feeling like a bad person
maybe i'm not that good, maybe i'm bad that's why my friends are no longer close to me.
You are AWESOME! <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 :") I hope so too
I just feel like I want to take a long good nap lately
this quote really suits my situation.. one of my friends said they missed me after I was away for a while but now they're ignoring me again I feel so confused :')
Maybe they’re dealing with their own drama at home <3
A really long good nap sounds perfect for you! Why not do that this week? <3
@jesusredeemedme2425 yes that can be the reason too, I dont like when I end up overthinking about it.. and yeah I should take a long nap this weekend :")
That’s your challenge. Sleep a lot and see if you get more clarity and peace of mind <3
@hopefulencounter
if you're worried at all about being a bad person, i promise you're not a bad person. i am sorry about your friends. it's so frustrating when people leave, especially when you don't get reasons why or closure. it's truly their loss 🫂
@Heather225 yup no reason at all, I just feel like they're slowly avoiding me, it's not fun as it used to be. Thank you for telling that I'm not a bad person
@hopefulencounter I'm going through a very rough time, and it feels the same for me. I'm sorry you're going through this
@turquoiseApricot8818 🫂🫂 hugs for us, it really sucks to question our worth in friendship like this.. I hope this will get better for us someday, maybe we should stop questioning then just leave them ..
@hopefulencounter I've been summoned to destroy your sadness..
@SadnessDestroyer that's awesome 😄
@hopefulencounter like others have said only those with some good care to acknowledge they are currently doing good or bad. The truly helpless are those that don't care if good or bad exist, they know no good or bad only does it effect me and how can I benefit. With no care to acknowledge or change, but you being here only proves you hold goodness and some want to be good. Sometimes good an right sucks, it can hurt , it's can be work, but growth is never bad
@LostnTexas this is so true.. I'm still on my growth journey. Change can be scary. Thank you for telling me your opinion.. Sometimes I wish I could just let go without thinking about them again
@hopefulencounter
Hello, thanks for sharing your concerns here. You are among people who have been through your struggles. I myself use to feel this way. Things do not just magically come true. We need to put our time and effort into building relationships. Nothing good comes easy. I can relate to how you are feeling today. Feeling rejected and unwanted is common. People out in the world are quick to judge us. The truth is nothing is black and white. In other words we all can be good and bad. You will find a good friend sooner than later. Don't give up. Keep trying to reach out to peopole. You are on the right track. It was a brave move to post this here for all to see.
@Kharolful thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. I agree it's not magical that I have to put some effort to achieve what I want. It's weird how people changed but it's just how it is, I dislike myself for not being able to not care, if only I could be like them who just left without saying anything and not thinking about me anymore but I still can't do that. I hope someday I can be better to myself.
@hopefulencounter i struggle with this feeling as well, I’ve lost every friend I’ve had and i always end up overthinking if it’s my fault or not because I think too much. i feel envy when those around me can just hangout normally and when i try to obtain a friendship if im not the one initiating then it never goes anywhere. it sucks ;-;
@cherryblossomspring 😢we really need to stop overthinking..
I understand how you feel. Others always say im too hard on myself and i say im not hard enough on myself. Ive started tackling these same feelings by letting thise good things in when they are said and working hard on myself. Im currently down alot of friends because i drove most away. Im sure there are plenty of ppl for me and you to connect with.
@ThoughtfulOrange77 thank you for sharing your thoughts with me. Yes I have heard that saying "don't be too hard on yourself" many times too. And everytime I heard it I questioned myself like "was I too hard on myself?" 😔 But I do believe there are people out there who'll connect with me someday I don't know when.. I wish the best for us
Maybe it’s just a misunderstanding, I also had some up and downs with my friends but later on I figured out that maybe I was with the wrong people, it’s a long story feel free to message if you want to continue 😊🥰
@kindheartedDeer9739 hi thank you, sometimes I feel like they're the right people but then I doubt again everytime they ignored me for a long time... lesson learned now I won't spend a lot of time waiting for them..
you'll make new friends I promise, i understand how you feel and it hurts, but I promise you are not a bad person :)
@angelswillreturn thank you.. 🧡🫂
