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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 February 17th, 2023

I'm gonna be gone for 6 weeks starting Monday because Life without amiablebunny4016 starts soon hehe! I'm a bad person and I'm training the teenies to survive without me.

Bunny.

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User Profile: CallumCares421
CallumCares421 February 17th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016


You are not, bunny. <3


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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP February 17th, 2023

@CallumCares421

You can flag or stop this forum but you cannot control me Callum 😜😜😜😜😜😜

Bunny

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User Profile: CallumCares421
CallumCares421 February 18th, 2023

your right, I can’t. I truly care about you though, and it would be really devastating not only for me, but also for everyone else. I don’t think you see how amazing you are bunny, you have really molded me as not only a listener but also as a person. You taught me not to be so serious about things, how to laugh and have fun. I’ll think about you everyday for the next 6 weeks, just remember you will always be my mini mod 🧡



-Callum

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User Profile: Nomifordays
Nomifordays February 17th, 2023


@amiableBunny4016

your not a bad person i swear and 6 weeks is f o r e v e r. plus we love having u around all the time! But as always i encourage u to do whats best for u :/ ill miss u a whole bunch

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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP February 18th, 2023

@Nomifordays

6 weeks will feel like forever. I know Naomi. But 6 weeks will pass quickly i promise.

I thought about this alot last night.... and its the only option i have.

I love ya Naomi. your awesome.

Bunny

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User Profile: mysteriousClover
mysteriousClover February 18th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016

bunny bunny bunny bunny <3

you have NO idea how much i enjoy talking to you. you are such a kind and amazing and thoughtful person, and i would hate to see you go. your writing- truly amazing. i love reading it whenever you post to your forum, as your words are insightful and well thought out.

i will miss you so much bun- you have no idea. 6 weeks IS a long time, feel free to come back and check in whenever you need. i'll miss you immensely bun, i really will.

take care of yourself, update us when you get back. i would love to hear from you when you return from your journey, please take care. i love you so so much bunny.

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amiableBunny4016 OP February 18th, 2023

@mysteriousClover

Clover Clover Clover Clover Clover

Clover I have not seen you in so long and I miss you so much . I really try to avoid making anyone feel upset but.. you know..... Clover.. you have made such a huge positive difference in my life... you are so thoughtful and kind so thank you for every single thing you have done for me! but im afraid im not doing well in life. Im messing things up and things got ***. Im so glad you enjoy reading my forums. but you know? Bunny is always here for u and bunny loves ya.

I will. and you take care too. stay safe lovely. I love you alot

Bunny

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User Profile: BlueRivercares
BlueRivercares February 18th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 take care 🍪🍪🍪 bunny you will be missed <3

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amiableBunny4016 OP February 18th, 2023

@BlueRivercares

aww you take care too amazing Blue. Thank you for being a part of my life! You are so amazing! Wishing you all the best for the weeks ahead.

Bunny

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User Profile: YourCaringConfidant
YourCaringConfidant February 18th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 Wait right there! Is this true? Oh nooooo! Bunny, there will be so many people affected by your departure. I will surely miss your positivity. I think you are a great person. I truly wish you could see what we see in you! Hope all is well with you! Until we hear from you again, I hope life treats you well! Take care of yourself. And if 6 weeks becomes too long, you know to come back to 7cups where you have people who care about you. Hugs!

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amiableBunny4016 OP February 18th, 2023

@YourCaringConfidant

And Desiree.. This is no joke lol. Its the truth. lol. Im not going forever tho and Ill still post for PAT. at least you will get to see me there. I think your awesome! Well i guess thats what the 6 weeks are for.. to realise things I didnt know before. But I think about you everyday Desiree..... your always a part of me. we are together in this. i will try to reduce it to 5 weeks. but yk.. i cant promise. I love you so much. please take care of yourself wonderful human. *hugs*

Bunny

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YourCaringConfidant February 18th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016 I'll take that! ♡ I read your "rules" but at least I'll be able to see on post appreciation postings and you are always welcome to Desiree's Daffodils. Hehe. :) You are so important, Bunny!

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User Profile: KarmaTheRascal
KarmaTheRascal February 18th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016


You're most defintely not a bad person<3 you're actually a great person! You've helped me so much. I'll miss you for the 6weeks!<3

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amiableBunny4016 OP February 18th, 2023

@KarmaTheRascal

aww ill miss you too Karma. Stay safe and take care of yourself buddy.

