Skip to main content Skip to bottom nav

50+ community Check-in August 30-September 1, 2021

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 August 30th, 2021

Happy Monday to everyone in the 50+ community. I hope you all enjoyed your weekend and you are all doing well heart

Self-love means your life should only be in your hands no matter how close you are to another person - at the end no one can be a better friend to yourself than you can.

Learning to support yourself or exploring your interests are part of good self love.

enlightened What includes good self love for you?


Not yet a regular of this forum? Come join us: If you have not already done so, please submit this short form add or remove your name: https://tinyurl.com/ybyg3g3y Please allow 4 days for the tag list to be updated

@00WHY00 @24963534 @24Help1 @1Marg1 @5catsandme @8Khaleesi8 @Actuallynobody017 @adventurousSugar1991 @affableowl5126 @affectionatePear7889 @agreeablestrawberries1285 @ahaller @ahds2k @ahel58 @akbj @AKmarshmallow @Aksabode @alanapiana1970 @ambitiousNectarine1482 @Amelia2324 @amiablePeace77 @amiableTortoise2797 @AmiYumi @amusingcranberry1537 @AmusingJet302 @anderly @Angelface50 @AnnieIsMe @AshcloudMac @Aspace4u @Baby1120 @ballooningSloth @BaltimoreSpring @Beanno @becausepuppies @believing777 @berta0322 @bestplum1189 @betheileen @better2Bbrave @beverlianne @bigalt21 @bimmernizer @BirdsWhoWrite @bluebell34 @Blugreg @blueOrange6725 @BlueSky0708 @Bluesky1964 @bluevelvet3 @bklnstar @bogartfan @bouncyVoice4149 @breezyoctopus @brightChestnut3152 @BrightSugar1923 @BurdensDown @cal1860 @CaliforniaViv @Cammiecat @carefreeheart57 @carelady @CaringPanda45 @caringPumpkin64 @CaringSharon @cathy @catmandu @Cazzy8752 @Cheerie @Chro411924 @CintaBali @Confused7461 @CourageousDaisy1111 @chickadee123 @CHT @classylady521 @classylady521 @Cliffg747 @CoriF @ConvivialFriend9402@courteousLime9432 @CreativeYard1702 @CtownMimi @Cubby2020 @curiousbutterfly77 @currentwise @DanaMH @dapperPond2037 @cyanBirch4288 @DancingJoy811 @determinedNectarine9383 @decisivetangerine2856 @DeeGold @dillon8524 @DinaElwy @diplomaticoak9588 @DiscretOcean7936 @discreettriangle87 @doginashirt @dolphinlver @Doodles7 @diofono @ecstaticlght @ElizabethGiovi @empathicForest15 @equinox56 @Eva66 @ExDesertScapegoat @exuberantAvocado5095 @Faithfulapple2400 @faithlove1111 @fairmindedStrawberries7429 @Favor2020 @FlowerLily23 @FoolsSelf @forcefulStrings1005 @forcefulWriter32 @forko23 @Freeskier @friendly10 @fromthetent81 @frothyMagic6772 gahnsuksah @Gale1032 @gardenyarn @gentleEast4230 @gentleLand5245 @GiftedEmpath3 @goldilocks1041 @goodmelon8247 @Grandma1 @GrandmaLolly @greenSummer1236 @Greenpear036 @gregariousKiwi9594 @gregariousZebra21 @HaloCompany88 @IHDW1982 @Heather2020 @helloBike4402 @hellopusher @helloTalker8798 @honestPeach5447 @Hotaru419 @iamroni @Iamwhoiamwhoami @ihtak @impartialDrum1848 @indigolilly1500 @intuitiveBunny8426 @intuitiveFriend1097 @lrsmith9636 @IWuzADuck @japanesegardengirl @jlmouraneto @indigoMoon1246 @innerLove @JolivetteListens @JoniGirl @junem @justbecause @JustMe1225 @justpassingthrough10 @Katbtrying552 @Kathy1212 @Kavajava @kcollier6517 @Kevin0291 @kickiree @Kimberley555 @KindblueEyes @kit4228 @kitty2018 @kittycat15 @klemen @Kurt789 @LakeGirl819 @Lara @Lauren63 @lesjon @Lifer @LightSoul108 @LimegreenNorth1124 @LindaWinNJ @lisamac724 @ListeningKaty @livefreely04 @Lolowise475 @lonea @Lonelybeth @LostanLonely @Lostinlove50 @love @Love2Boat65 @LoveMyRotty @LoveResearcher @madhu @mamamel @MsVee2021 @meforexample @Melayla @Melissa22320 @Melliemel1971 @mellisendis @metta2u @Mla69@MidwesternCalmSeeker @MissPen @modestOcean7984 @modestwatermelon2938 @moi2016 @Mooboxer @moocher @morecake @Motherofcats1955 @musicwithbrass @MusicCandy @mutter3 @myer @MysticSoul88 @neverendingtime23 @No1Angel68 @Nogift @NormaAnne @oel @Oddball76779 @OffMyTrack @omez125 @OmWeAreOne @Open12 @OptimisticAcres4817 @optimisticRaspberries5247 @PaytonGlover @Peace1221 @peachy53 @PepperBunny @phantomsmiles @placidplum3193 @pluckystrings4696 @plumPapaya7147 @plumSkies6526 @politePear3867 @potatoxcrispztrish @PracticalCat2637 @proactiveCup703 @purplepansies8591 @PurpledPeach @purpletangerine87 @purpletangerine87 @purpletree4652 @PurpleWater74 @pxidis @quietbeach575 @quietFlower25 @quietlightning @quietStrawberries9260 @quietSail6485 @Qooo @Ran3707 @rationalWater7635 @readytolisten7799 @RebelliousMirror @redOrange9587 @redPenny@Redpeppers @reliablemoon26 @repen13 @Resourceful2021 @richyShiny39 @RideaRainbow @River416 @Roger57 @roxymar @ruffneckred @Ruthanny1243 @sailinsunshine @SallyMoore @sb805 @ScarletLand3247 @ScarletPear1945 @secretMap2091 @sensiblePal7535 @Sedtzl1 @seeker1898 @seekinghappy55 @SeekerSher @SKHK@Shycat542 @shycranberry2308 @sillyrabbit7 sincereOak6832 @sincereGrapefruit4682 @SleeplessVet @Skyy0 @Smilintru67 @smokescrunch @sngrlittle @LadySnowcat @snugglyLight2001 @sonerii @sophiaaiello @SoulfulCat22 @soulsings @spectacularSunrise7824 @spielmanjr @SpreadAloha @StartExploring @stayingsafe @SteampunkOkc @sthompso @StormyTimes @stressBear @Sue1111 @Sue88 @sunlightspirit @sunnyplum5193 @SunnySpruce3523 @sunnyZebra2336 @Sunshine4691 @SusyKaploosy @SuzieQ1 @swammi01 @SweetSami @swim215 @swinston222 @Tailormade1 @tanimaya @Tanq2u @Tawanda526 @tealDog6333 @Teresa416 @terrig996 @TexasTabby @thecaringone @thoughtfulRaspberries8714 @Tish1982 @ThreeFires @tranquilheart @Treat @turquoiseJar411 @twm @Tyedyedbutterfly @Vintagelung @warmheartedtangerine6574 @WarmWool @weatherphoto @WharfRat @Whisper292 @whispersrlonely @whitewingeddove1107 @Wicket51 @wittyNest2941 @WonnderWoman @Woodlandwalk42 @wordnerd @worstpossibleusername @worthystruggle @xrosez @Yashoda108 @Zengrl

21
User Profile: Offmytrack
Offmytrack August 30th, 2021
enlightened What includes good self-love for you? Taking all my pills, and today I am taking the good "Banker's boxes" and storing them for my fiance'
1 reply
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 1st, 2021

@Offmytrack

Taking your meds is important!

load more
User Profile: UberRuminator
UberRuminator August 30th, 2021

Taking my medication as prescribed.

