My close friends has closer friends I will never be their first choice
They probably value them more than me
I feel so worthless I'm a terrible piece of garbage they will never value me as much as they value their closer friends I will never be their first choice
I'm never capable of having a bestfriend that actually loves me
I hate myself.
It's unfortunate you feel this way but we have all felt insecure at times. I try not to take it personally, different people have different needs.
I knew that my friend's friends were more outgoing and had hobbies that I wasn't into.
Eventually I clicked with other people that were more like me. If you can focus on your strengths, something that you love, might inspire others and spark off conversations.
But if you feel like venting, that's ok too :)
Hi Twizzly, I am so sorry you are feeling this way right now. It sounds incredibly painful and exhausting to feel like you aren't anyone's first choice, but please know that you are NOT garbage. Your feelings are completely valid, and you deserve to have friends who truly value and love you. If you need someone to talk to or just want to vent more about this, my inbox is always open. I am here to listen whenever you're ready. Sending you a big hug! 🫂
@Twizzly i love you twizzle, ur MY bsf! ur not a terrible piece of garbage or un of the best ppl on ere and such an awesome person. other people who are less than you don't define you. and i have a saying for you said by Cristiano Ronaldo himself: "Maybe they hate me cause I'm too good."
And tha'ts true in your case. Haters will hate, succssful people and awesome ones like you rise aboe the rest
@Twizzly remember, whenever you're hating yourself, I BELIEVE IN YOU and am here for you
People naturally feel closer to others when they have similar personalities, hobbies, interests, or when they feel comfortable being vulnerable and trusting each other. That’s just how connections work.
It doesn’t mean there’s anything wrong with you or that you’re not likable or worth being close to. Not everyone will naturally click with you, and that’s okay.
At the end of the day, most people have favorites. Even if you aren’t someone’s favorite, the fact that they still choose to hang out with you means they enjoy being around you and appreciate you. You shouldn’t let that make you insecure about yourself.
