Thinking of leaving cups
Ever since I aged up in November its been hard for me I've never been able to join any of the rooms because theyre all just a lot and I've tried using forums to talk with my friends from the teen side but yet I really only have one person that still talks to me from there. I dont know what to do anymore i just feel lost and like I dont belong on cups anymore. I really struggle with new things and just joining rooms to a place where I don't know anyone I know it would be too much for me. I've tried getting support but it was just thrown away and got no help at all with aging up so I really feel like people just dont want me here on cups. Even if I stay I'd most likely loose the one person I still get to talk to on here so whats even the point me being on cups if I just make friends on here then just loose them. I cant join any rooms to try make new friends and stuff so I don't know anymore. I really dont feel like i belong on cups anymore.
tagging the person I feel like would care @LoveMyMoonflowers
@VictoriaLove7
i had toast....gonna have mcdonalds soon....havent been able to rest...had to clean my room....and rn....kinda feel myself shutting down..as in feezing up and going non-verbal....
@kylersartpace
I'm glad you have eaten a toast 🍞, & soon the Mcdonald burger 🍔, it is filling & yummy 😋. Eating will give you energy to do things. I hope you will be able to get some rest, Kyler 😟
@VictoriaLove7
yeah...maybe not a burger idk yet...but i think im going to my nans for a bit after...to play a game with my cousin...because hes staying the night over there...and then ill be going home....but idk how i can go to my nans if im non-verbal...because i always have to force myself to talk...
@kylersartpace
Playing a game with your cousin sounds fun & relaxing. ☺ It will cheer you up! Perhaps tell your Nan that you feel unwell, & do not feel like talking? I'm sure she will understand, Kyler ^_^
(Any meal from Mcdonald is yummy 😋)
@VictoriaLove7
Yeah...idk....people dont believe when im non-verbal....im forced ti talk anyway....
@VictoriaLove7
Can i make a forum area for us to talk u can say no it just might be better than here...
@kylersartpace
That will be awesome, Kyler ☺ (so something like a space for Kyler & Vickity hehe ☺ )
@VictoriaLove7
hoping i pinged you right...
@kylersartpace
Hi, I'm so sorry to hear you haven't been getting adequate support to ease the transition. DId you fill out the TTM form to request a mentor contact you? And did you try out the Aging Up community? If you have thoughts about what we can do better to educate and empower teens crossing over to the adult side, I'm all ears. 💗
@Heather225
I tried the mentor....they never responded after the initial reach out....
@kylersartpace @Heather225
not sure if this Will do any thing but fill out transition form to behalf Kyle today when notice that member was struggling. I am having my fingers that hopefully this time around the member would be connected with someone for real this time
Of Kyle
@kylersartpace helloooo, welcome on the adult side of cups, we are happy to have you. We haven´t met yet, I´m cat. I´m sure you will soon find your people, I can add you to my next post and you can get to know the squad there 😊
@sadcat13
sure...? i guess...idk...
@kylersartpace
Oh kyler please don't leave. I hope you know I am still here for you.
Things have been alot lately and I'm rarely on cups anymore, I reach out when I can. I should really try and make more of an effort and for that I am sorry. Life has not been the kindest to me lately and I've been processing alot.
I'm ALWAYS here for you. I love you sososososososo much 💖💖💖💖
@Bunnylovesyou
bunny...idk what im doing anymore....but u know u can talk to me about stuff on that forum...
@kylersartpace
I know you don't buddy , but that's what we are here for 🥰🥰 and again I'm really sorry. Going through some medical stuff aha
@Bunnylovesyou
i probably should just leave cups...its for the best if i do...people dont need me...
@kylersartpace
I need you buddy ): lots of people need you
@Bunnylovesyou
but the forum is never really used....
@kylersartpace
Ik me is sorry I will try and use it more me promise
@Bunnylovesyou
ok....
Hey you’re not alone. I’m sorry you feel this way. Many people out there can and will be there for you.
@kylersartpace
we support whatever you do if you leave cups your be missed and we all care
Sorry you didn't get support with the transition.
Besides the issue with it being different people in the chatrooms, what are you looking for in a room? Support? Fun chat? A type of session? Some of the adult rooms tend to have a lot of people, some are quieter. There are so many popup rooms. Suggesting a session you are interested in might convince a host or 2 😄
Do not leave, what type is support do you require, there are many of us , you can reach out too. Let me know, I will try my best to help
