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What if the rocks in your way aren’t actually stopping you (but teaching you)?

User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 February 3rd

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We’ve all had those days where it feels like we’re just bumping from one obstacle to the next. It’s easy to see these "rocks" as things that are trying to sink us or hold us back.

But in the Way of the River, we look at things a little differently. We believe that the problem is the path. Just like a master kayaker only learns their skills in the rapids, our challenges are often the very teachers we need to help us "level up" and find a new way of being. 

Think about a "rock" (a challenge or annoyance) you’ve faced this week. If that rock was actually a teacher, what lesson would it be trying to show you?

Some examples might be:

  • The Lesson of Patience: (e.g., waiting for news or a result)

  • The Lesson of Resilience: (e.g., bouncing back after a mistake)

  • The Lesson of Boundaries: (e.g., learning when to say no)

  • The Lesson of Asking for Help: (e.g., realizing you can't paddle this stretch alone)

Reply below:

My rock is _________ and it's teaching me _________


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User Profile: JasGab200519970
JasGab200519970 February 5th

@Heather225

Heather,

My rock is resilience this week and its teaching me that the beauty is not in rushed outcomes and contemplates more reflection, what's the purpose and what's the destination. 


Thank you - Ive enjoyed reflection time! :)

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 13th

@JasGab200519970

I love your response so much

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User Profile: SparkyGizmo
SparkyGizmo February 6th

@Heather225

Well said! 😊 ❤️

In all my years working at the quarry 🥴, I sure have learned a great deal! 💡


*high fives* 😊 and *hugs* ❤️

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 13th

@SparkyGizmo

Thank you my friend <3

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User Profile: Harmony8682
Harmony8682 February 9th

My rock is indpendence and it is telling me to be more independent and not depend on people so much, feel more comfortable making decisions for myself and not to seek validation from other people which is tough as I feel like I need that reasurance all the time.

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 13th

@Harmony8682

You're doing some extremely admirable things, and breaking out of the need to seek external validation is a massive undertaking for many of us. I've been there myself. I commend your efforts! <3

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