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User Profile: Tinywhisper11
Tinywhisper11 January 17th, 2024

January has been hard and we are only half way through😥 it's minus 5 degrees here tonight, so my pain levels are rising. I have a chest infection and flu, currently taking my second course of antibiotics and steroids. Tw) coughing with a broken spine hurrttttsss so badly😭 I just want to cry. My 8 month old baby bunny, had a operation to get neutered, then his gut stopped working. We got him emergency treatment but he didn't make it😞 I just want to go into hibernation till February comes, maybe February will be kinder to me. Tw) I also lost two  people I know to sui. 😭

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YourCaringConfidant January 17th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 Ohhhh Tiny, I'm giving you a great big hug to help console you. I'm so sorry you are not feeling well, on top of loss and even more loss. My heart breaks for you knowing you have to go through this. But Tiny, if there's anyone who can get through anything, it's you. Losing friends and pets is never easy. I will keep you in my prayers during this so sad of a time. You've already gone through so much in life, I wish we had the ability to take away the pain but that's life for us. We just have to keep "lifing" you know. We have to keep living. You're such a beautiful, amazing person, Tiny. I hope you are able to muster the strength and will to get through all this. I hope your body recovers and heal. I hope your heart ache heals. You are loved and cared about. ♡ Hugs! ♡ 

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 17th, 2024

@YourCaringConfidant thanks caring ❤ I love you ❤

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YourCaringConfidant January 17th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 I love you too, sweetness. Xoxo.

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 17th, 2024

@YourCaringConfidant 🙂❤ you made me a picture ❤❤ it's me hugging the sweetest caring cake. I may have to eat you just a little bit🙂thankyou ❤

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YourCaringConfidant January 17th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 Yep, just trying to add some sweet 😋 in your life. ♡ I'll be praying for you though. 

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January 17th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 I hope the medicine will keep you from coughing and I hope you’re able to get some sleep. Sorry to hear about the people you lost and your bunny too. Sending you warm soothing hugs and a big cuddly soft warm blanket. 

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 17th, 2024

@FlatenedByLife 🙂 thankyou ❤ warm blanket sounds nice ❤

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YourCaringConfidant January 17th, 2024

@FlatenedByLife Hi Flatened. I just wanted to say that I admire how you are always so sweet when I see your name in the forums. Thanks for caring for our sweetest Tiny friend and taking care of her with that blankie. Awww. Stay sweet. Just wanted to acknowledge that I see you.

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January 17th, 2024

@YourCaringConfidant 😊 Thank you 

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul January 17th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 I hope you feel better soon. I've been sick too - sounds similar to what you have 😞 

Can I hibernate with you? sick-feel-better.gif


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Tinywhisper11 OP January 17th, 2024

@mytwistedsoul plenty of room in my bed for you and mayo too come in too ❤ ❤

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mytwistedsoul January 18th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 Between your cough and mine poor Mayo won't get any sleep. Make sure you stay hydrated ok? *Sending you lots of good vibes* ❤️

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YourCaringConfidant January 17th, 2024

@mytwistedsoul Awww Twisted, I hope you feel better soon! Please get some rest and let your body recuperate. :) 

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mytwistedsoul January 18th, 2024

@YourCaringConfidant Thank you! 😊❤️

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 18th, 2024

@mytwistedsoul hydrated ok I will eat lots of icecream😁 thanks ❤

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mytwistedsoul January 18th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 That's the cure right there! Lots and lots of ice cream! 😉

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 18th, 2024

@mytwistedsoul yaaaay! I knew icecream is what you really meant by staying hydrated ❤❤we have great minds😁❤

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User Profile: snugglesnow
snugglesnow January 18th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 awww I'm so so sorry to hear all that 😢😞

hey u should migrate like the birdies ;) *sends some warmth from australia*❤️

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 18th, 2024

@snugglesnow thanks sweetie ❤ and yes I should emigrate🤔🤔🤔 I'll be knocking on your door tomorrow😁 thanks for the invite😁❤

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snugglesnow January 18th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 you're welcome to come sweetie 🥰🤗 though you might just be breaking a world record since its already "tomorrow" here 😁😁 (time zones- hi from friday 😛)

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 19th, 2024

@snugglesnow 😁❤ ok I'll be there in between friday and Saturday😂😂

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 18th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 😭😭😭I feel so depressed😞 and broken down, I am not sure if I can put on my brave face today. I don't even want to be smilling. And I love smilling, this really sucks

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schrodingerscattt January 18th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

I am sending you the biggest hugggs. I wish i could hug you in real life bestie! I know how hard it is for you and i really want you to feel better🥺 I am feeling bad myself so i can't offer much support but know that i love you so much. I really care about you as a best friend should💗

You are so so so strong for going through all of this. You're a fighter!

