50+ community Weekend Check-in December 11-13, 2020
Happy Friday to all of you, how was your week? 
Setting boundaries is important to assure a healthy interaction with others. So today I like to ask you:
What line should someone never cross with you?
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What line should someone never cross with you?
Taking something without asking me first. Doesn't matter if it's food, money, supplies, equipment... if you need something, ask and I will be glad to lend it or give it, but take it/borrow it from me in a sneaky manner and you immediately get banished from my trust zone.
@InquireWithin
I can totally relate InquireWithin, I am the same. It feels disrespectful when people just take without asking.
@InquireWithin I must also agree. This came to me almost instantly as I was reading the question. Very little gets my goat, but when I discover someone has taken something of mine and not asked first, it takes quite a bit of control to not go into red brain! Interesting that it's hitting a note with a few of us. I wonder if it's a generational thing?🤔
@Sunshine4691 I am not sure if it is generational. The older I get the more I realize how much damage I do to myself when I get into a rage. It is not true power. Remaining calm like in the eye of the storm is.
@amiablePeace77
Hello Ami, what a beautiful picture!
Thanks for the thread.
I think that to fake niceness with me (or any sugar-coating behaviour) is something that can let me decide to stop interacting with the person. Sort of breaking line.
Have a nice weekend ahead!
@LoveMyRotty
I hear you, it is not nice feeling that someone does not really mean it in a nice way but that there might be an intention behind it.
@amiablePeace77
Yes Ami, I was referring to situations in which the reason behind that are not nice, to be a break point.
@amiablepeace77
Don't lie to me. It hurts so much more than the truth - even if that truth is painful.
@thoughtfulmomma
I agree, lies also destroy trust.
What line should someone never cross with you?
Funny answer: the ice cream line ! lol
I try not to have trigger lines but like everyone else I try to maintain the community guidelines.
@amiablePeace77
@soulsings
I get you, the community guide lines are lines which should be taken seriously.
Like your ice cream line
What line should someone never cross with you?
I don't like it when someone assumes that they know how I feel.
There are other things I don't like - I don't like to be touched by other men - don't ever put your arm around my shoulders or anywhere else unless you're female.
Don't call me a liar.
@WharfRat
I hear you, it's annoying when a different person tells you how you feel whilst in fact they have no clue!
PLease don't lie to me
Betraying my trust. No coming back from that one.
Lying to me. My trust is very fragile so if you lie we are done.
Will you show me what you mean about the show?
