Milestones or Steps Completed! Share and Celebrate Here :)
Congratulations! You made it to the next level on your growth path. Share with us the #1 thing you learned on this leg of your journey!
FH:4
Better seek help than ignore your problems
@lavenderPine1887 Welcome to the community! Indeed, seeking help takes courage, so kudos to you. Thanks for sharing, and well done!
There are others out there that are dealing with the same issues I am.
@Happyhikergirl3 Nice to see you again! I'm glad that you do not feel alone. Indeed, one never feels alone here on 7Cups; we all share many similar issues. Thanks for sharing!
@GlenM, I've learned that I cannot control the world without, and my reaction is the one thing I CAN control.
@WolfieSparks Indeed, it's a very hard lesson to learn. Well done, and thanks for sharing!
Milestone 29 for me. I'm slowly learning to not blame myself for the miscarriage. I am telling myself it was out of my hands and that I'll be ok and that I will have a chance at being a mother.
@Ashdmunoz Welcome to the community, and congrats on reaching milestone 29. I am so sorry for your loss, and I am so proud that you are moving on and accepting that it was not your fault. You are so strong! We are here for you, and if you ever need to talk to someone, feel free to reach out to the listeners here.
We also have a Parenting and Pregnancy Support Community with a miscarriage section. Feel free to check it out if you haven't already for support and guidance: PP Support Community
Thank you for sharing with us, and best wishes to you. I know you will get the chance to be a parent and that child will be lucky to have such a strong spirited mother.
I'm getting better at sharing in a constructive way.
100 steps
@hmsfang Congrats for reaching 100 steps! Yay, glad to hear you are learning how to share constructively. We are always happy to hear from you. Thanks for sharing, and well done!
Step 359! What a journey and this app has helped me so much. Right now I'm working on taking more time for my needs and not feeling guilty when I do.
@Sterndog73 Congrats on reaching step 359! Glad to hear the app has helped you out. Yay for self care! Thanks for sharing, and keep up the awesome job.
Practice makes perfect
@nic01e Welcome to the community! Well said; that saying applies to so many situations. Thanks for sharing!
I feel ashamed about myself and scared opening up to people in group treatment - so the peers dont talk to me. but - it is NOT bc they dont like me or i am bad or flawed - i look unapproachable and not friendly bc of my own self judgment and fear. This is something I need to work on in order to take the next step to get better and to be able to open up in groups.
@blissedNblessed Hi, I am so sorry to hear you are having trouble gettting close with others in your group. Once you open up, I am sure you will be more approachable, and they will see the real you. You
I am what I am.
@pinkPine9506 Indeed you are, and you are the best judge of you! Well said, and thanks for sharing!
@lovelyWhisper66
Thank you so much.
