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User Profile: quietGhosts
quietGhosts September 6th

I feel like i dont belong Anywhere, Everyone seems to not like me, I try to be apart of stuff like conversations but nobody really wants me around and They make me feel like im not there. When i start to feel ok People make me feel like there's no reason to be here anymore, Nobody wanted me to vent to them so Im venting here

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User Profile: Ednamius
Ednamius September 6th

@quietGhosts i'm so sorry to hear that,it sounds like you have been through terrifying and lonely experiences...but I want to let you know it's not your fault


It's human to feel this way,I would too,you keep trying and putting in effort but it feels like nobody wants you there or notices you...

But I want to let you know that I care,you'll be on my mind,and your feelings matter

What makes you believe that people don't want you around? 
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User Profile: Ednamius
Ednamius September 6th

@Ednamius and thank you so much for letting this out,Ghost,I'm proud of you <3

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User Profile: Voodvins
Voodvins September 6th

@quietGhosts

It's terrible, and I understand you because I've experienced similar things. We often tend to attach importance to things that don't matter. And sometimes we think someone does or thinks something. But that's not always the case. You are also a person and deserve to be where everyone else is. You have the right to be yourself and to be respected. I know it's hard to accept. But you are not someone else, even if you are going through a difficult time right now. It's normal to feel weak or struggling, but don't be alone with it.

User Profile: kindSpruce8353
kindSpruce8353 September 6th

I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this. I’ve gone through this too and still do from time to time, so I feel for you. Especially the feeling of not feeling like you belong. It is a feeling I do not wish on anyone. It’s the whole reason I started 7 cups in the first place. I don’t know if this is the case for you, but there are moments where people will isolate you without even knowing. Doesn’t make it right of course, but if it is an ongoing issue, you should try to communicate how they made you feel and if they don’t reciprocate or respond negatively, then they simply might not be worth your energy. You may not have found them yet, but there will always be people out there that’d be more than happy to hear what you have to say, be willing to engage with you, and try to involve you in conversations. If you ever need anyone to talk to, to vent, or to feel accepted, please feel free to reach out to me. I’d be more than happy to talk. I wish the nothing but best and I hope that you find people that will make you feel like you belong :)

User Profile: LoveGodLovePeople444
LoveGodLovePeople444 September 6th

@quietGhosts Hey how are you! Im steph, thank you for sharing and being open about how your feeling its such a beautiful thing when we can find a place that feels safe enough. You know I can't say I fully understand how your feeling because we all feel emotions differently, but I can tell you that I have had similar feelings recently and let me tell you it doesnt feel very good at all, its lonely and we often convince ourselves that something is wrong with us. However thats not the truth if you know in your heart that you are a good person and have a good heart and you care for people then thats all you need to know because not everyone is going to accept us for who we truly are, and not everyone is going to take the time to try to know us and thats okay because your going to find your people there out there and maybe you just havent met them yet, maybe their out there waiting to meet you too!! I know it feels lonely right now and maybe you dont quite know when things will start looking up, but your so precious just as a person and your so loved, and your supposed to be here like the rest of us so keep reaching out and you'll see there is people who truly care even if there complete strangers just remember your never alone okay. 

User Profile: creativePenguin5558
creativePenguin5558 September 6th

I feel the same. Why is it so hard for people to be inclusive?

User Profile: nazakaru
nazakaru September 6th

I'm glad you did 🌸

User Profile: HopefulPenguin2022
HopefulPenguin2022 September 6th

I am feeling the same ever since I born ! I can relate to this a lot…I never got welcomed in anywhere in this world apart from this platform.

User Profile: needhelpwithOCD
needhelpwithOCD September 11th

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