Daily ramblings 2
I having problems posting to other thread so trying a new one.
@Tinywhisper11 Hey ❤️ I have a small confession to make. I saw a thread earlier that had a certain person asking how to delete an account. I knew the two of you talked fairly regularly and it set off my "Spidey senses" so I found myself on a different thread. Normally I am respectful of private spaces and I tried to ignore what my instincts were saying but I couldn't. I fought with myself to not write there. This was the best solution I came up with. Because I needed you to know that Everything that person said was wrong. It was cruel of them. I get that they're hurting but that was no reason to lash out at you and say those things. I know words have a lot more power than some people realize and it upsets me that this person used their words to hurt you. Please don't believe them
There are quite a few people here who love you for who you are. They accept you for you and they don't want you to be anyone but yourself.
I hope this makes sense ❤️ Lots of love to you Tiny
@mytwistedsoul. 🙂❤ thanks soul ❤ it does hurt, but I always tried my best
@Tripleplay thankyou ❤🙂❤ Thank you so much ❤
@mytwistedsoul
@tinywhisper11
Hi the 2 of you. I have read your talking here and was thinking of this quote:
Proverbs 18:21 AMP
Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it and indulge it will eat its fruit and bear the consequences of their words. [Matt 12:37]
@Helgafy I'm sorry helgafy I can't quite understand what this bible quote means?? I feel embarrassed asking, sorry for my ignorance
Hugs you tightly ❤
@Tinywhisper11 Hey ❤️ I just wanted to remind you of how amazingly wonderful you are. There are some people that no matter what you do it will never be enough. I won't go into a lot of detail because I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. I'm actually in a similar situation with someone here and it's very demanding and exhausting at times
Don't let this person get to you ok? Lots of love to you Tiny ❤️
@mytwistedsoul yeah I know who your talking about ❤ I'm sorry your in the same situation, it really sucks 😥 I'm not sure what to do, but I will offer support and friendship, but I can't change the way I am for one person. I want to be there for everyone not just one. How you doing with yours??? It's pretty heartbreaking isn't it?
@Tinywhisper11 It does suck 😞 and the way I see it - you shouldn't have to change. You are perfect the way you are. This is what I was contemplating last night. The effects of trauma. How some people (like you) are more empathetic and compassionate because of it. Despite the h*ll you've been through. You do your absolute best to make others feel seen and heard. But some people go the opposite direction and it makes them angry and bitter
@mytwistedsoul gives you bear hugs back ❤❤ maybe sometimes we need to be brave and just say no. Or how we're feeling about it, but it's hard cause you don't want to hurt anyone😥
Me and you, we are not listeners, or forum supporters, we don't want the responsibility, and not mentally well enough to do those things. So we chose to just do what we can in our own time and our own way. But I guess that makes us vulnerable to this sort of situation😞 I don't do 1-1 chats with listeners, and only do penpals when someone else starts the thread, it's really hard.
@Tinywhisper11 Omgosh yeah it is really hard to say no or tell someone like that how we feel about how they're behaving. Probably because we both know that their reaction wouldn't be good and the last thing either of us wants to do is hurt someone
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
@CalmMango9611
@Tinywhisper11
@mytwistedsoul
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
Hi.
I consider you to be my friends here at 7Cups. That's why I pray for you once or twice each day. (If you don't like me to do that - please tell - I'll not be offended).
@Helgafy Aww thank you Helgafy This is so sweet and thoughtful ❤️❤️ Even though I'm not a person who prays I'm am extremely grateful for those that say prayers on my behalf. Thank you so much! Sending you many good vibes and lots of love! 😊❤️❤️
@mytwistedsoul
Thank you twist.
@Helgafy Hi friend! This made my eyes tear up, to know I cross your mind and you take the time to pray for me. You are in my thoughts and prayers too! I am very blessed to have met you here.
@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
Thank you pieces.
@Helgafy I love that you're praying for me.
@calmMango9611
Thank you mango.
@Helgafy Your very welcomed. It was nice of you to ask. I do not mind if someone prays for me.
@Helgafy hugs you tightly ❤ thanks friend ❤❤ I pray for everyone on cups every day, wether they like it or not😁 how have you been feeling lately? Are you doing ok'ish??
@Tinywhisper11
Thank you Tiny.
from 7Cups, many of us do in between. I pray for you each day.
