Help please
Hi so please a few people respond to this. Anyways I’m about to go across the US with my friend and her family and I’m so very excited. But I also don’t wanna go I’m going to miss my family even if they drive me insane. I just don’t want something to happen to them but it’s too late to turn back now but idk. Last time I went on a trip with my friend my grandpa died. Idk just someone please help. Have a lovely day!
@Evvieskate
If we always think "if I don't go anywhere, nothing bad will happen," then we'll never end up going anywhere. But that won't change whether or not bad things happen. You leaving with your friend didn't make your grandfather die. If you had stayed, he would still have died.
Whether you stay or go, things will just be as they are. Good or bad. Go and enjoy the trip and have a wonderful experience.
@Evvieskate
As the other poster said ... denying yourself experiences or things in case something bad happened is something i have done in the past.... I regret it thoroughly.
Mine was a grandma that passed away when I took a trip. when i was a teen.... missed a lot since putting off trips or experiences "in case OF " i cannot get those opportunities again and actually when you decline a lot ...........people quit inviting you.... knowing you will most likely say no....