😞does anyone else feel like their not accepted for being yourself?
In the chat rooms where I generally hang out, I've made lots of friends there. But the past couple of weeks, I'm not sure I belong 😞 today someon e got angry at me, someone swore at me, in the last two weeks someone told me my positivity is toxic. I've been told by one member that just because I greeted someone with merry pumpkin month, that my whole past is a lie!😞I can't be anyone other than myself😞 this is the first and only place I've had to socialise.I don't know what I'm doing wrong😢
You're not doing anything wrong, it's just that some people are troubled and act in unwholesome ways, we've all been there and I'm here if you need to talk 🫂
@Tinywhisper11
I love you being here, you make my day better a lot just by seeing youve said something :) I'm glad you're here
it's just a fact of life that people aren't always accepting of everyone, but a lot of the time it's just because they can't handle that someone else is being themselves wholeheartedly. it's a really wonderful thing to be yourself, don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise :)
@Tinywhisper1
Yes, I often feel I'm not accepted for who I am. I'm sorry it happens to you to. You are doing nothing wrong.
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Thanks for the reminder to watch my expectations. You remind me that meeting people who don't appreciate you as you are is a normal part of being part of a society. And I could save myself some frustration and disappointment if I kept my expectations realistic. I'm learning to be kinder with my expectations and I'm grateful for your posts that help me towards that.
@Clio9876
Aw hey hey Clio, it's always soo good to see you around. Amazes me how you found this wonderful take-away from what I said, I couldn't have put it more simply lol, you are spot on. Really grateful you find something of value in my posts.🥺 You are amazing the way you are, and you're allowed all the time you need to believe it too!💖
@Sunisshiningandsoareyou
Perfect timing. I was feeling a bit low this morning, following an argument where I felt unaccepted. And this really helped me to pick myself back up. Thank you for being there and being you.
@Clio9876
Aw I'm superrr happy to hear that this helped you feel better and more accepting towards yourself. Sending love your way!
@Tinywhisper11
Hii Lola. I don't know you well, but I've seen you around here in forums and it's such a delight to see your positivity around here.
It's sad to hear some people can be so mean to a great person such as yourself.
I'm really sorry you were treated that way in the chatrooms, especially in a place where you should feel welcomed and accepted.
It's tough when others don't appreciate your positivity and unique way of interacting.
But remember, you're valuable just as you are, and you deserve to be respected and accepted for being yourself. Other's negativity don't define your self-worth.
You have people here who will appreciate and embrace your authenticity here in our little corner of the internet.
Best wishes to you 💜
@Tinywhisper11
Lola 🤗 hugs for you my friend. You are an amazing person and don't let anyone tell you differently. You just keep being you ❤️ the inspiration that you are. You are respected and loved by so many here. Focus on your biggest supporters! Keep being the bright light that you are in this life.
You are loved
ABB 💜💜
I'm having trouble with my family not accepting me as being trans I dont know what to do and its causing me to have severe depression to the point where I'm starting to consider suicide does anyone have any ideas on what should I do
@BluePlace4881 I'm sorry your having a hard time being accepted😥 it makes you feel so very bad. But we can only be us, and if people don't like it, then they can b@@ger off! Please don't let them ruin your life. You are perfect just the way you are ❤❤ sends love and hugs your way ❤ we are all here for you ❤
Thank you for your love and support to help me get through this
@BluePlace4881 huggs you tightly ❤❤ I hope your ok??
I'm feeling better since I'm getting so much support from the people on this app and from my friends
If you like, you could always pick up a few snappy comebacks. No doubt there are websites full of 'em, where you can find the ones you like & memorize them. If someone insults you in a chat room you can reply with one, quickly. Some I've used in the past:
- "p!ss up a rope"
- "Sit down on this -->🖕🏻 & spin around"
- "your mother told me that last night"
- "By the way, you won't recognize her when you get home--I shaved off all her body hair."
- "Cute. How long did it take you to put that sentence together?"
- "Coming from you, that's a compliment."
- "If my dog had a face like yours, I'd shave his butt & train him to walk backwards"
- "If my dog had a face like yours, I'd shoot him"
(Do not take the above advice seriously...unless you want to &/or find it amusing. Actually, it's probably better to report the person who insulted you)
@slowdecline48
How do you come up with this stuff????? XD
@jesusredeemedme2425 Most of those comments I heard or read somewhere. 😆 You can learn a lot when you live like I have.
How… how have you lived???? O.O
😆 Rather adventurously, at times... I also probably spent too much time on the Internet during my mid- to late 20's.
@Tinywhisper11
I am so sorry you have had to go through so much. sometime people so hurtful words because they are hurting on the inside themselves. while that is no justification for actions, I hope you don't stop spreading positivity around.
@BismaKanwal yeah I know everyone has their own issues, and probably say things they don't mean. It just hurts sometimes ❤ but don't worry I'll never stop trying to spread kindness around ❤ thanks for your kind words ❤gives you a giant tiny hug ❤
@Tinywhisper11
glad to hear that, gives you a hug in return <3