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User Profile: YenNhi
YenNhi March 1st

A mind that thinks too much, overthinks heavily, and whose thoughts run nonstop..

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow March 1st

@YenNhi I'm sorry that you're feeling this way 🙁You're not alone, i feel the same sometimes. Be gentle with yourself 🤍 Sending you lots of love and *hugs* ❤️❤️

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User Profile: YenNhi
YenNhi OP March 2nd

Thanks

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User Profile: SOULANDSCIENCE
SOULANDSCIENCE March 2nd

@YenNhi

Make a habit of writing..... whatever, whenever, any thought .....just write it down...... today we don't need pen and paper.......so just note down everything and slowly things will change.

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User Profile: YenNhi
YenNhi OP March 2nd

This method didn't work for me..

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User Profile: SOULANDSCIENCE
SOULANDSCIENCE March 2nd

I am sorry to hear that. Please know that we are here to support you as you navigate through the difficult times.

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User Profile: YenNhi
YenNhi OP March 2nd

Thanks you

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine March 2nd

@YenNhi

..and makes sleep virtual impossible some nights ...

I know what you mean.

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User Profile: YenNhi
YenNhi OP March 2nd

Oh

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine March 2nd

@YenNhi

I'm used to it, learnt to just sleep when I can, working night shifts with ADHD not a good match 🤪🤪

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User Profile: YenNhi
YenNhi OP March 2nd

Hmm. I'm very sleepy and want to sleep a lot, but I'm having trouble falling asleep..

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User Profile: Butterfly723389
Butterfly723389 March 2nd

@YenNhi Uhhh, that’s tough! 😞 To me, it helps to sometimes interrupt myself: “Are these thoughts realistic?”, “do they help me?” gets me out the loop or at least I start thinking about solutions instead of just worrying all the time.

You can’t stop thinking, but you can (slowly) learn to lead your thoughts. I like to imagine fantasy worlds to distract myself 😁

Hope some of this helps 😅

Wishing you a great day 🌸✨

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User Profile: YenNhi
YenNhi OP March 2nd

It didn't work for me either. But I appreciate you showing me how

User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine March 2nd

@Butterfly723389

@YenNhi

I started journalling shortly before I joined Cups and I've currently settled into a routine. I started to notice a difference so doubled down, I use a Notepad app on phone and if i have a persistent thought or worry note it down, some mindful breaths and try to let it go. Most morning I refer to the notes on my phone as i write a paper journal and allow time to reflect on them, action any I can. It has helped, not stopped the tendency to overthink but it does ease it sometimes, a works in progress 😄

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User Profile: Butterfly723389
Butterfly723389 March 2nd

@RunningMachine that sounds good. I journal too, but only the times when I’m not doing well 🥲😅 Sometimes it really helps, not always ofc. At least I keep track of how I’m doing, that really helped me recognise some patterns 🧐

And I agree, it takes time 🕰️

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine March 2nd

@Butterfly723389

Since Cups I've incuded gratitude, and if some members on Cups I interact with get their way it won't be long before intentions and affirmations too 😄😄

Not their yet, ADHD mind isn't easy to regulate but it is making a difference, keep at it 👍


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User Profile: modestCup1151
modestCup1151 March 2nd

@YenNhi 

I’m sorry I know it’s hard. I saw this quote a while ago that said something like maybe you over think because you’re trying to protect yourself. 

but I think it’s hard when you feel like you need a break from your thoughts 

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User Profile: YenNhi
YenNhi OP March 2nd

Thank

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User Profile: umm1234huh
umm1234huh March 2nd

Oh my god!! Samee I feel so annoyed by my own thoughts 😭