Isaiah 40:31 KJV
but they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall
mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and
they shall walk, and not faint.
Thank you for being so special
@Helgafy oooo pretty ❤❤ thanks helgafy ❤❤ that's really sweet ❤
@Helgafy Beautiful! Thank you! 😊❤️
@savedbygrace35
@mytwistedsoul
@workingitThrough2
@Tinywhisper11
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
Hi old friends. I'm not clever in keeping in contact with you all. But I just wanted do tell;
@Helgafy thanks helga ❤
@Tinywhisper11
Hello hello my friend. Miss your joyful spirit
@Helgafy Hello friend Helgafy :) It's nice to see you! How have you been? Thank you for such interesting news! I hadn't heard of either of these people so I did google it. Very interesting
@Helgafy
Thank you once again…
@mytwistedsoul
@Tinywhisper11
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
Hi people!
Dan Vasc came up on TV (YouTube) - singing Amazing Grace. I don't ever think I heard such a strong, full voice. He can sing all notes.
@Helgafy
Hello, it has been such a long time since I have been able to come back to Cups. My internet is still on and off and I am tired of dealing with my phone company so I have found other ways to keep myself busy.
Iamwhoiam and all my friends here. I really miss you all❤️. Things at home have been extremely hard but by the grace of God, I am doing ok.
@WorkingitThrough2 It's so nice to see you! 😊❤️
@mytwistedsoul
Hey Soul, You and a few others have been heavy on my mind so heavy. I wish I could be here more. Taking one day at a time. Waiting to see if we get approved for a care giver..😊
@WorkingitThrough2
I hope you do get approved, I have not been able to keep in touch with you, so I don’t know where things stand with your situation, however I would think a caregiver would help minimize stress on you.
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
How is your health doing? My husband has Dementia and it has been progressing seems like daily.
I have a multitude of issues, as I believe you’re aware. And for quite awhile I’ve also been experiencing memory issues, which could very well be early signs of dementia as well, I believe it’s due to s lifetime of accrued concussions. But the latest fun fact is I am currently mainly bedridden due to extreme back snd leg pain. I finally got an MRI awhile back actual time frame I am not sure of right now. Between handling this completely on my own and the pain every time I do anything, time is a blur.
Anyway quick summary of results of that are degenerative disc disease, two discs pushing on nerve roots, one on the left and one on the right side. I have a neurosurgeon appointment on the 19th of this month on a consultation visit,
I am wondering if I will be able to try for a caregiver soon . Of course I as well would be at the mercy of my insurance.
Sorry for the long story even though with my ramblings that was actually the short version.
I asked earlier in amongst the flurry between us and DarkBlueAurora, Maybe you didn’t want to answer, but just in case you just missed it.
How are you?
Thank you for asking.
@Iamwhoiamwhoam
I am moving along kind of slower due to some medical issues myself. Took a fall in my house and messed up my right leg. Now suffering from Sciatica. Alongside my husband's Dementia is progressing so that has had me worn down. I am down to 100 pounds and no one knows why. I got therapy this morning.
I will always answer any replies I see from you, but our internet has been in and out for months now and we have only one provider that services this area So I have been raising heck with them about the lack of service but it feels like a hopelessness have been down for months now.
I hope you can get the caregiver and it does not take long..
@WorkingitThrough2
I hope things start going a lot better for you. You have not had an easy time of anything for far too long. Plus the fall, creating mobility issues on top of everything else. The stress you are dealing with… If you ever need someone to unload or vent to, I would be more than happy if you wanted to come here and do so, I know I don’t reach out much other than hearting…upvoting? Some of your writings if I venture out from my ramblings. But you are in my thoughts. I always wish the best for you and your husband.
Thank you for sharing your latest personal news.
As you well know I struggle with my own issues snd this latest that will probably have me going in for back surgery,
Two discs pushing on nerve roots. I keep asking for a new body but I keep getting rejected.
Hopefully therapy goes well.
It is always wonderful to hear from you. Thank you.
@WorkingitThrough2 It's understandable. It's hard when the Internet is unreliable. Tbh I haven't been here as much either. Omgosh a caretaker would be such a big help for you! I hope you get approved! Sending you lots of love! ❤️
@WorkingitThrough2
I always wish the best for you.
@Iamwhoiamwhoami
Thank you my friend, same to you
