Toxic father in law
Does anyone have any tips for dealing with this type of personality?
Passive aggressive (and sometimes just plain old aggressive)
Demeaning
Subtle bullying and putdowns
Egotistical
Narcissistic
Constantly demanding praise
Highly intolerant
Difficult to talk to
Getting involved where not wanted
Constantly having to walk on egg shells around
Instantly ready to blow a fuse if the wrong thing is said
This pretty much sums up my father in part. My anxiety is sky high trying to handle him, resulting in many sleepless nights. This results in me being cranky with my own family, which I really don't like. I know he doesn't deserve the amount of mental energy I waste on him, but can't seem to tell my brain that!
@nicePapaya7881
Hi NicePapaya,
Thanks for taking the time and reaching out. Sounds like things with your father in law are really tough and youd prefer not to be around him but avoiding isnt always the best option as his behavior might get worse and stay the same.
So as for tips, I guess it could be about how he misunderstands you and perhaps as you said you think and have to deal with him more than you would like. As you said, sometimes your brain without you realizing spends more time thinking about what he does.
Hopefully some ideas and options come up for you to consider.
Feel free to message back or send a message so we can talk more
Moni