You don't have to force yourself to smile. I know you love smiling( which is one more thing that i admire about you) but it's ok to not smile sometimes. Sometimes smiling and pushing through is the way to go but sometimes you need to sit with your emotions and feel them. And cry if you need to. I'm always here if you need me and you can vent to me as much as you want. I really wanna help and i will do my best to listen to you. If you want ofc. I know sometimes venting hurts even more because all you wanna do is to forget about the situation.

I love you and i'm always here for you if you need anything💗

Also don't forget our cottage/cabin in the woods. It really helps me to push through💗


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Tinywhisper11 OP January 19th, 2024

@schrodingerscattt thanks sweetie ❤ gives you a giant tiny hug ❤❤ no matter what we go through we are all here to pick each other up ❤ thanks for being my friend ❤

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schrodingerscattt January 19th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

It's an honor to be your friend.  Honestly ❤️❤️❤️ I hope you're doing good today

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User Profile: slowdecline48
slowdecline48 January 18th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11 Oh d***, you're having a rough time of it lately. Wish there was something I could do to fix it... 😔

Hopefully the staff at the care home has plenty of tea for you to drink. That's how I get through colds, sinus infections, etc. Drink plenty of clear fluids: gin, vodka, etc....but seriously, not getting enough fluid in one's system makes everything worse.

If there's such a thing as an afterlife & there is any justice at all, then your two friends are somewhere there, not feeling any pain, & feeding your rabbit.

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 19th, 2024

@slowdecline48 I believe there is an afterlife ❤❤ and it's a very comforting thought 🙂 ❤ got it plenty of alcohol and icecream, I'll tell my carers doctor dec. Told me that's what I need 😁❤

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slowdecline48 January 19th, 2024

Hey, if smooth-talking frauds like Eric Berg & Ken Berry can make YT videos pushing their buncombe with millions of viewers believing them, then I can be a "doctor" too... 😏 The hard liquor is necessary to wipe out the infectious microbes. Once you get rid of those, you'll start to recover right away.

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User Profile: AvyIsKing
AvyIsKing January 18th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

Oh wow I'm so sorry to hear this ): life had been so unkind to you. I'm zorry you lost gizmo, that isn't fair to you. I really hope February gets better lovely 

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 19th, 2024

@AvyIsKing hugs  you tightly ❤ February will get better for both of us ❤

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Gettingbettertoday January 18th, 2024

@Tinywhisper11

I am sorry tp hear you lost your friend.

I hope you are feeling better soon.

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 19th, 2024

@Gettingbettertoday thanks sweetie ❤ hugs you tightly ❤I love you

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User Profile: GoingInCircles365
GoingInCircles365 January 18th, 2024

Hi sweet Lola, I'm so sorry to hear that a *** month this has been so far. Sometimes it seems like all the nasty stuff just rains down all at once. And it's no easier in the middle of winter either. 

You have had some very sad losses. I miss your fuzzy little bunny-friend and I never even met him! :(

I hope you recover quickly and get plenty of rest, warm tea/cocoa/coffee/whatever you like and I would wish to send you lots of ice cream too, bcause I know you like ice cream, but in the middle of winter?  Not so sure about that one. 

Take care of yourself and keep us posted. Lots and lots of tiny-hugs to you! 💕

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 19th, 2024

@GoingInCircles365 thanks sweetie ❤ and yes please send icecream😋 it's always icecream season in my mind 😁 ❤ hugs you back ❤I love you

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User Profile: DanDrisco
DanDrisco January 19th, 2024

Good evening,


I'm sorry to hear about your loss as well as your illness. I am currently fighting my way out of hibernation so please take what I say as a lesson learned too late.


You are allowed to mourn, but remember that you must keep moving forward. If you find yourself sitting for a long period trapped in your thoughts please do yourself the favor of finding something to occupy your time that's not on a screen. I jumped from thing to thing, birdhouse smelting metal and now writing. The writing feels very good as I am putting all of my deepest feelings on paper as well as feeling them as I write. It's painful to experience loss but your loved one won't be able to rest until you have. Pick something that makes you happy and you will be surprised at what the outcome can be.

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Tinywhisper11 OP January 19th, 2024

@DanDrisco Thank you ❤ ❤ I do art and craft 😁❤ I keep myself as busy as I can, just sometimes it gets hard. But I'm not giving up, we can do this ❤

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DanDrisco January 19th, 2024

Never give up on yourself. Whatever you do, you will do great at it! I tried painting about 6 years ago due to a Bob Ross binge. I'm not sure if you know the legend of Zelda, but I chose to paint the great deku tree. During that is when I found the beauty of nothing is going to be perfect just like every one of us. The more you reach for perfection, the harder it will become to achieve it. So have fun along the way and let your heart as well as your mind freestyle a piece for you! Try approaching a piece with no plan in mind, look around your surroundings and let fate decide what the finished result will be. You may be surprised!

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