Hate her
When my mom found out she was pregnant with a girl, she was upset. Last time, she and my dad didn't care about her pregnancy to the point that I was born in poor health. I was born with cataracts in my eye, and when I gave birth, she didn't really care until the cataracts turned into chronic, incurable glaucoma. The funny thing is that she sometimes taunts me about this because of the glaucoma that she caused!She doesn't even feel guilty.
@Lillymni
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I'm sorry you feel this way .
They are hard feelings to navigate.
I'm sorry you are struggling with your eyes now.
I genuinely hope you get the help and the care that you need 💜💕
I'm sorry you are going through this. My parents are similar, they mock the very trauma they caused. Barely care if I'm alive or dead.
@Swalla
@Swalla
I'm sorry to hear that. Everybody deserves to be loved and supported, and that includes you too. Remember that you are always welcome in the 7cups community to vent about anything you like or just have a light chat with other people.
Sending you support 🫂 how have you been?
This breaks my heart. Youre not alone. Maybe the community will give you the love your parents couldnt. Im here for you both 💛 (also coming from a toxic home)
@Lillymni
@Swalla
@Lillymni
I'm sorry that you had to go through that..as a girl myself, it hurts me to know that some people still favor boys over girls..when in fact we are all equal and we all deserve to be loved. Even though your parents don't appreciate you, remember that your value comes from within, and not from what other people say or how they treat you.
You are still a valuable person even though your parents never said so and i hope one day you will realize just how valuable and precious you are 💜
@pinkKite8784 ya did u ever see those videos on tik tok of men celebrating having sons. Then there’s videos of them getting mad when they are having a daughter. I remember he video a woman who posted her gender reveal got SO MANY comments showing concern the mother deleted the video. It’s scary how women don’t see the red flags when a guy slams his fist or does something violent after finding out his first child isn’t a son. It’s so ridiculous
@greendayfangirl
Yeah unfortunately i have seen videos like that..i wonder if there are even any videos of people being happy of having a daughter
Thankfully you're still able to use and chat on a device! Losing eyesight completely would mean you wouldn't be able to see anymore and use things that require eyesight. You're tough for enduring! Tough! Thank God!
I'm sorry you had to face that. Ik what it's like my dad wanted a son too but I want you to know you deserve every bit of happiness you can get.
@Lillymni
Thank you for sharing your feelings with us all, I'm really glad that you sought comfort and see 7Cups as a safe place to share what's on your mind
I can see there's a lot of resentment there and that's completely understandable to feel that way!
I hope you continue to make full use of the community here, as you have done already (which is amazing!)🌟
