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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings July 2nd, 2020

Are you new to the 50+ community for the month of July?

Say hello here and get to know others who have joined this month too!

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User Profile: lovelyWhisper66
lovelyWhisper66 July 3rd, 2020

Welcome to all those joining this month! :)

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP July 25th, 2020

@lovelyWhisper66 thanks for reaching out to others.

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Joined last month, but it still feels new.. So hello. Hopefully, I will figure out how to access the 50+ chat. I think I need another listening session? But, not sure. Thanks

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 July 3rd, 2020

@optimisticRaspberries5247, Hi Rasp! Go to the 50plus Community and click on Resources. The first thing listed is the calendar for the 50plus discussions. Here is the link, https://www.7cups.com/forum/50OverCommunity_193/TeamToolsandTeamUpdates_1705/50plusDiscussionsScheduleandTopics_207920/.

When it is time for the discussion to start, go to Chat, and click on Group Support Chat. The room will appear only when it is time for the discussion to begin, sometimes a few minutes early.

I hope to see you there. The 50plus discussions are one of my favorite things about 7cups.

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@purpleTree4652

You are AMAZING, thank you!! So the same would apply to the Mindfulness chat?

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 July 3rd, 2020

@optimisticRaspberries5247, yes the 50plus mindfulness chat room only appears on the group chat list right when the discussion is about to start or a couple minutes before. :)

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User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 July 3rd, 2020

@optimisticRaspberries5247 Hi welcome to 50plus. I know that there is a requirement of having chats with 5 different listeners with 30 texts each to get into the rooms. Hope to see you there soon.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP July 3rd, 2020
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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 July 3rd, 2020

@soulsings, thanks, sings

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User Profile: jlmouraneto
jlmouraneto July 3rd, 2020

Hello everyone. Just joined 7 Cups this week as a Listener. and am quite happy that I have done it. Looking forward to exchanging messages with you all.

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User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 July 3rd, 2020

@jlmouraneto Hi nice to meet you and welcome to 50plus!

User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 July 3rd, 2020

@jlmouraneto, Hi, neto!

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User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 July 3rd, 2020

Welcome to everyone joining 50plus in July!

User Profile: FriendlyAnju777
FriendlyAnju777 July 4th, 2020

Hi everyone

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP July 4th, 2020

Hi @FriendlyAnju777 nice to meet you.

Lovely day here. How are things there?

User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 July 4th, 2020

@FriendlyAnju777 Hi welcome to 50plus!

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Hello everyone. Happy 4th of July, if it applies...Happy Greeting and Wishes 50+ group! Welcome everyone.

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 July 4th, 2020

@optimisticRaspberries5247, happy 4th of july to you, too, rasp!

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User Profile: supportwithpassion
supportwithpassion July 7th, 2020

Hello!

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User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 July 7th, 2020

@supportwithpassion, hi support!

User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 July 7th, 2020

@supportwithpassion Hi welcome to 50plus!

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User Profile: gentleLand5245
gentleLand5245 July 9th, 2020

Hello Everyone! I just joined. I'm dealing with lonliness, anxiety, and depression.

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User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 July 9th, 2020

@gentleLand5245 Hi nice to meet you and welcome to 50plus!

User Profile: purpleTree4652
purpleTree4652 July 10th, 2020

@gentleLand5245, i'm so sorry to hear what you're experiencing. I am going through the same things so I can relate. You might want to try the sharing circles and the 50plus discussions. They're both good.

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP July 10th, 2020

@gentleLand5245 welcome to 50+. Hope you find posts or discussions of interest to you.

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User Profile: susanitamn
susanitamn July 24th, 2020

Hi. I'm also mostly depressed, don't see much sense in waking up every morning although I have to go to work but I just don't look forward to anything but sleeping....

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP July 25th, 2020

Hi @susanitamn I am sorry to hear you are only feeling like sleeping. Have you considered having a therapist to find out what might be happening there?

Sometimes when I had to go to work I had to have an auto mode of have high protein low carb breakfast, exercise before work, take healthy food breaks mid morning and lunch and afternoon. I had to retreat to the bathroom several times a day to do more exercises to beat the stress.

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User Profile: djchuang
djchuang July 26th, 2020

Hello everyone, my name is DJ and I live in Southern California. I'm new to the message forum, though I did sign up for an account here back in 2017.

I just turned 54 years old this month, and recently watched that movie of the Broadway play, Hamilton. One line from that movie resonated with me, when they sang about how Hamilton was writing like he was running out of time. You know what? That got me into a sobering reflective mood thinking about what it is that I want to do with the rest of my life. Not in a morbid or sad sense of it, but more like a "hmmmm.." is there something really important to me that I want to do, sooner than later, in my life? So that's what is on the back burner of my mind this month.

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User Profile: adventurousBranch3786
adventurousBranch3786 July 27th, 2020

@djchuang Hi welcome to 50plus. I am 60 and the line "running out of time" resonates with me too.

User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP July 28th, 2020

@djchuang yes when parents start reaching end of life and I see them, I start to think what I want to have in between here and there. Thanks for the ideas.

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User Profile: djchuang
djchuang July 28th, 2020

@soulsings my Dad passed away 9 years ago, and that was a pivotal point of experiencing my mortality, for sure, and that moment prompted me to be more intentional about spending time with my Mom - I live in California and she lives in Maryland. For several years, my work involved travels, so whenever I was on the East Coast, I'd add a stop near DC to visit Mom for a day or two. Now with COVID-19 quarantine everywhere, travels are less.

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User Profile: soulsings
soulsings OP July 29th, 2020

@djchuang yes when my dad passed I woke up and realized that too much of my energy was wrapped up in trying to get dad to understand me, which he probably could not, and trying to be the offspring he wanted me to be, which I never totally succeeded at, but I did learn a lot from him.

Now I call my mom every day. I am appreciating our time together because I know it will end some day, possibly soon. We never know for sure.

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