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User Profile: Iamwhoiamwhoami
Iamwhoiamwhoami December 13th, 2022

I having problems posting to other thread so trying a new one.

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul May 17th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 Hey ❤️ I have a small confession to make. I saw a thread earlier that had a certain person asking how to delete an account. I knew the two of you talked fairly regularly and it set off my "Spidey senses" so I found myself on a different thread. Normally I am respectful of private spaces and I tried to ignore what my instincts were saying but I couldn't. I fought with myself to not write there. This was the best solution I came up with. Because I needed you to know that Everything that person said was wrong. It was cruel of them. I get that they're hurting but that was no reason to lash out at you and say those things. I know words have a lot more power than some people realize and it upsets me that this person used their words to hurt you. Please don't believe them 

There are quite a few people here who love you for who you are. They accept you for you and they don't want you to be anyone but yourself. 

I hope this makes sense ❤️ Lots of love to you Tiny

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 17th, 2024

@mytwistedsoul. 🙂❤ thanks soul ❤ it does hurt, but I always tried my best

@Tripleplay thankyou ❤🙂❤ Thank you so much ❤

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User Profile: Tripleplay
Tripleplay May 17th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Of course. ❤️❤️

User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul May 17th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11  *offers safe hugs* You're welcome Tiny ❤️ You do try very hard - don't let anyone ever tell you different ok? ❤️

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 18th, 2024

@mytwistedsoul ok ❤❤ thanks soul ❤

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy May 17th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Tiny - I have no idea what this is all about. But what I would say is: You Tiny is an open book, you put yourself out there for everybody (which I like, I like open persons so I don't have to guess everything - lol). But then of course, when you tell, you'll be easier to hurt. (Just a reflection from me).

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 18th, 2024

@Helgafy it's a blessing and a curse, I always say what's on my mind, and try my very best. Thanks helgafy ❤ 

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy May 25th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Hi Tiny.

I know you were sad because of the situation (misunderstanding) in the prayer-thread. I will not go into the situation, but here is a comforting word that God is telling us in the Bible:

Psalms 

34.18 The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 26th, 2024

@Helgafy ❤ thanks helgafy ❤❤ you are always there to pick me up when I'm down, I really love you ❤

Thankyou God ❤

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy June 1st, 2024

@mytwistedsoul
@tinywhisper11

Hi the 2 of you. I have read your talking here and was thinking of this quote:

Proverbs 18:21 AMP

Death and life are in the power of the tongue, And those who love it and indulge it will eat its fruit and bear the consequences of their words. [Matt 12:37]

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 June 1st, 2024

@Helgafy I'm sorry helgafy I can't quite understand what this bible quote means?? I feel embarrassed asking, sorry for my ignorance

Hugs you tightly ❤

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy June 1st, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Have you ever felt that if someone said something good to you that you felt like you could fly because of the good words - then they talk life with their words.

And - have you ever felt (I have felt that) that the words of someone have "put you to the ground" so that you don't know if you'll be able to rise again - then they talk death. 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 June 1st, 2024

@Helgafy ohhh ok ❤ I get it now ❤ thanks for explaining to me ❤ and thanks for the beautiful verse.. I have felt both of those, and I may joke around alot, but I always try to be supportive and kind with my words ❤

User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul June 2nd, 2024

@Helgafy I like the way you explained this ❤️

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Helgafy June 2nd, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

I forgot to say this: Don't ever be sorry that you can't quite understand. (Sometimes persons have to explain to me with tiny, tiny (lol - your name!) spoons of explanation (and they can be irritated too - lol!). Don't ever feel embarrassed asking - we only know a tiny (your name again -lol) drop of the knowledge in the world. We all are very ignorant about different things - you ask me how to build a house - I have no idea - but a carpenter would know.

 

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 June 2nd, 2024

@Helgafy 🙂 ❤ ok thankyou ❤ I don't have any education so I seem to be always asking people what things mean, it gets embarrassing after a while. 

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User Profile: Iamwhoiamwhoami
Iamwhoiamwhoami OP June 2nd, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

i ask of you one thing . Please never be embarrassed or ashamed to ask. If you want to know about something,  one way to learn is communication. 

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Tinywhisper11 June 2nd, 2024

@Iamwhoiamwhoami 🙂❤ thanks sweetie ❤ your such a lovely person, gives you a giant tiny hug ❤

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul May 31st, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 Hey ❤️ I just wanted to remind you of how amazingly wonderful you are. There are some people that no matter what you do it will never be enough. I won't go into a lot of detail because I'm sure you know what I'm talking about. I'm actually in a similar situation with someone here and it's very demanding and exhausting at times

Don't let this person get to you ok? Lots of love to you Tiny ❤️ 

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Tinywhisper11 May 31st, 2024

@mytwistedsoul yeah I know who your talking about ❤ I'm sorry your in the same situation, it really sucks 😥 I'm not sure what to do, but I will offer support and friendship, but I can't change the way I am for one person. I want to be there for everyone not just one. How you doing with yours??? It's pretty heartbreaking isn't it?

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul May 31st, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 It does suck 😞 and the way I see it - you shouldn't have to change. You are perfect the way you are. This is what I was contemplating last night. The effects of trauma. How some people (like you) are more empathetic and compassionate because of it. Despite the h*ll you've been through. You do your absolute best to make others feel seen and heard. But some people go the opposite direction and it makes them angry and bitter 


Some days are ok with this person as long as I have the emotional energy but on bad days I have to be very careful because they pull me down with them. I try to have boundaries with them but like with you - if they see me other places here - I hear about it in passive aggressive ways and it just hurts
It is very heartbreaking 😞
*offers safe bear hugs* ❤️
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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 May 31st, 2024

@mytwistedsoul gives you bear hugs back ❤❤ maybe sometimes we need to be brave and just say no. Or how we're feeling about it, but it's hard cause you don't want to hurt anyone😥

Me and you, we are not listeners, or forum supporters, we don't want the responsibility, and not mentally well enough to do those things. So we chose to just do what we can in our own time and our own way. But I guess that makes us vulnerable to this sort of situation😞 I don't do 1-1 chats with listeners, and only do penpals when someone else starts the thread, it's really hard. 

