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Do you really like having me on 7 cups? Be honest pls.

User Profile: BuddyWinte
BuddyWinte May 14th, 2024

Lately I’ve noticed a lot of people seem to be hating on me for no reason, examples of so are pointing out my tiny mistakes, being rude as *** towards me for no reason being judged, etc…


Because of so, I’ve started gaining a constant voice in my head that makes it harder to log onto 7 cups everyday. I feel when I join a group chat I’m gonna ruin the chat, or when I send a message I am gonna get judged by someone, or just looked at weirdly.

No idea, if I wanna quit or not. But it really seems people really liked it when I was gone, cause people (and just scrolling through old forums with people) I’ve noticed a massive change in attitude…I mean I get that back in my day (3-4 months ago) 7 cups was filled with constant conflict in group chats. But it’s worse, and since I am a nobody I have no way to stop it. Since I don’t have RS anymore, which means everyone just says I’m minimodding, or smth. That’s a rant for another point

I could just be throwing a big giant fit over nothing, and most likely am. But I feel like everyone wants be gone again…Can you be straight honest and tell me, did you actually miss me, or did you enjoy me while I was gone?

I feel like my expectations of 7 cups has gone higher, and I think that people would be happy to see me back, a quarter of the reason I left. But that’s another forum in favor to that.


@theboymoana @iloveyouxx @justmeeva @Maeeeeebae999 @Unassumingeyes @JustANobody000

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User Profile: Remina
Remina May 14th, 2024

@BuddyWinte

Hey I am so sorry that you are feeling like this. I am on the adult side so I can't speak for the teen side and the people there but I am sure that your presence is appreciated.  Hugs if you want them.

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BuddyWinte OP May 14th, 2024

@HopieRemi


Thanks. *hugs*

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Remina May 14th, 2024

@BuddyWinte hug.gif

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BuddyWinte OP May 14th, 2024

@NoahAnimates

User Profile: TheArtistSystem
TheArtistSystem May 14th, 2024

@BuddyWinte 

I do agree it has become more of a toxic place in the teenies room with I do not like its not calm and nice anymore its a war Zone a good 90% of the time now the other 10% is its quiet barely anyone 

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BuddyWinte OP May 14th, 2024

@NoahAnimates


Thanks

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May 14th, 2024

@BuddyWinte Teen zone is crazy....I love having u here tho

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BuddyWinte OP May 14th, 2024

@Maeeeeebae999 

hiii mae (did you get muted or smth?)

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May 14th, 2024

@BuddyWinte muted banned next maybee

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User Profile: iloveyouxx
iloveyouxx May 14th, 2024

@Maeeeeebae999

(I hope it isn’t too random :0 but yur pfp is reallyreally pretty and I love your bio too<3 I’ve seen yu around a little I think and yu seem like a really nice fun persun and yur alot of my friends’s friends lol💖)

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May 14th, 2024

@iloveyouxx thank you sm lovely!! if ya wanna tlk more tag me in a fourm

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iloveyouxx May 14th, 2024

@Maeeeeebae999

awwwe hehe I only said the very least becos I didn’t think yu would’ve known me :P💗mm rn I can only think of my forum- idk if you’ve seen it- "in the wonders of my mind💗." now that I think about it it’s a pretty cringey name☠️🤍I talk to my friends on there sum of the time💜but that space can get kinda depressing lol :P💕su I could tag there or make another forum :0 what do you think? 

I’m sorry for replying so late- I was gonna reply in lead time and I couldn’t so I was gonna reply in arabic and I couldn’t- islamic we don’t use devices and moral ed and science were busy I skipped pe(and was too scared to get out anything-) and art we don’t use devices-

i made that complicated lol but yeah I’m sorry for replying so late.💗


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May 14th, 2024

@iloveyouxx its fine lovely u can tag me whenever wherever 

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User Profile: iloveyouxx
iloveyouxx May 14th, 2024

@BuddyWinte

I did miss you >:❤️I was scared you wouldn’t come back- i so hate the fact that cups has just gotten- worse :')🤍and also that the cups people are being so unnecessarily cruel to you🤍I wish cups was a "safe place" again. where we felt more welcome than burdening💙those thoughts are so hard to have irl but the fact you have to put up with them on cups too because of all this is just something that needs to change in my opinion.💜I didn’t think you’d still tag me🩷becos I know I haven’t been talking much :')💗🍜getting this made me so relieved but then reading it made me really sad😞💜I feel horrible because I feel like before you left I was already barely in your life at that point- and so many people were worried about "the last thing you said to them"? and I couldn’t be there.🩷>: I’m happy you still tag me💗/gen I promise I’ll try harder for you lol💙I’m sorry if this is messy it’s just that I’m about to leave for school- 

<3

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BuddyWinte OP May 14th, 2024

@iloveyouxx

Take care noodle have fun at school, thanks

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iloveyouxx May 14th, 2024

@BuddyWinte

i think we agree that school and fun don’t always go together-xd🤍thankyu🤍try to take care too <3


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BuddyWinte OP May 14th, 2024

@iloveyouxx

yea, you to

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User Profile: justmeeva
justmeeva May 14th, 2024

@BuddyWinte 

honestly? yes. i did miss you when you were gone. i thought about you constantly, wondering how you were doing, hoping to one day get tagged in a post saying “hey i’m back”. and you did come back. which i’m.. in simple words, really really happy about. i know we don’t talk too much (maybe we should, maybe i should), but you’re still my friend and i still care about you. 

i don’t know about rooms, i haven’t been there.. in a really long time, but hearing how there are conflicts and how it has changed, isn’t new to me. which is really sad. but i’ve always been a tag away if you ever want to talk friend. ❤️ 

long story short - i’m really glad you’re here, and really glad to have you as my friend <3

May 14th, 2024

@BuddyWinte 

I was tired last night so I did not give you the response you deserve, I missed you very much. I was always wondered how you were doing. Constantly worrying, I love you bud./p Im super glad you back. I love having you here, Teen side is crazy and I kinda do have something to do with it Im sorry. 


~Love,Mae

User Profile: unassumingEyes
unassumingEyes May 18th, 2024

@BuddyWinte Definitely 100% want you here. I did feel like- like you are kind of targeted in the rooms? I dont know why? But its not fair or deserved. I was super happy the day you came back and im glad every single day to see you still here. Personally all these people making conflict here- and these have increased a ton in these past months for some reason- can go find somewhere else to be mean. Doing that on a mental health site is just messed up :/ wish we had better control of this here. Im sorry uve been treated like this on ur return 

(My tag was nommed sorry!)