List of things that never really happened but you lost some brain cells for ❤
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
hi sun! hope you are doing well too < 3
aw this is a really sweet and thoughtful post, thank you for making it. i think that a lot of the things i have anxiety about do somewhat carry out in real life, but one thing that usually doesn’t is meeting new people. whether it goes horribly or extremely well, i think that in the end, i find someone who i care for, or realise i there’s someone who i shouldn’t, and that’s it really! so not being so afraid of this is maybe a good thing.
how about everyone else? :)
Hey S , glad you found the post thoughtful and nice ! I can understand how uncomfortable it can be when meeting someone new , and all we mostly think are things that can go wrong ~ so lovely to know you feel that meeting people isn't that scary as how you feel it would be , and mostly find someone you care about ~ that's awesome yay ! Thanks for sharing , you have a friendly and wonderful vibe , only certain anyone would love to meet you and be a friend ❤
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@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
It's really so thoughtful and helpful post sunny. Thanks for it ❤😊
Feelings are really hard to describe. I don't know I really don't feel happy nowadays. It feels like there is something missing. I have everything and I am grateful for that but still I don't know what is it which makes me feel so low and sad. I hope I would feel better.
And I hope everyone who's going through hard times would feel better soon because you deserve happiness and love❤
Heya Lovely @LovetoGod , great to know you found this post helpful and thoughtful ❤
I hear you're not feeling happy as before nowadays and since you're unable to figure what's making you feel sad , it is becoming difficult to overcome these feelings . I would say that, nobody is happy 24*7 , feelings are hard to describe ~ yes , but feelings are just feelings , let them flow at their pace okiee ❤ what are somethings you feel could help you feel better ? Or something that could help you know what is preventing you from being happy?
I relate to times like these when nothing really is wrong but it just doesnt feel alright still , it is okay to feel how you are feeling, Love . Sometimes our feelings can be in layers ~ and small things that usually don't affect us, somehow start affecting us subconscious . Do you think maybe talking to someone can help you explore your recent days and feelings or in general just talking it out ?
I am sending you lots of love , hugs and strength and hoping you feel so much better super soon . You are so positive , friendly , supportive and compassionate with everyone ~ I hope the same is returned to you too ❤take good care okiee.
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Awww sunny. You are really so kind person. You are really great tbh. You always shower your love and blessings which can make people feel better. That's really so sweet of you. I always admire you. Thank you so much for your kind words. They're so helpful. I am trying my best to make myself better. I hope I can find out some ways. Thanks for always being here for me. Lots of love and hugs ❤❤🤗🤗
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
not sure if I'm answering the question correctly but I have like this irrational fear of posting pics on social media! I always think the worst things and automatically assume that everyone will like laugh at me or talk down on the post. I go through this process eeeeverytime I post even though when I finally work up the courage to , I get shown a lot of love. It never fails. But the cycle repeats!
I constantly feel like everyone expects me to be perfect. I feel that whenever I make a mistake everyone around me notices. Doing or saying anything I'm not a 100% certain about makes me anxious. This bothers me a lot in school and it prevents me from participating in class discussions. I know that no one actually notices and that they're opinions and perceptions of me doesn't matter, but it's the only thing I can think about when interacting with people I don't know.
Each and every time a social situaton comes, even if it is just hanging out with friends, I spend the previous days worrying about how it may go, how should I behave, what should I say... I've even been practicing with myself on potential events that may occur! Then, the day arrives, and all goes completely different on how I had planned it to, a lot of times for the better. I should learn from this but I keep doing it each time 😅
Hope this answers the question.
Hey, something that preoccupied my mind a year ago was a guy, who lived out of state, I was interested in was planning to move to the same city as me… well, it didn’t happen. I was so embarrassed about daydreaming about him moving to the same town as me this entire time and felt like my fantasy was crushed. I wondered why he changed his mind. Well, this year I had to travel to the same town as him and got to know him a little. He’s a nice guy, and after I left I felt like I got some closure on the matter. Now, I’ve accepted the situation and am moving forward with my life.
Hi Sun, I liked this young guy when I was 25 and 26 and I told this lady in a salon and she ended up telling my evil ohh brother. The guy was not who I thought and tried to break my heart. I didn’t notice that he was doing that for the money. Yes my brother paid him to break my heart. It was during the time I lost my mother. So I was very vulnerable. He just acted as if he liked me from a distance and made me feel as if I was less than.
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Interesting Post! i like
@exquisitePeace7976 Thankyou for reading!🌻