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The Pandemic & Living with Chronic Illnesses & Disabilities

User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo March 14th, 2020

This is a place to share how you are all doing with the pandemic.

Even here with a fairly small number of cases I have concerns. Getting my usual things to manage my illnesses is more difficult. Access to healthcare services is already being affected.

Many of us are in high risk groups and in many cases we don't know how much of a risk our illnesses do put us at, as there isn't much information yet for how people with specific conditions have fared who have been sick with COVID-19.

How are you all doing? Share your struggles and concerns as well as any tips, positive messages, etc.

Let us know if there are specific things that can be done to support you better here at 7cups.

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User Profile: PinkDahlia22
PinkDahlia22 March 23rd, 2020

@AffyAvo

I am really really struggling - i personally dont know what i should be doing if i should be self distancing with all my health issues as i work in a hospital but when i get unwell i am bed ridden and will get temp of 40 celcius plus and my manager doesnt seem to get it at the moment and idk what im meant to do - i fall in the at risk catagory but not the extremely vulnrable catagary soooo idk...

Its causing me so much anxiety and stress and im just freaking soooooo much. i have 2 weeks off got this week left... waiting for a phonecall back from my GP as im still awaiting neurology investigations too.

-Joy <3

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP March 25th, 2020

@JoyIntoDarkness I'm sorry that this is so hard for you. Being more at risk of complications and not being able to work from home is stressful, I know others in a similar situation to you too.

I hope you can at least get reasonable protections put into place.

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User Profile: JoyousBear
JoyousBear March 24th, 2020

@AffyAvo Thanks for bringing these concerns up. Yes, it can be very hard for disabled people to cope with current crisis, especially for those who are in high risk groups.

I have got days off now as my tasks at job were suspended and also many other people were asked to stay at home rather than come to work.

Supermarkets have got dedicated time when people in high risk group, pregnant women and disabled people have priority and they are asked to go to supermarket in this dedicated time.

It can be hard if you need someone who helps you to get stuff from high shelves as we have to do shopping alone.

We are also asked to stay at home and not to socialize. Very opposite of what we were always told by many experts - that we need constant socializing. Now i found out that some alone time was beneficial for me as i could relax a bit.

But it will become concern if my technical assistive devices will get broken or damaged or if i need a new acumulator for my electric wheelchair as all services are shut down.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP March 25th, 2020

@gentleSun78 I hope those who need help with groceries and any breakdowns of equipment can get it, even if it's in a different way than usual.

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User Profile: sensibleSkies8757
sensibleSkies8757 March 29th, 2020

@AffyAvo

I reported undercover police for abusing me and they wrongly accused me to SSI disability attempting to get my benefits terminated. They tried to frame me and lied. I tried to contact SSI inspector general and got no response.

I have people aiming cameras at me and I think i am being unfairly targeted. I cannot support myself working. I am barely functional.

This adds more terror and suffering to my plight.

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User Profile: sensibleSkies8757
sensibleSkies8757 March 29th, 2020

@sensibleSkies8757

Our governor issued an order to stay at home unless emergency. These revengeful retaliatory detectives dont care. They stalk me over vendettas and ignore the health risk it places the entire public. They are reckless.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 3rd, 2020

@sensibleSkies8757 That sounds really scary. I hope things get resolved where you don't have that aspect to manage on top of the pandemic.

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User Profile: Tadwinks
Tadwinks March 30th, 2020

@AffyAvo I think this is a great thread. I was put on an experimental treatment for one of my chronic conditions that involves a high dose of immunosuppressants last week and I'm not sure how it will affect me, especially with the virus going around. I also have family members who might be at risk of complications if they get the virus.
In my country, we were told to stay at home unless we had to leave for work, school, a doctor's appointment or to shop for essentials. I currently volunteer at a nursing home and last I heard, we are still allowed to do so but there have been new rules and restrictions and they aren't accepting new volunteers. It's a bit of a worry because another nursing home not too far away had a COVID-19 outbreak.

I have spent a lot of time playing the new Animal Crossing game at home. I have also been doing online courses, listening to podcasts, watching streaming services, playing browser games and getting some work done on the house.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 3rd, 2020

@Tadwinks Hopefully you won't have any infection issues with the medication. I understand how that's a concern, especially if it's fairly new so you don't know how you fare on it with common things, like minor colds.

It sounds like you're finding ways to occupy yourself at home and I hope you can continue with the nursing home, even if it's doing different things as things change.

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User Profile: pocketbee
pocketbee March 31st, 2020

@AffyAvo

It's a very inconvenient situation, honestly. Personally, I was starting to get job offers, from retail stores and one real estate agency, and as someone who's travelled a lot I haven't had the chance to really get stable work until this year when I settled down with my boyfriend... I was looking forward to those opportunities! I was also trying to finally get my GED so I can pursue further education, since I was homeschooled and didn't get all the school credits.

