Am I that annoying
Idk, but you are loved <3
@Sundulol fr
My last listener sent me really inappropriate messages.
Im so sorry that happened to u :(
It's not easy to find long term support. But even a small chat can be beneficial.
Did you find healing through your conversations? Maybe tell the listener that you're looking for long term support and they'll tell you if they're able to offer it. That way there would be more clarity to your goals.
I try but most of them stop awnsering me after the first message
@Sundulol You're not alone. The Listeners here genuinely don't listen in real time. If they do, they tend to say frustrating things, like making in appropriate comments. I don't get the point of them.
@convivialStrawberries8026 I was hoping to edit my comment, but I don't see a way to do that. Occasionally, I have found a good listener. I guess I'm just feeling frustrated at what I'm seeing more and more. Recently, I've had a string of bad experiences with Listeners.
@Sundulol I doubt that. But I would listern if you would like to talk:)
My first listener went "I'm not trained in those topics" . I'm new here and didn't exactly fill me with confidence
I think it was good that they set your expectations up front. If you were hoping for support they could not give more disappointment could have been a negative especially after being vulnerable with them.
I hope you find the support you need soon.
That must be harsh. I'm sorry to hear that your first experience wasn't the best, but I'd love to lend you an ear whenever you need it.
@Hazelmarie I am sorry that that was your first response by a listener. It may help to put more tags in your chat requests as this allows listeners who are more equipped to assist you in your current dilemma to help. I hope you will find more support and understanding in your future chats!
@Sundulol you can always reach out to me i honestly have no idea how listeners work here i just stick to the ai cos i feel like its less judgemental LOL
@Sundulol
Hey. I'm sorry you had that experience. Listeners sometimes may not be open to providing long term support. There could be other reasons too, for example self care break. It's best you discuss it beforehand with them and let them know what kind of support you're looking for. It's also a good idea to have multiple listeners to help you through your journey. We are a team and we'd love for you to feel heard. 😊💓
@trueconfidant123 that's very well said because listeners are only humans too and they don't have the answers to everything and not do they have all the time in the world, sometimes the members can be very dismissive and rude, which aldo has to be taken into consideration because its very draining when you log on to help and do your best and you are hit with someone who disregards all your attempts of kindness!
@Amanda84
I'm glad you agree with my pov and thank you so much for the add-on.
@trueconfidant123 You are welcome. I am only a new listener and when I first came onto the page and reached out to other listeners for support, they were inappropriate, they were asking for off site contact, they were sexually aggressive and thankfully, I have a strong mindset so it didn't put me off kilter, but thankfully other listeners were supportive and helped me through, I think each person whether listener or member needs to take accountability for themselves!
@Amanda84
I'm sorry about the negative experience. I've faced such terrible scenes on here myself. Please make sure you report such individuals because this behaviour is unacceptable and we have a strong support team in place who's ready to support you!
Me too 😭😭 but few years back, 7 cups wasn’t like this