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Is Christmas too commercialized?

User Profile: amiablePeace77
amiablePeace77 November 16th, 2023

It’s that time of the year again when some people will argue about the meaning of Christmas, others will be guilted into gift-giving and some will claim commercialization has ruined the holiday altogether.

Do you believe X-mas is too commercialized? How would you rather see it to be celebrated?

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amiablePeace77 OP November 16th, 2023

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amiablePeace77 OP November 16th, 2023

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Gettingbettertoday November 16th, 2023

@amiablePeace77

It is too commercial. If it were my choose i would not celebrate it at all.  I don't believe in the mythology and buying presents for someone to celebrate someone elses supposed birthday is stupid. 

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amiablePeace77 OP November 17th, 2023

@Gettingbettertoday

I decided long time ago no gifts. I see the holidays as a relaxing time during which I allow myself a few more treats than usually but I respect if others want to follow the old tradition of gift giving as long as I do not need to be involved.

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purpleTree4652 November 16th, 2023

@amiablePeace77

Hi, Ami,

Yes, I do.  I'd like to see less of an emphasis on gifts and more of an emphasis on helping the less fortunate.

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amiablePeace77 OP November 17th, 2023

@purpleTree4652

I agree with you. How nice would it be if everyone goes out on Christmas to help others, help people in homes or on the street! Of course this help is not restricted to Christmas, but it could be a special day.

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November 17th, 2023

@amiablePeace77 All I want for Christmas is for the de-commercialization of Christmas! But I do worry that Jeff Bezos wouldn’t be able to gold plate his gold with gold or shoot his dumb donkey-bum into space - ah poor Jeff. 

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amiablePeace77 OP November 17th, 2023

@FlatenedByLife

De-commercialization and more compassion and kindness!

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November 17th, 2023

@amiablePeace77 HEY! You’re not supposed to add to MY Christmas list! 😂 But, yah, yah, yah more compassion and all that…except for Jeff Bezos, he needs 3 scary ghosts to visit him 😂

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Tinywhisper11 November 17th, 2023

@amiablePeace77 yeah! It probably is. Butttt and that's a big but, Xmas and any other celebration, is what you make of it, it's how you celebrate its your beliefs and values. Any celebration is kinda commercialised , all had good and bad points, ya just got to make it good, bring your own kinda magic ❤❤

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amiablePeace77 OP November 17th, 2023

@Tinywhisper11

Good reminder that we have a choice how we celebrate Christmas and every other holiday!

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Tinywhisper11 November 18th, 2023

@amiablePeace77 🎅merry xmas 🌲

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User Profile: communicativePond1728
communicativePond1728 November 17th, 2023

@amiablePeace77

I don't have a problem with the commercialization or celebration of Christmas so much as I do about unfairness.

Commercialization and celebration is pretty innocuous and even wonderful within itself as it provide jobs, inspiration and upliftment. That there's still poverty, homelessness and so much waste, that's what gets to me.

Where focus goes energy flows so I'd suggest that if one is feeling bad about the holidays that they focus their beautiful and enormously real attentions elsewhere, such as to a nice nature scene, or a trip they'd like to take, or an activity like colouring or a walk.

They could also find ways to channel it into reframing what bothers them by volunteering for the less fortunate or seeing the silver lining in their situation. For example "I wish I had the means to decorate as nicely as my neighbors" can become "I'm so lucky, thankful and grateful to have a roof over my head, food to eat and clothes to wear."

We may also have no idea what our neighbors are going through. Perhaps they have a deep insecurity that has them desperately keeping up with the Joneses. Or maybe they're potential friends. Nobody is perfect.

Thanks for the post! I've quite enjoyed considering and writing about this topic.

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amiablePeace77 OP November 17th, 2023

@communicativePond1728

Thanks for sharing these points! Many people will go hungry and desperate during the Christmas time so volunteering for the less fortunate sounds wonderful to me! You have a good point about seeing the silver lining in situations, often we focus on what we do not have and that prevents us to see all the things we do have.

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User Profile: SunShineAlwaysGrateful
SunShineAlwaysGrateful November 17th, 2023

@amiablePeace77

Well yes commercial for sure with Black Friday craziness however YOU do YOU how you want your holidays …. 

I do what works for my family and I am happy sharing food and time with loved ones … 

My house is a Christmas explosion lol 😂 but I like the simple things … quiet holiday and quality time … 

My son has autism so he likes everything the same every year 

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amiablePeace77 OP November 17th, 2023

@SunShineAlwaysGrateful

Black Fridays are just crazy to me and I do avoid them!

A nice quiet time sounds lovely and might also be beneficial for your son. I could imagine it can be hard for him to deal with all the stimulations from X-Mas lights and other decorations wherever you go.


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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 November 19th, 2023

In a nutshell:

  1. Yes.
  2. How is that even a question, let alone a debate?
  3. As I am not a Christian, I don't have an answer...presumably it should be more about old Mr. Yeshua & the three wise guys, etc. than about Santa Claus* & "sales" of products that had prices jacked immediately prior to the sale.