Now, everything's on hold. cryingbroken heart

As a wheelchair girl, the buses aren't as reliable, which make travel hellish, and since I'm very vulnerable to the virus with my lungs/heart issues and brain injury I try not to be in crowds or on buses anyway lately. Which sucks as someone very extroverted. It's not like I can afford taxis either. This whole thing seriously is messing with my psychotic depression too and I don't like it, my ADHD is also going haywire. With inaccessibility and some medical crisis, I'm used to the stress of suddenly being isolated, and of how my mental illnesses react to it. Doesn't make it any easier. I go really stir crazy and my chronic pain gets awful.

Thankfully my friends IRL keep my mood up... stay strong everyone. Thanks for making this thread.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 3rd, 2020

@pocketbee Yes, so much is on hold right now. Maybe you can continue to study a bit if you still have access to the materials? I don't know if that would allow you to speed through it when things get reopened.

Oh and yes, I'm glad I don't rely on public transportation. I hope you can continue to get where you need to be.

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User Profile: pocketbee
pocketbee April 4th, 2020

@AffyAvo I just might try that! yesheart I do want to progress, it's hard to not feel like the whole world is stopping me. But I'm looking into getting a job from home in this chaos, and I will contact my school ASAP. Thanks.

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User Profile: tluper6491
tluper6491 April 3rd, 2020

Every day is worse. I feel too weak to live through this. I don't even think I want to with how messed up the world is.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 3rd, 2020

@tluper6491 I'm sorry you're having such a tough time with this. Do you have anyone to help you out with needs? It won't be like this forever, I do hope you get through it ok. I know it's hard, and not everyone is coming out on the other end sad

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User Profile: tluper6491
tluper6491 April 3rd, 2020

@AffyAvo

At this point I sincerely hope I don't make it. I have no reason to keep going.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 3rd, 2020

@tluper6491 What are the major factors for making this time so difficult for you?

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User Profile: tluper6491
tluper6491 April 3rd, 2020

@AffyAvo

The emotional stress and constant dread of literally every day getting worse and worse. I'm terrified to sleep because I always wake up to bad news and I'm terrified to be awake because it's nothing but an endless stream of bad news. There's no escaping it. Everything is awful and just getting worse every single day.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 14th, 2020

@tluper6491 Have things changed at all for you? Have you tried seeking out positive news stories? I'm seeing lots of those lately.

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User Profile: tluper6491
tluper6491 April 17th, 2020

@AffyAvo

Not remotely. I'm mentally much worse every single day.

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User Profile: MandaLa314
MandaLa314 April 4th, 2020

@AffyAvo Thanks for bringing up this topic!

My small town seems to be living in denial. Their disability supports are 2/10 on their best day. Now, they don't have separate times for disabled or elderly people, or pregnant women to shop, and the stores are crowded. They're handing out toilet paper 1 at a time, these small rolls for camping. I have a child, there's no way it's going to last. (I crumple newspaper and catalogs repeatedly until the paper is soft - flush a little at a time or it will clog.) I bought enough OTC meds and also my doctor changed my refills to 90-day so I won't have to go without meds. There is plenty of produce but no ramen or soup, so Kid is making vegetable broths and soups, we're freezing it in containers to reheat later.

Emotionally, I'm used to being mostly bed-bound and isolated. I have a lot to keep me busy. But we can't get tested, all the tests are going to a university hospital and none to all the small clinics in the state. I can't drive that far. I'm really sick, doctor told me to isolate for 14-28 days depending on my fever and coughing.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 14th, 2020

@MandaLa314 Sorry to hear you were unwell, how are you now? That's awesome your kid was making vegetable soup!

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User Profile: MythologicalMayhem
MythologicalMayhem April 5th, 2020

The main impact it has had is stress and anxiety, but that's worsened my psoriasis. I'm generally feeling low because I cannot self isolate and must continue going to work in a hospital. At this point, there is a high chance I could get coronavirus. :( It has also caused fall outs with some family members and has affected my uni work.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 14th, 2020

@MythologicalMayhem Sorry to hear about all the added stress. It sounds like you're doing an important role right now though, most of those in the hospital are fairly important at this time.

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User Profile: Kathy1212
Kathy1212 April 6th, 2020

I've been staying at home for about 3 weeks. It's very difficult to not see family who live outside of the house and not knowing how long this will go on.

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 14th, 2020

@Kathy1212 I agree, it's hard to not visit with those we would otherwise be seeing! I've had some good phone calls at least.

User Profile: ItsPreeti
ItsPreeti April 14th, 2020

@Kathy1212, this pandemic has made situations difficult, I can understand how hard it is to be staying like. What I can offer is strength.

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User Profile: MandaLa314
MandaLa314 April 8th, 2020

All the stores advertise delivery but have a $25 or even $40 minimum. I can't afford that, very few of us here in disabled housing can. Foodbank isn't delivering. I am blessed my teen can walk to get a meal each day for herself!

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User Profile: AffyAvo
AffyAvo OP April 14th, 2020

@MandaLa314 Is there anyone nearby you could share the delivery option with? It's easier to meet the minimum with orders for 2 households.

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