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The situation of not being able to express how you feel program day 2

📅 Day 2: The Physical Echo (Tracking Body Sensations)

​Yesterday, we learned about Alexithymia and how the brain struggles to name emotions. Today, we are going to learn how to bypass the brain entirely and look at the first place emotions actually show up: your body.

​Before an emotion becomes a thought, it is a physical reaction. Emotions release chemicals into our bloodstream that change our heart rate, breathing, and muscle tension. If you cannot find the word for how you feel, you can almost always find the sensation.

• ​Anger often feels like heat in the face, clenched fists, or a racing heart.

• ​Anxiety/Fear often feels like a fluttering or knot in the stomach, shallow breathing, or cold hands.

• ​Sadness often feels like a heavy weight on the chest, a lump in the throat, or a general lack of energy.

​By learning to read your body, you are reading the "preview" of your emotions.

​🔍 Deep Dive Explanation

​When we suppress our emotions because we can't express them, they don't just vanish. They get trapped in our muscles and nervous system. This is why people who struggle to express themselves often suffer from chronic headaches, jaw pain (from clenching), or digestive issues. Tuning into your body isn't just about emotional awareness—it is about physical healing.

​❓ Reflection Questions for the Comments

• ​Think about the last time you felt overwhelmed. Where in your body did you feel it the most?

• ​Let's practice right now: Close your eyes for a moment. Is there any tightness, heat, or heaviness in your body right now? Describe it.

Last post for whoever lost day 1:

https://www.7cups.com/forum/generalsupport/General_2440/ThesituationofnotbeingabletoexpresshowyoufeelDay1ofTheoneweekprogram_383545/

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User Profile: mytwistedsoul
mytwistedsoul June 10th

Sometimes it's a whole body thing but usually I clench my jaw and tense my shoulders. I usually don't realize I'm doing it until it really starts to ache.

At the moment my shoulders are tense and I have a headache. 

 

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@mytwistedsoul

OKay I see. I think trying to find a way to relax the jaw and shoulders everything will help. Try to be more aware and notice every time you get tense. Also, I hope your headache leaves soon. Take care. Day 3 launches today✨️💚

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mytwistedsoul June 10th

@cheerfulKiwi1776 Thank you! Headache is better today. Yay day 3! Thank you for the time and effort you've put into this! 💙

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 11th

@mytwistedsoul

THanks for your kind words. The only thank you i want to say is thanks for all of youse all support✨️💚

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unassumingEyes June 10th

@cheerfulKiwi1776

- Last time i was overwhelmed it was definitely in my chest. Felt like I wasn't breathing right. And my stomach hurt

- its in my chest now too. Like a knot, i guess? Right in the middle spot of my chest. 

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@unassumingEyes

I see. Thanks for opening up. It means a lot. ✨️💚. Tomorrow we'll have the day 4 launch. I m glad you are in this program. I hope it helps

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unassumingEyes June 10th

@cheerfulKiwi1776 

Thank you! 🤍

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 10th

@unassumingEyes

💚✨️

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@cheerfulKiwi1776

 see that a issue for me as always in high pain so can not tell like over the pain in body what is going on

for me that the big issue 

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 11th

@HopeWithinDarkness

I didn't quite understood what you meant but either way sending courage to you. You can do it. Take care

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@cheerfulKiwi1776

was saying due to health issues that keep me in pain 24/7  it hard to feel emotions in my body but therapist  offline say this common with some health issues but am trying to learn new ways to feel what going on and put into words the feeling wheel is very helpful that you

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 16th

@HopeWithinDarkness

Ohhh I get it. I m sorry you go through this but I believe in you💚. I m happy the wheel helped you. Keep going. You've got this

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I felt my overwhelm in my nasal area. It's hard to explain, almost like my airways were closing up or I was about to throw up? Well, maybe not nausea the closers is probably not being able to breath. The weird thing is, my chest doesn't really tighten, only my nose.

I feel the heaviness in my facial area. Like around my checks and in my mouth. I guess I really scrunch my face when thinking or just make it super tight.

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cheerfulKiwi1776 OP June 11th

@Paliloveyourself

I get it. Thanks for opening up. I hope this helped just a bit. Take care 

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