Bunny

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February 18th, 2023

@amiableBunny4016

Sending hugs. You are always always cared for here, you are so amazing Bunny. You're a great contributor and kind influence for cups, I'm really so happy to get to know you

If a break is what you need then I wish you all the best^^ but will miss you dearly and hope for your return

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amiableBunny4016 OP February 18th, 2023

@VioletFields003

*hugs* aww Violet. your awesome. Thank you for everything you did buddy! I love you so much and I hope you stay safe in the weeks ahead!Your so sweet!

Stay safe and take care of yourself.

Bunny

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou February 18th, 2023

Okay! Need a little help with understanding something?😛

Soooo the following is what "bad" people do?

😮 Spread positivity, hope, compassion, love around

😮 Check on their friends and love ones

😮 *never* miss on being amazing

😮 Notice, reflect, applaud, appreciate the goodness in others AND inform them in the most loving way

😮 Brave through the challenging storms in life with perseverance and resilience

😮 Acknowledge and Feel the feelings ~ good, bad, ugly.

😮 Have a good heart, filled with love for humanity

😮 Says they are with someone and *are* actually with them when needed

😮 Remind people to be hopeful and strong

😮 Are respectful, polite, kind and helpful towards everyone

😮 Are happy in other people's happiness and celebrates their accomplishments

😮 Constantly finds ways to make people smile and good about themself

😮 Know what it means to be Compassionate, Thoughtful, Honest, Considerate, Humble, Validating, Honorable, Responsible, Committed

😮 Initiate anti-bullying campaigns, spreading the message of kindness and love around

😮 Consider a "what they did is wrong but maybe they are hurting also" for the people that hurt them AND wish them well~ that's a rare thing to do, a rare quality to possess and *actually* practice- forgiveness

😮 Practice empathy and offer a non-judgmental space to everyone coming across

😮 Are easily lovable and immensely treasured by many

😮 Are consistent in their efforts and being themself

(A personal favorite~ 😮 Give the bestest hugs)

There's more in my list, but it is very confusing still. Who got the wrong dictionary here?😛 (not me for sure)

Most of all, people who care enough to venture into the whole good or bad thing, can never be "bad".

People are capable of all sorts of things, good, bad, ugly~ what matters is how hard we try to stick to the better side for us and for the world around, how aware we are of our actions, and how we continually try improving ourselves.

There's good and bad things, but to the core, we are all just human, it inherently gives us the leeway to do our best to keep on kicking, the choices we make, the circumstances we are in, lots to consider always.

Bunny is a hooman, and does greaaaat things, that everyone appreciates and loves. Bunny doesn't have to do the half of it, specially on a platform as cups, where it's all anonymous and on the internet where in the alternate scenario nobody would point a finger on the lack of any of the above mentioned, but Bunny *makes* the conscious choice of doing good, of brightening everyone's day, of sprinkling magic love-glitter in everyone's lives, of reminding people that they matter, they aren't alone and there's more to the world, to them, than their current thoughts and feelings *while* supporting them and making them feel super cared for and loved.

Bunny is a hooman, who is allowed to falter, make mistakes also, because that's what hoomans do, we are imperfect and should be proud about it, *while* learning from our mistakes and trying to do better.

Bunny is a hooman, who constantly tries to improve, to grow and continually be good. And that makes Bunny a far better hooman than she thinks. ❤

*hugs tight* breaks are super amazing, I plan to continue taking them also, won't devoid cups of sunshine for too long hopefully haha, but super alright, everyone deserves a break and someone who is continually at work, at #BeingAHooman, breaks are more needed than ever. So have one and take as much time needed. Know that we are here for you and always wishing you well also, because *yes* you deserve it as well. ❤

(Kinda long but I don't care xD I'll write more if I have to, and remind my shining buddy again that she got the wrong dictionary and can always switch with mine ❤)

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User Profile: YourCaringConfidant
YourCaringConfidant February 18th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou THIS!!! You covered it all beautifully! You and your novels! This was one much needed and you said all that needed to be said! It kills me that someone so young doesn't allow themself to be be imperfect. Bunny is so amazing and sweet and perfectly imperfect. Her inner beauty and kindness to others radiates and she is so passionate. I truly hope she reads your reply and reads it literally 1000 times if she has to to get it through her bunny head! Sun, thank you for writing this beautiful reply. You, too, are so full of love and are amazing in every way. Continue to touch the lives of others because this is one life that continually needs your 🌞ny self in it! @amiablebunny4016 read Sun's reply over abd over again. Then scroll up and read everyone's reply over and over again and then do it all over again! You give so much of your "bad" self that you have so much love and support here! Bunny, you deserve to be happy and if taking a break is what's needed, do it. But do not run for something that exists only in your brain. When you decide to come back, we will all be right here to embrace you with arms wide open. Hugs to the best bunny around! ♡

