Reality Check Thread 😣
Drop one habit you KNOW is holding you back...!! 🤧 Others reply with one blunt advice (no sugarcoating) 💓
When I think about the future it's mostly disaster planning. Plan for the worst, so anything else is a win. It's restrictive
@corydoras
You’re not preparing for life—you’re rehearsing reasons not to live it.
Thanks, I'm trying to protect myself from getting hurt again, worse, more? But it's limiting me
Trying for oneself is a sign of strength already🤗
@corydoras
That's sounds like a overflow of negative personality, which i used to be like that, it takes time to be aware of this and take more time to be a little bit more neutral, you could consider whenever you plan to make more than one option, arranged from negative to neutral, sometimes expecting good things and preparing for them can help a lot to achieve better results.
It's more like fear. I've been through a lot of emotional pain, and this is how I try to protect myself.
It's not the best way to deal, I get that.
I'm taking small steps to changing this, but it takes time
As I said a sign of true strength😁
@AiluraTheCat
It's definitely the overthinking for me.
@Curiosity1217
You’re confusing thinking more with thinking better, and it’s costing you action.😎
@Curiosity1217
Writting a todo list of plans what todo before you go to bed can help a lot to cut the cycle, specially if you overwork you would find it waste of time to overthink, so you start to reduce it in many ways, but you will get overwork problem ... sooo yes .... balance is the right thing that we usually ignore the most.
Procrastinating and doom scrolling.
@fossilfellow
hehe
You’re not “relaxing”—you’re avoiding your own life in real time.👻
@curiousbookishness ❤️❤️
Sorry again for tge advice👻
@curiousbookishness no need to say sry xD that was the whole point 💖😁
Yeah no back rubing but back push to get things started👻
@curiousbookishness Thank you 💖😅🥰
@fossilfellow
Discipline, consistency, one step a time 😊!!
@AiluraTheCat Thank you! ❤️🥰
Staying in bed too long
@politePlace5370
You’re choosing temporary comfort over the momentum that would actually change your day.😁
@politePlace5370
Get urself up, move ur body, any sort of physical activities helps u come out of procrastinating, Mantra's ❤️
Discipline over motivation 😊. You can do this <3 you're amazing!!
@AiluraTheCat Procrastinating on priority tasks.
@AnnaGLAZ
You’re treating what matters most like it’s optional, and your future is gonna pay for it.😎
@AnnaGLAZ
ABCDE prioritization is a task strategy... it’s a way to take control of ur time n focus on what truly matters. It'll help u as they did to me 😊
Procrastination is human; sometimes it simply means you’re tired n need rest. That’s okay..!!! But staying stuck there isn’t. You can choose the temporary discomfort of doing the work, or the lasting regret of avoiding it.
One builds strength, the other builds excuses.
I keep building up things in my head and pushing them off
@agreeableSkies9889
You’re mentally inflating tasks until they feel unbearable, then using that overwhelm as permission to avoid them.👻
Repeatedly looking at the same stuff and doom scrolling...
@RainbowRodeo
You’re feeding your attention loop the same noise so you don’t have to face anything that requires effort.😁
@AiluraTheCat
too practical and blunt in IRL👻
Love the AI generated avatar btw. /sarcasm
Hehe Its not😜
Clearly not an actual artist.
Who knows?👻
@curiousbookishness
I'm all out of upvote's for u 🤧
Here you have ____
You should sell online courses on how to start businesses.
I do have First AID,freelance and chess online courses(with alitle bit of colab) for free👻
Figures.
@AiluraTheCat
Hey dearest the folowing thread Is not In order.question were answered up down so it may seem alitle confusing.Sorry for the trouble dearest 👻
Of course you could afford to be "practical" and "blunt" because you live privileged life.
Its called merit not privilege🙃love you anyways🤗
"Merit". What a trump supporter. I don't take advice from conservatives, sorry.
Honey I am not american🤗
If you were you would be one either way. Conservatism is the same everywhere. I though you read a lot.
Yup I do read alot especialy cultures and languages as a hobby.🤗
So that means a lot of things were easy for you.
The only thing I want to say is:No I did not had more privilege than any other middle class person who is ther eldest and has to achive fast and force back doors👻
Glad to know, my parents are still om food stamps and I lived in an abusive household.
It made you stronger🤔 didn't It? You stood up to me and thats a sign of strength. Is it not?
If you have seen me around the fourms you would know that I never am cold.It was a fourm where you can give advice that wasent sugar coated so It is clear that its not a place where anyone should be blunt other than advices🤗
Thank you for this experience actually.
No probs grab me anytime you want I would deff try to reply🤗
Oops, I guess I'm also too blunt and practical in real life. :P
You are the first real person online I encountered.love your style🤗
Yeah because you clearly aren't. You sound more cold-blooded than an actual person.
You are not the first person to tell me that🤗
Well then maybe that means it's time for you to wake up and actually do something about it. Unless you actually don't care.
I am trying
It's okay, even people that share the same issues as you need some understanding and comfort once in a while. Don't beat yourself up too much.
It helps in my line of work and it have never hindered in my social life.I am a complete 180 with my friends and family.👻
Its just that my work requires it
Taking pride in ignorance and narcissism isn't very bookish of you.
Ahh yes😅love you anyways🤗
I know I may be upset and maybe too rude, but I'm sure you aren't as bad as I think you are (maybe even you). It's okay. Just don't feed the cycle into your own negativity, you can be a better person. We all try to be, but honor your story sincerely. Without the performance.
Nope I was only worried about you get hurt🤷♂️ you can always vent on me.hehe I am happy to be the comfort pillow or punching bag,whatever suits you,for as long as you dont think I am some kind of robot👻
Comparing myself with others and feeling low 😞
@thoughtfulNectarine910 open reddit, go to r/aita, r/relationshipadvice. Read around. You will quickly realise you are actually not doing as bad as you think 😂 that's how I do it. Feeling behind and unsatisfied with my life? I open Reddit and see stuff, and go actually, my life sucks but at least I'm not in this situation. It usually takes 2-3 stories to make you appreciate what you got
@thoughtfulNectarine910
Don't compare urself with others!!! Use affirmations...!!! You do u..!!! If u want to compare then compare with Ppl's who's lower than you. In doing so... You'll realise you are not bad as you think! How amazing u r !!
