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Your "Current" Checkin: If life was like water, what would yours look like right now?

User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 January 29th

I've been thinking about how we describe our "current" state of mind. Instead of the usual "I'm busy" or "I'm fine," I'd like to try looking through a different lens.

If your life were a river right now, what would it look like?

Maybe you feel like a mountain stream after a storm, moving way too fast and churning up mud so you can’t see the bottom. Or maybe you feel a bit clumsy in your kayak today, struggling to keep your paddle or getting caught on the rocks.

You might be working really hard to reach a specific spot on the bank that looks beautiful from a distance, even though it means paddling against the current to get there. Or perhaps you’ve decided to stop fighting the flow and let the water take you around the next bend to see what surprises are waiting for you.

Close your eyes and imagine it, then type out the description of your current state below!

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User Profile: peachThinker662
peachThinker662 January 29th

@Heather225

I feel that my water is the waves of the ocean smacking me. I keep jumping them, diving in, or walking through them to get past. But another one comes along. I can see calm water in the distance and I just want to reach it. Then I can sit, floating and enjoying the calm of the sunshine too. 

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 January 30th

@peachThinker662


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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 2nd

@peachThinker662

I hear that <3 It’s exhausting to keep bracing yourself for that next wave when all you want is to just breathe and float for a while. You are doing so much hard work right now just to stay on your feet. Please be gentle with yourself while you navigate this. That calm water is there, and I hope you get to reach it and feel the sun on your face soon.

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User Profile: toughBlueberry
toughBlueberry January 29th

@Heather225

It's turbulent. I'm a still water body but the water is bubbling from being overheated, making bubbling sounds and rising hot steam out of it.

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 2nd

@toughBlueberry

Sounds like you are carrying a lot of intense, built-up pressure inside right now. That kind of internal heat can feel overwhelming when you’re naturally a calm person! If you're comfortable sharing, do you know what started the temperature rising?

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User Profile: toughBlueberry
toughBlueberry February 3rd

@Heather225

It's been years of suppressed anger. I have done intense exercise and journaling to let the pain out. And it worked. But recently I'm getting bullied almost 24/7 in the family. That's why even though I manage emotions, there are still stored anger. It's hard to let go when I keep getting poked. Also I'm stressed about leaving home.

User Profile: toughBlueberry
toughBlueberry February 7th

@Heather225

Thank you for giving me the listening ear, it means a lot <3

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine January 29th

@Heather225

Currently a nice easy flow but i know that I am getting every closer to the top of a dam (retirement), maybe Putin might nuke the dam for me 😉 

User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP January 29th

Also, worth noting that of course the current changes (the only constant is change!) so I encourage you to come back and reflect further because it can also be helpful to not only be mindful of our moments but chart our path/progress!

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine January 30th

@Heather225

I started with 'Currently' for precisely that reason, no pun intended either ð¤ªð¤ª

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User Profile: CometoSuccess
CometoSuccess January 29th

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My Current Mood  , Calm and Confused at the same time. 😁

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 2nd

@CometoSuccess

😂 Calm and confused is so relatable though. I hope the confusion clears up so you can keep on chillin!

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User Profile: Jewelmoon17
Jewelmoon17 January 30th

There would be a little ripple on the water.  Because as tranquil my life seem to be.  It isn't really that quiet.

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 2nd

@Jewelmoon17

If comfortable, would you like to share some things/circumstances making your life not so quiet?

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 January 30th

@Heather225

I would describe mine as: still waters 💚🥰

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 2nd

@Amanda84

I want to be in that water right now :D

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat January 30th

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 2nd

@WharfRat

I appreciate the visual! Is a storm coming in for you, or is it something looming?

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User Profile: WharfRat
WharfRat February 3rd

@Heather225

It's a general creepiness that I feel.  I took this picture in June of 2019, at Lake Michigan.  I was riding my bike, and the storm clouds moved in.  I had to stop and take pictures.  I got soaked by the rain by the time I got home.


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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine February 3rd

@WharfRat

Soaked during a bike ride, never happens 🤪🤪

Good job skin is waterproof 😁😁

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User Profile: RainbowRosie
RainbowRosie January 30th

@Heather225

Hi, Currently it’s flowing nicely but a bit of sun shining down would help me feel more alive 😎🌹

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 2nd

@RainbowRosie

I am sending good thoughts out this week to you that the sun beams through <3

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User Profile: forcefulDay1071
forcefulDay1071 January 30th

My water feels like dangerous rapids barreling down the mountain focused in direction but no time to enjoy what is happening on the bank. hurting those looking for thrill’s unprepared for what’s to come. I find myself wishing things would move slower and clearer

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User Profile: Heather225
Heather225 OP February 2nd

@forcefulDay1071

That sounds so fast and overwhelming. It’s hard enough just trying to keep your head above water, let alone worrying about the people on the banks or how fast you're moving. It’s okay to just want everything to stop and clear up. <3 If you’re open to it, is there one small thing you can lean on today to help pull you toward those slower waters?

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User Profile: forcefulDay1071
forcefulDay1071 February 6th

I don’t have an answer for that question honestly, it just feels like people around me need me to be this way. If I slow down everything crumbles. I have no life lines nor do I have any relief I can trust. Anytime I reach out to get off I’m thrown right back in to this cycle

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