Milestones or Steps Completed! Share and Celebrate Here :)
Congratulations! You made it to the next level on your growth path. Share with us the #1 thing you learned on this leg of your journey!
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@GlenM im learning how to fix my life
@Spyco03 Welcome to 7Cups! We are happy to have you here with us. Best of luck with your endeavors; reaching out here is a great step forward in improving your life. Let us know if you have any questions or concerns. Thanks for sharing, and have a great weekend! :)
These self realizations and revelations about my life just keep getting better and better - and deeper and deeper!
Step 5010...or is it 5020? lol
I have had SO many issues/drama/fights/roblems/hurt feelings with my aunt since my mother passed away and I have lived with my aunt. And especially around holidays , birthdays, ect...
But I have realized MY part in this: I am trying so hard to have my auntbe my mother substitude. To share the same traditions, have the same fun....and she is NOT my mothers. She has her own way of thinking and being and her own personallity and traditions.
I have finally learned toaccept my aunt fowhr who SHE is and not who I want/wish her to be or act like. And this acceptance has helped us get along so much better.
And it has also allowed me to finally grieve for my mother.
@blissedNblessed Wow, congrats on this outstanding realization! It is great that you see your aunt for who she is. Grief takes many shapes, and I am so proud of how you are handling it. We are here for you! Thanks for sharing, and have an awesome weekend! It is always a pleasure to see you around the community. :) *hugs if you are okay with it*
You life is yours forget people opinion x
@Somersetgirl94 Welcome to 7Cups! Glad to have you here with us. It can be hard to live one's life while dealing with other's opinions, so it is super to hear that you have great self confident. Thank you for sharing with us! If you have any questions or concerns about 7Cups, let us know. Best wishes!
Done this
But frankly.i still feel.terrible
@placidThinker9623 *hugs if you are okay with it* Hi Thinker, I'm sorry to hear you aren't feeling well; I hope you are feeling better now. If you ever need to talk, you can always reach out to the listeners at any time. We are here for you. Take care, and best wishes! :)
I feel better sharing my thoughts and feelings without fear of being judged Thank you Catena98
@1willowwisp Welcome to 7Cups! Glad to have you here with us. Yay, I'm so glad to hear you feel better after reaching out for support. Thanks for sharing, and best wishes.
Also, I am retagging @Catena98 fyi so that she gets notified of your post. :)
I learned that people still care about me. No matter how bad I may feel or how much it may feel like people don
@CrystalGamer2
That is great!
I am walking OUT of victim mentality by taking responcibility for how I see things now, knowing what my emotional system does and chosing to act differently. I am NOT a ictim! I was just on an unconcious loop.
@blissedNblessed
and oooh: that was step 5030!
Can not believe how much progress I am making and how far I have come <3
@blissedNblessed Oh my, congrats on reaching step 5030! I'm so proud that you continue to show awesome self awareness and doing what fits you best. Keep up the great work, and thanks for sharing! :)
Becoming depressed for no reason will happen, but you have to decide how long you want to let it control you.
@agreeablePlace3296
That is important to know!
Ive learned i will have these severe changes in mood that can be scary but that indont have to face them alone and in silence
@HarleyQuinn38
You are never alone. I am here for you if you need anything 
Life is beautiful, no matter what you have done in your past doesnt mean youre a bad person, everyone can learn from their mistakes.
@Cloudysky44 I love your positive outlook! Life is truly what one makes of it, and we can truly learn and grow from our mistakes. Thanks for sharing with us, and best wishes! :)