Reality Check Thread 😣
Drop one habit you KNOW is holding you back...!! 🤧 Others reply with one blunt advice (no sugarcoating) 💓
When I think about the future it's mostly disaster planning. Plan for the worst, so anything else is a win. It's restrictive
@corydoras
You’re not preparing for life—you’re rehearsing reasons not to live it.
Thanks, I'm trying to protect myself from getting hurt again, worse, more? But it's limiting me
Trying for oneself is a sign of strength already🤗
@corydoras
That's sounds like a overflow of negative personality, which i used to be like that, it takes time to be aware of this and take more time to be a little bit more neutral, you could consider whenever you plan to make more than one option, arranged from negative to neutral, sometimes expecting good things and preparing for them can help a lot to achieve better results.
It's more like fear. I've been through a lot of emotional pain, and this is how I try to protect myself.
It's not the best way to deal, I get that.
I'm taking small steps to changing this, but it takes time
As I said a sign of true strength😁
@AiluraTheCat
It's definitely the overthinking for me.
@Curiosity1217
You’re confusing thinking more with thinking better, and it’s costing you action.😎
@Curiosity1217
Writting a todo list of plans what todo before you go to bed can help a lot to cut the cycle, specially if you overwork you would find it waste of time to overthink, so you start to reduce it in many ways, but you will get overwork problem ... sooo yes .... balance is the right thing that we usually ignore the most.
Procrastinating and doom scrolling.
@fossilfellow
hehe
You’re not “relaxing”—you’re avoiding your own life in real time.👻
@curiousbookishness ❤️❤️
Sorry again for tge advice👻
@curiousbookishness no need to say sry xD that was the whole point 💖😁
Yeah no back rubing but back push to get things started👻
@curiousbookishness Thank you 💖😅🥰
@fossilfellow
Discipline, consistency, one step a time 😊!!
@AiluraTheCat Thank you! ❤️🥰
Staying in bed too long
@politePlace5370
You’re choosing temporary comfort over the momentum that would actually change your day.😁
@politePlace5370
Get urself up, move ur body, any sort of physical activities helps u come out of procrastinating, Mantra's ❤️
Discipline over motivation 😊. You can do this <3 you're amazing!!
@AiluraTheCat Procrastinating on priority tasks.
@AnnaGLAZ
You’re treating what matters most like it’s optional, and your future is gonna pay for it.😎
@AnnaGLAZ
ABCDE prioritization is a task strategy... it’s a way to take control of ur time n focus on what truly matters. It'll help u as they did to me 😊
Procrastination is human; sometimes it simply means you’re tired n need rest. That’s okay..!!! But staying stuck there isn’t. You can choose the temporary discomfort of doing the work, or the lasting regret of avoiding it.
One builds strength, the other builds excuses.
I keep building up things in my head and pushing them off
@agreeableSkies9889
You’re mentally inflating tasks until they feel unbearable, then using that overwhelm as permission to avoid them.👻
Repeatedly looking at the same stuff and doom scrolling...
@RainbowRodeo
You’re feeding your attention loop the same noise so you don’t have to face anything that requires effort.😁
@AiluraTheCat
too practical and blunt in IRL👻
You should sell online courses on how to start businesses.
I do have First AID,freelance and chess online courses(with alitle bit of colab) for free👻
Of course you could afford to be "practical" and "blunt" because you live privileged life.
Oops, I guess I'm also too blunt and practical in real life. :P
Comparing myself with others and feeling low 😞
@thoughtfulNectarine910 open reddit, go to r/aita, r/relationshipadvice. Read around. You will quickly realise you are actually not doing as bad as you think 😂 that's how I do it. Feeling behind and unsatisfied with my life? I open Reddit and see stuff, and go actually, my life sucks but at least I'm not in this situation. It usually takes 2-3 stories to make you appreciate what you got
@thoughtfulNectarine910
Don't compare urself with others!!! Use affirmations...!!! You do u..!!! If u want to compare then compare with Ppl's who's lower than you. In doing so... You'll realise you are not bad as you think! How amazing u r !!