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Things People Who Love Writing Letters/Penpals Wish You Knew

If this is part of your life story, please share your insights! What would you like the rest of us to learn? What should we know about people in this community? How would you like people to interact with you? Should people ask questions? What’s the best way for people to learn about this? Do you have any resources (books, movies, YT videos, etc) that will give us greater understanding and empathy and kindness toward people who experience the same things you do?

If you’re not on this journey, we welcome you to listen, learn, and ask respectful, good-faith questions! Open-ended questions are highly encouraged, as they give people the space to share their unique experiences in their own words. While this is a safe space to learn about things you’ve never experienced, please remember to be sensitive, and avoid sharing harmful stereotypes or debating someone's lived reality. If you have a question, ask it with empathy. If someone gently corrects you, please be open to learning. Let's have a gentle, fun, friendly conversation where we support one another, because it takes all sorts to make a world!

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP April 19th

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I’m adding a taglist to start, but this post is open to absolutely everyone! <3

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 19th

@jesusredeemedme2425 thanks for tagging me 💗

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 19th

@jesusredeemedme2425

Aww <3 i love writing letters, but idk what to write here xD 😅!!

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP April 19th

What kind of stationary and pens and stickers do you like using most?? <3

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 19th

@jesusredeemedme2425

I'm obsessed with cute stationeries 🤗, I don't use much now, i gave it to some kids ❤️. I had n few i have is, Paper Petals, Honey Ink, Little Scribble Co., Pastel Pages, Cloudy,Starlight Scribbles, Dewdrop Diaries, Sakura Script, Whispering Pages n many lol but now a days I had my Focus on other things than this 😅

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Are you and my sister twins or what🤭 she loves it too.She made me smartphone case which was very cute and my friends used to tease me on it.But I sportsed(not sure if its an actual word😅) it like a pro😭✌.I used it for 2 years and is still on it which I gave to my youngest sister.

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 20th

@curiousbookishness

Awww <3 that's sooo cuteee...!! 😣💕 

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Oh my sweet litle toe the giff!!!! Its so cute😭 how do you find such things🤔 is it primium subscription👻

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 19th

@AiluraTheCat that's not few 😭

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 20th

@trueconfidant123

Lol, i had the whole store with me man 😂😂..!!

But yeah...!! madoka-magica-sayaki-miki.gif😂😂

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 20th

@AiluraTheCat

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User Profile: curiousSloth
curiousSloth April 20th

@trueconfidant123

Yess ailura is a queen of gifs lol 😆

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 19th

@AiluraTheCat That's so awesome <3, Thank you for sharing 🐾💖🥰

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 20th

@fossilfellow

That's so pawesome** 😉!! Thank youu...!! *Hugs*

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 20th

@AiluraTheCat Yeah 😂😂😁💝

*Hugs back* 🐾💕

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 21st

@fossilfellow

Oh please..!! They are illegally cutee, i honestly couldn't take it 😭🤧 

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User Profile: fossilfellow
fossilfellow April 21st

@AiluraTheCat 💝💝

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User Profile: sadcat13
sadcat13 April 19th

@jesusredeemedme2425 please write us back when we send something or send us a post card ocassionally, we love sending stuff but we also would love to receive ocassionally 

Pretty stationery, fancy envelopes, beautiful stickers, washi tape, crayons, color pencils, markers, etc = 🥰😍🥰😍

I love it all! I've always been into letter writing/decorating ever since I was a little girl. Then I grew up and still loved it. I even signed several years ago to be a volunteer letter writer to people in need of support and do that too when I can. 

Letter writing/decorating is fun and enjoyable to me. It's such a great feeling to send and receive "snail mail" knowing you're thought of. The beautiful, heartfelt letter literally feels just like a hug but in an ✉️! 🩵

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP April 19th

What kind of volunteer letters??? You don’t need to give us the organization name, of course, just the genre <3 I use to write letters to soldiers and older people, including those who were housebound or in older folks’/rehabilitation homes <3

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User Profile: ScrabbleBrain
ScrabbleBrain April 19th

I loved letter writing and penpalling. It was a different form of expression for me, more open, less guarded, somehow writing was a fun creative outlet, probably things I might not necessarily vocalise.

I loved buying those easy flowing inky pens, some of my letters looked like rainbows, I might even doodle pictures at the side.

But sometimes it petered out or it just felt one sided. You need someone to match your energy levels. It doesn't have to be straight away replies but it needs the same effort put in.

It just seemed like either I got a very basic response or something pages and pages long that was draining.

User Profile: SaffronJoy
SaffronJoy April 19th

I love to journal with different colour fountain pens. Something that glides smoothly brings joy when I write 😁

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 21st

@corydoras

Yes. I love that experience. It's oddly satisfying.

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 21st

Sorry I didn't watch the gif until the end 😭

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User Profile: jesusredeemedme2425
jesusredeemedme2425 OP April 21st

Lol pick another one!

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User Profile: PatienceImpatiens
PatienceImpatiens April 20th

I want you to know that in my heart I have never given up and I am a romantic in a big way! ♥️🙏🏽💪🏽🕊️🤟🏽☦️🌎🌍🌏🐷🥧🐈‍⬛🦊🐯🐱

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