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User Profile: Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Sunisshiningandsoareyou February 19th, 2023

@YourCaringConfidant Aww thankyouu, Desireee! I appreciate you lots for being so so caring and kind, and well, just YOUrself. ❤ Bless your sweet-heart. 🤗

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User Profile: amiableBunny4016
amiableBunny4016 OP February 18th, 2023

@Sunisshiningandsoareyou

Alrighttttttt......... Sun.... I left this for last because I need to write alot too. Sun when I say i was a bad person it just means you havent seen what terrible things Ive done. But you really didnt need to list all that. but all this applies to you too Sun. Sun you are amazing and you have put others before yourself. You made a difference to so many lives. From the day i started exploring forums.... I was looking at yours and you are just.... so empathetic and respectful you always show such love. I love you so much! And If I could i would give you a big hug right now. Sun all this applies to you too

Spread positivity, hope, compassion, love around

😮 Check on their friends and love ones

😮 *never* miss on being amazing

😮 Notice, reflect, applaud, appreciate the goodness in others AND inform them in the most loving way

😮 Brave through the challenging storms in life with perseverance and resilience

😮 Acknowledge and Feel the feelings ~ good, bad, ugly.

😮 Have a good heart, filled with love for humanity

😮 Says they are with someone and *are* actually with them when needed

😮 Remind people to be hopeful and strong

😮 Are respectful, polite, kind and helpful towards everyone

😮 Are happy in other people's happiness and celebrates their accomplishments

😮 Constantly finds ways to make people smile and good about themself

😮 Know what it means to be Compassionate, Thoughtful, Honest, Considerate, Humble, Validating, Honorable, Responsible, Committed

😮 Consider a "what they did is wrong but maybe they are hurting also" for the people that hurt them AND wish them well~ that's a rare thing to do, a rare quality to possess and *actually* practice- forgiveness

😮 Practice empathy and offer a non-judgmental space to everyone coming across

😮 Are easily lovable and immensely treasured by many

😮 Are consistent in their efforts and being themself

Sun deserves hugs!

I love you sun buddy. your so special and unqiue. And everyone loves sun. Sun is so sweet and adored. Sun, the teenies love you okay? And I love you for who you are. YOu put so many smiles on people's faces and your just a magical person! Sun.. i think you know how much i truly appreciate you. Please take care of yourself whilst im gone. I love ya! Keep up with what your doing Sun!

#happycrying #sunandbunnybuddy

I love yaaa.

Bunny

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amiableBunny4016 OP February 18th, 2023

Before I reply to 7197827589275 sweet messages here are the rules for my 6 weeks:

  • Due to my responsibility, I will be posting peer appreciation as a smile spreader in this 6 weeks so you may see my appreciation posts hehe
  • Any leadership things I am taking or training, i WILL DO during these 6 weeks (if you see me online it means I am completing a leadership thing for 7cups or I am posting a forum)
  • I will not post in my corner on cups.
  • Pms may vary. I dont know if I will reply or not. Depends on urgency.
  • In the next 6 weeks, you are gonna survive without me.
  • And thats all the rules....


Please.... Teen listeners- please try to avoid pms unless its urgent. i will still be logging in because of some important responsobilities but remember it is my self care break + I have lots of school choices to make.

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Look... I know 6 weeks sounds like *** and alot. But I promise I will try to reduce it to 5 weeks if possible. I love you all . stay strong. you all will always be close to my heart..... There is not a day that goes by that I don't think about you. My break starts when school starts (On Monday 20th February). You all are so strong and beautiful and amazing and caring and whatever happens i wish you all the luck in the world! I hope that life brings so much joy and smiles and even tho i wont be there for half of the time I still love you for who you are. I still care about you as much as you care about me. Love yourself for you and please. dont worry about me. Do you trust me? if you do, then trust me... I will be fine. And if it doesnt go fine... and I disappear for too long.. dont mourn me. Dont cry. Dont go looking for me. okay? ily all! I'll be on as much as I can today and tommorow.

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Alright, I will reply to every single comment everyone is making.

Tags to some of my wonderful friends: @CallumCares @YourCaringConfidant @Sunshiningandsoareyou @Nomifordays @mysteriousClover @BlueRivercares @KarmaTheRascal @VioletFields003 @TrustfulOtter @JefferytheBunny319 (if i didnt tag you it doesnt mean i dont like you or anything... Im just tagging people who i remember from the top of my head.

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Bunny


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amiableBunny4016 OP February 19th, 2023

I feel like i overestimating my break. i just realised how long 6 weeks is.