1 reply
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 1st, 2021

@UberRuminator

Following the instructions is a must with meds to me

load more
User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy August 31st, 2021

@amiablePeace77
Very interesting subject @amiablePeace77. I think I do all the good things for myself. But still I now feel I have so much sorrow in my life! No-one died, but my health is not where I want it to be...

1 reply
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 1st, 2021

@Helgafy

Sorrow is a tough feeling, sending you warm hugs. I hope that coming here will help with letting go 💙

load more
User Profile: freshOasis7877
freshOasis7877 August 31st, 2021

Hello everyone here .... I m Oasis 🥰

For me self love includes getting happiness in small things , listening my fav Playlists , playing my fav tune on 🎸guitar...

Tbh doing above things gives me happiness and inner peace!!

Self love means loving ourselves and this activities ❤ helps me love myself and make me feel worthy in living life ✨💕💛..

Hope everyone is having great time 🌟🥰

1 reply
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 1st, 2021

@freshOasis7877

I believe what really makes us feel happy are enjoying the small things in our day.

load more
User Profile: babykissess15
babykissess15 August 31st, 2021

@amiablePeace77 being a friend to myself:)

1 reply
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 1st, 2021

@babykissess15

Hi babykissess15, nice to see you in the forum laugh Being your best friend means always having someone who supports you no matter what.

load more
August 31st, 2021

@amiablePeace77
Hope you are having a great day full of Sunshine

Learning to support yourself or exploring your interests are part of good self-love.

enlightened What includes good self-love for you? I don't know why self Love seems so hard to give to self but it flows for others.
I am working on getting better with that for myself. I am always up to try new things like DIY projects that gives me comfort and a sense of well-being

1 reply
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 1st, 2021

@scarletPear1945

Many people struggle with self love, nice that you keep working on it! Nice that DIY projects help you with it.

load more
User Profile: RideaRainbow
RideaRainbow August 31st, 2021

Hi Peace, Another wonderful Monday post. I agree with all you have to say about self love.

For me good self love is all about being there for me at all times. Not pulling myself down, loving myself unconditionally. And not allowing anyone to vitiate my peace and harmony. It's my life so either they can add to me or stay away from me.

❤️❤️❤️

2 replies
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 1st, 2021

@RideaRainbow

This is a beautiful way to describe self love RideaRainbow!

1 reply
User Profile: RideaRainbow
RideaRainbow September 2nd, 2021

Thanks so much.

load more
load more
User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 September 1st, 2021

@amiablePeace77, Learning to support myself is something I work on. One thing I pray for is to be on my own side. Another thing is to remember that no one has control over my feelings and emotions. I am the only one who has control over my feelings and emotions. I also pray to remember to think well of myself.
Some things that include self love for me are allowing myself to relax for the entire day if I do one thing that day that is difficult.

1 reply
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 1st, 2021

@purpleTree4652

Having such a relaxing day occasionally helps to fully recharge!

load more
User Profile: soulsings
soulsings September 1st, 2021

@amiablePeace77 enlightened What includes good self love for you?


For me self love happens naturally when I stop believing and repeating what the inner critic says and see that I am doing the best that I can with what I have.

1 reply
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 1st, 2021

@soulsings

Great way to talk back at the inner critic soul!

load more
User Profile: quietApple309
quietApple309 September 2nd, 2021

I’m confused. How do you submit the short form?

1 reply
User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 OP September 3rd, 2021

@quietApple309

Hi there laugh Please click on the link and answer the questions asked in the form and submit. Please pm me if you need any further assistence.

https://https://tinyurl.com/ybyg3g3y

load more