feeling like a bad person
maybe i'm not that good, maybe i'm bad that's why my friends are no longer close to me.
Aww that’s a hard way to feel. Sorry you are experiencing this. But may I share that everyone is equal. We all fall short. Every person is sinful and yet every person desires to be loved deeply and unconditionally and that role can only be fulfilled by Jesus. And He delights in doing just that, because He loves you. Not for anything you can give or be but just for who you are. 💜
@Htebazile92 you're right about this, thank you for sharing your opinion with me. 🧡😊
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@therapylighthouse so I have this online friendship, we used to be so close and we shared jokes together, we had same interest but I feel like this friendship is drifting away.. Now they become quiet.
not only online friendship, my offline friendship also usually ends up like this. But I get it, people are busy with their own life. I sometimes just wish they would spare some time for me..
Well I for one know that you're good.
Let me prove it:
You have assessed your situation, what we call bad is when one person is going to hurt the other. And that will happen because we have not thought something through. Which is why we equate bad with thoughtless.
You already proved you are not thoughtless.
Of course if you're friends leave you, then are they you're friends,
Did they even think before telling you if they felt something wrong?
You may not be fun loving, or easy going so? Did they try to understand or talk to you ir just put a label on you.
Everyone makes mistakes or does things which does not go the intended way. Everyone gets overwhelmed. There can be no life without it.
Life is different for everyone, there is no winner or loser in life because to win you have to be better than someone who is the same as you, but that is none other than you.
So, You are not bad and You're Good Q.e.d
And G.B.Y (God bless you)
@SamDoc hi thanks for giving me uplifting words, I'm grateful to hear your opinion. And no, they didn't tell or ask me anything they just slowly fading away.. That's why this time I decided to take a step back from them because my thoughts have been draining me lately.. they can be true and not true since I'm an overthinker 🥲
Just bcz people don’t understand u, doesn’t mean u r bad
@thewabisabisoul yes, this I agree.. thank you for reminding me 🧡
It's totally okay to feel that way- I feel like that too a lot. It's okay for you to drift apart from people. It's a natural part of life although it feels very harsh. I think you must be a great person, please don't beat yourself up from things that can't be controlled. Sometimes, people won't want to hang out with you anymore and that's okay, it's their choice. Just remember that you are worth it and you can find your group of people that will stick with you for a very long time.
@Paliloveyourself thank you 🥰🧡 I will try not to beat myself with overthinking.. still working on it. I understand I have to accept and let go
If your friends were good .. they would never leave you at first place. So don't blame yourself for losing them ..maybe they were never your true friends 🤷♀️ .Be happy 😊
@organticPeace9108 thank you, you're right maybe they're not so real to me.. but I will try to not worry what they think of me now.. Still learning how to accept and move on :')
You will be fine 😊... Sending your way lots of love and hugs
@organticPeace9108 🤗🧡 thanks again
That must be difficult, I’m sorry.
@beautifulBlossom4600 yes it is, I'm still learning to face it.. thanks for hearing my story