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mytwistedsoul May 31st, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 Omgosh yeah it is really  hard to say no or tell someone like that how we feel about how they're behaving. Probably because we both know that their reaction wouldn't be good and the last thing either of us wants to do is hurt someone

I think you're right about that it makes us vulnerable. I definitely don't want the responsibility of being a listener that's for sure. I actually tried it a couple years ago and 😅 not for me. Way too stressful! I have 2 listeners but I don't talk with them regularly. I know we have limited privacy in the forums but you're always welcome to tag me if you ever need or want to talk ok? ❤️
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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy June 6th, 2024

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas
@CalmMango9611
@Tinywhisper11
@mytwistedsoul
@Iamwhoiamwhoami

Hi.
I consider you to be my friends here at 7Cups. That's why I pray for you once or twice each day. (If you don't like me to do that - please tell - I'll not be offended).

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul June 6th, 2024

@Helgafy Aww thank you Helgafy This is so sweet and thoughtful ❤️❤️ Even though I'm not a person who prays I'm am extremely grateful for those that say prayers on my behalf. Thank you so much! Sending you many good vibes and lots of love! 😊❤️❤️

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Helgafy June 6th, 2024

@mytwistedsoul

Thank you twist.

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PiecesOfWhoeverIWas June 6th, 2024

@Helgafy Hi friend! This made my eyes tear up, to know I cross your mind and you take the time to pray for me. You are in my thoughts and prayers too! I am very blessed to have met you here.

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Helgafy June 6th, 2024

@PiecesOfWhoeverIWas

Thank you pieces.

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User Profile: calmMango9611
calmMango9611 June 6th, 2024

@Helgafy I love that you're praying for me.

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Helgafy June 6th, 2024

@calmMango9611

Thank you mango.

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calmMango9611 June 6th, 2024

@Helgafy Your very welcomed. It was nice of you to ask. I do not mind if someone prays for me.

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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 June 7th, 2024

@Helgafy hugs you tightly ❤ thanks friend ❤❤ I pray for everyone on cups every day, wether they like it or not😁 how have you been feeling lately? Are you doing ok'ish??

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy June 7th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Thank you Tiny.

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Helgafy June 17th, 2024
Hi @CalmMango9611

We met yesterday at depressioncircle. I want to honour you. You asked a person if she would like to share about what she talked about, and she did. After you left another person wrote that it was the first time someone saw him at 7Cups. So - this is what every person needs, to be seen, heard, loved. Thank you.
 
User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy June 30th, 2024

@CalmMango9611


Hi Mango.
I have not seen you around for maybe 2 weeks. Maybe you're taking a break
from 7Cups, many of us do in between. I pray for you each day.
Here is a Bibleverse for you: 

Isaiah 40:31 KJV

but they that wait upon the LORD shall renew their strength; they shall
mount up with wings as eagles; they shall run, and not be weary; and
they shall walk, and not faint.

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User Profile: Iamwhoiamwhoami
Iamwhoiamwhoami OP July 7th, 2024

Thank you for being so special

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User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy July 7th, 2024
Hi friends on "Iam's" thread!
Today I bring you lovely roses from my terrasse garden. They are yellow, pink, light pink, red and pink with white stripes. 
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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 July 7th, 2024

@Helgafy oooo pretty ❤❤ thanks helgafy ❤❤ that's really sweet ❤


User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul July 7th, 2024

@Helgafy Beautiful! Thank you! 😊❤️

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Helgafy August 26th, 2024

@savedbygrace35

@mytwistedsoul

@workingitThrough2

@Tinywhisper11

@Iamwhoiamwhoami

Hi old friends. I'm not clever in keeping in contact with you all. But I just wanted do tell;

If you want to you can google "Geiranger". Princess Marta Louise will marry there in a week. Much buzz. Marry to a shaman from the US (her 2. marriage). She sold the rights to doing filming to an English magazine - very unlike what royalty do in Norway - the Norwegian press is not invited.



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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 August 26th, 2024

@Helgafy thanks helga ❤

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 September 6th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Hello hello my friend. Miss your joyful spirit

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul August 26th, 2024

@Helgafy Hello friend Helgafy :) It's nice to see you! How have you been? Thank you for such interesting news! I hadn't heard of either of these people so I did google it. Very interesting 

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP August 26th, 2024

@Helgafy

Thank you once again…

User Profile: Helgafy
Helgafy September 1st, 2024

@mytwistedsoul

@Tinywhisper11

@Iamwhoiamwhoami

Hi people!

Dan Vasc came up on TV (YouTube) - singing Amazing Grace. I don't ever think I heard such a strong, full voice. He can sing all notes.

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User Profile: WorkingitThrough2
WorkingitThrough2 September 5th, 2024

@Helgafy

Hello, it has been such a long time since I have been able to come back to Cups. My internet is still on and off and I am tired of dealing with my phone company so I have found other ways to keep myself busy.

Iamwhoiam and all my friends here. I really miss you all❤️. Things at home have been extremely hard but by the grace of God, I am doing ok.

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul September 5th, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2 It's so nice to see you! 😊❤️

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Iamwhoiamwhoami OP September 5th, 2024

@WorkingitThrough2

I always wish the best for you.

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