50+ community Check-in August 31-September 3, 2020
Happy Monday everyone, I hope youre having a wonderful day 
When I think of "home", I think of a place where I can run around in clothing which feel comfortable no matter how they look like 
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When you think of home, what, specifically, do you think of?
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I hate being 50+ I love this picture, it is so calming and peaceful ❤
@jr50
Sorry you're not feeling well in your own skin atm. <3 What makes it most hard for you to be over 50?
@amiablePeace77. I guess my physical limitations, as I have become older my anxiety has become worse
@jr50
As we get older our nervous systems can become more sensitive, making us more prone to anxiety. I find meditation, formal or informal, helps to train the mind to calm.
https://www.7cups.com/forum/MindfulnessSupportCommunity_106/ResourceLibrary_1062/
A place where I feel alone and locked in I'm very tired of being home and not being able to leave.
@LostanLonely
Sorry to hear that things are so tough for you at home 
, it sounds like you feel being in a prison. I hope there will be a solution soon for you so that you can feel free again.
@amiablePeace77, being with my family who i can go to if I have problems or don't understand something. I also see myself playing with their pets. That alone isn't the whole picture of what my home will look like for me. Since I'm moving in with family that i recently renewed my relationship with, I don't know how my home with feel. Right now it is nervous.
@purpleTree4652
Moving in with others is a big step and I can understand that you feel nervous about how things might be working out at the end. I believe it's a natural response to change, but considering that they have been supportive and understanding I guess chances are high that everything will turn out well.
I think of it as my castle. It's my safe zone, where I can be just me, where I am loved and where my family is.
@spectacularSunrise7824
That's a very lovely description of a home indeed!
@amiablePeace77
When you think of home, what, specifically, do you think of?
When I think of home, i think of family. (obviously) My whole life I have been moving from house to house and never really stayed in one house for longer than maybe 4-5 years. Just when i get used to the house, we move again. So I always keep in mind that no matter how many houses I move, as long im with my family I can survivng living on the streets.
@potatoxcrispztrish
That's a nice way to put it, home can be anywhere provided we feel good.
I think home depends on how I'm feeling. In general, when things are good, or average - just normal, home is where I live with my husband and son. But if I'm feeling terrible or really fearful or in distress, home is my parents' house where I grew up. So, I guess when I feel like a strong adult, my home is here. When I feel like a helpless child, I want to be in that safety net I grew up in.
@thoughtfulmomma
It's nice that you have that escape, going back to the place where you grew up to find comfort.
@amiablePeace77
Hi, I'm new to this forum and to 7 Cups. Love the picture, very calming.
Home to me, is somewhere where I can totally be myself without fear of criticism nor ridicule. Somewhere safe and warm, where I can create my own world of imagination and magic.
@quietStrawberries9260
Welcome to our community quietStrawberries . It's nice that you joined us. I hope you will find the support you're looking for here.
You described Home in a very beautiful way, thanks for sharing!
When you think of home, what, specifically, do you think of?
There was a time when I did a lot of traveling. When I was a little distressed by that, I would tell myself that "Home is where the heart is."
@amiablePeace77
@soulsings
I personally do not like to be constantly travelling and I could imagine that as a child it must be very hard. I believe what you said is the most truthful description of home to me too, nothing can make a place home, not even the most beautiful house or furniture if your heart is somewhere else.
