WOMEN: What Do You Want Men to Know?
Women: Please tell men anything you’d like them to know. Whatever you’d like! Please keep it clean and appropriate; remember that there are teens reading this. Thank you! <3
Please check out the second post similar to this, where the roles are reversed. :)
@jesusredeemedme2425
Stop being evil
Respect women for you come from us.
Without us there is no you. And vice versa.
Stop treating us as if we are expendable.
Respect us and treat us better
Learn to grow and develop and overcome your insecurities
Instead of unleashing them into the world and hurting others for absolutely no reason
Learn to operate in truth and gentleness
Being gentle and vulnerable doesnt remove your masculinity it enhances it.
Women do NOT want you for your money. Calm down. Youre not a walking ATM machine to us at all. Just like SOME women are gold diggers. There are A LOT of men who are also! That goes both ways.
When may say that their insecurities are screaming " Im broke and cant provide. Or I have nothing to bring to the table."
Women work also!! So maybe calm down thinking women are after your money just because you FEEL like you dont have any!!!
@Shysugar3 I believe the main problem is the world is full of decent men and decent women, but the misbehaving minorities produce some ill labels and prejudice working for the entire gender.
The things our colleague mentioned above often come from the personal experience. For example, one of my dates rejected me (or I believe I rejected her first), when she called me not masculine enough, because I do not own a car. When I asked her why it's so crucial, she answered she needed a car to bring her cat to a vet, or to go shopping.
(A side note: I am living in a town where you can go almost anywhere on foot within 15 to 30 minutes, usually up to 500 metres for most of the shopping.)
@jacek73 a rotten apple but she doesnt speak for all of us. And I hate when men generalize. Thank you for not being like that Jacek. This is a polish name, yes? Its pretty nice
@Shysugar3 Thank you! Yes, it is Polish equivalent of Jack (a good name for a cowboy?;-)), but it is pronounced like "Yatsek". My English teacher, who was of Irish origin, had many problems with that, often spelling me "Jacieh".
Shy Sugar also sounds... sweet 😊
I wish men would know how much respect we deserve. Including respect of our boundaries (especially physical). and including respect of our hormonal fluctuations.
respect requires understanding, these qualities can be cultivated by the beholder.
i wish men were better aware and accepting of the historical and contemporary challenges women face.
i wish men knew communication.
i wish men knew to handle our hearts with care
As a woman, there are a few things I'd like men to understand. Firstly, I expect to feel safe and protected when I'm with my future partner. Secondly, I want him to act like a man and be my rock when needed. I also expect him to be my best friend and to make me feel secure. Finally, I want all men to know that if a woman feels loved, appreciated, safe, and respected with you, she won't leave.
@Sel3ne
Unfortunately not the case with all women. My last breakup was because I was not upbeat enough (no surprise as I was falling into depression) . I’m pretty confident I was fulfilling all the other things on your list.
Dear men,
Here's a few things you should know !
Number one
I'm always right don't bother arguing with me it's not worth it
Number two
show me respect give me my space but still help me
Number three
When I'm angry and mad and yelling at you and you completely ignore me it's over
Number three part b
But when I'm mad and angry and yelling and I say that I don't care and you mean nothing I don't really mean it when I completely ignore you then you should be worried
Number four
never tell me to calm down
Number five
When I'm angry and I haven't eaten in about 4 hours don't argue with me just get me food and it will be all right in the end eventually just give me space and food
Lolllll number 5 is so me XD Feed me if I’m cranky. XD
Exactly!!!!!!! I literally said that to my BF last week LOL ð¤£ð¤£ð¤£ð¤£ð¤£ð¤£ð¤£
@rationalGrapefruitq "eventually just give me space and food" is the realest thing ever! Omg, I'm a very hangry person when it's definitely time for me to eat. Food makes everything better in that moment. 😋
Ahhh me too, girlie!!!! Lol 😂 😂 I literally said that to my BF last week lol 🤣 🤣 🤣 🤣
@rationalGrapefruitq Lol, see men love to make us out like we are crazy... but being hangry is very real! It's funny now and I am laughing, but in that moment... it's far from funny. I love food though. Lol. I definitely appreciate how real you were when you mentioned this.
@jesusredeemedme2425 Hi
A healthy relationship that might end in marriage includes humility in both partners. Find a woman who is not too proud to admit that she's wrong, and who values what you have to say.
Set boundaries. Know your worth. Find a woman who respects you unconditionally and love her unconditionally. Learn what makes her feel loved, and communicate what makes you feel respected.
Some days we need cuddles. Other days, we need French fries. Other days, we want to be alone and have company at the same time. Just roll with it. We don’t always understand ourselves any more than you do. <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 that them constantly criticizing other girls and making fun of everything does not make them seem cool.
@jesusredeemedme2425 When we want to break up, we give it a lot of thought. It isn’t an abrupt decision.