communicate with others? Unfortunately, I express less than I want. Because of my difficulty talking, I don't say much.
3. what is something positive/nice someone told you that helped the communication with them? I was told I do fine when talking to people.
@purpleTree4652
Hello @purpleTree4652!
I hope that positive validation from others could help you with the struggle.
Cheers!
* do you struggle or feel at ease in your relationships communication?
I struggle. I don't know what to say and can't tell how comfortable the other people will be with various topics, so I wait for them to say something first.
* what do you usually express when you communicate with others?
Frustration, pain, sadness
* what is something positive/nice someone told you that helped the communication with them?
Some have said it's okay, they understand.
@WharfRat
Hi @WharfRat!
To wait for the other to start a topic seems like a good approach 👍
Recently joined and need some guidance on where to next. Been diagnosed with GAD and left unresolved end up drinking. Please direct to appropriate chat room. Thanks
@dercincioh
Hello there, sorry for your struggles with GAD.
you can look at 7 cups community that could help you with it, click HERE
Best wishes!
I get told that I give the best hugs. I get told people know I mean to make them happy by how I hug. I guess I give a nice full body squeeze, everybody can do with a good hug
@Margiewm
Wonderful, hugs can be really meaningful when given with genuine care 😊
@MeaningfulSilence
Do you struggle or feel at ease in your relationship's communication? Overall, I struggle. I do communicate verbally well with him at home, but he in turn hates and about refuses to communicate with anyone in life, so even if I am doing the best communication techniques for him, and shortest communication with him, it is not successful as he does not want, allow, or accept any communication from anyone and is happy this way. I do communicate alright with others when the topic is related to them, or a purpose we are working on accomplishing with something. I suck always at all communication about myself personally. I can write and communicate with certain people, more on a one-on-one basis better if it involves anything personal about me.
* What do you usually express when you communicate with others? I usually spend a lot of time listening and paying attention to them. I will gladly talk to others on a more one-on-one basis about them and whatever they want or wish to talk about or need. I enjoy that every much. I like to express genuine compliments to others, even people anywhere and everywhere. I express interest in lots about others anywhere and everywhere when talking with them. I love to talk with someone and help them feel that someone cares, that they matter, and much more related to this.
* What is something positive/nice someone told you that helped the communication with them? It has helped to hear from others how they feel I have a lot of patience, how others have said they enjoy talking to/with me, etc. It lets me know that it is helping them in good ways, and I am glad.
@IcedCoffee211109
Hi @IcedCoffee211109 😊
It really seems like communication is something important and you are an active protagonist in it, awesome!
No i never struggle in my communication with people. It comes naturally to me.
I communicate love, empathy, understanding and positivity from my heart*
Someone said to me just today how deeply and effortlessly I care for people... It made it feel so loved and my eyes swelled up.
💕💜❤️
@RideaRainbow
Thumbs up @RideaRainbow, keep on going 😊
Thanks mate....