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issue I have want to be able to live independently but hate making own supers for 2 days

User Profile: Disneywoman
Disneywoman December 3rd, 2023

I have a big issue. I want to be able to live independently but I have one major problem if I have to cook for more then two days my own supper like this past week when I had to make my own supper two nights in a row-  I get I don't know what the term is I want but I will say "bored" cooking.    Today my Mom isn't feeling too well (she's sick) and I already made supper for myself twice this past week (Wed and Thursdays) and I really don't want to be cooking for myself tonight but I don't really want Dad's food either  (about 6  years of Dad's food between 2014 and 2020+ 2 entire months of his Food during August and early-til mid Sept of 2022) I want Dad to stay as far away from the kitchen as possible because his cooking is terrible.  The only thing I could think of is to have a mini pizza i have in the freezer in the upstairs kitchen freezer.

Before someone suggests the food delivery apps I and my family don't like them so even if I was living independently I wouldn't use them - I would either need to have someone drive me or walk to the food place in question.


So as I started at the beginning this not liking cooking for myself more then once a week is going to cause a problem if I can ever live independently.

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User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana December 5th, 2023

@Disneywoman

I go to dd center and one part program helps people learn cooking and stuff maybe place by you does same thing

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User Profile: Disneywoman
Disneywoman OP December 5th, 2023

@theboymoana  I already know *how* to cook.  My problem is I get really tired of cooking if I have to do it more then twice a week and that's going to be a problem if I ever want to live on my alone

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User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana December 5th, 2023

@Disneywoman maybe can learn ways make feel more easy do that though like ways not get so tired cooking

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User Profile: Disneywoman
Disneywoman OP December 5th, 2023

@theboymoana the only way I can do that is not adding 1000+ veggies (not actual number) to my meals but I have been trained by my Mom to add !000+ veggies to turn something unhealthy into something  healthy when cooking.

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User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana December 5th, 2023

@Disneywoman ok think good idea not live own

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User Profile: Disneywoman
Disneywoman OP December 5th, 2023

@theboymoana  But I want to live on my own.-I hate living with my parents -I can't go into "Toto" on my own.  I can't really go out much except for my volunteer job because of Disability income and the fact I'm immoncomprised/ 

  It took me over 10 years for me just to start the process of being in the doctor's office on my *** own- this year.   I don't really want my sister having to be my guardian despite the fact I'm a *** adult if something happens to Mom and Dad.    So I'm not dating even though I would like to be but due to disablity income if I tried to move into the boyfriend's place-my provincial disability income would say my boyfriend and I are "common-laws" within three months and claw back by disability income that I real need for my drugs-I can't pay for my prescritoion drugs out of pocket its too expensive. 

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User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana December 6th, 2023

@Disneywoman

i don’t know any that means am only 14 and always will need live someone because my disabilities just confused you say can’t live on own because only make food 2 times week but all say is why nothing work try do food more 

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User Profile: Disneywoman
Disneywoman OP December 6th, 2023

@theboymoana Because the rest of the week unless Mom's sick My Mom does the cooking.  Mom's the only one who can do the "Fancy" Asian meals that we have once a week.   She doesn't want to teach me that 

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User Profile: theboymoana
theboymoana December 6th, 2023

@Disneywoman oh ok

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