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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat April 8th

Answer honestly: what’s something u pretend doesn’t hurt? (⁠・⁠–⁠・⁠)⁠ ⁠\⁠(⁠・⁠◡⁠・⁠)⁠/

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User Profile: YeeCafechino
YeeCafechino April 12th

@AiluraTheCat when they only remember me if they need something but gone like a ghost once done. But I just say hi, I just pretend it's fine to be ignored until they need aomething again.

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 14th

@cupofmacchi

Ik how much it hurts when Ppl's only come to us only when they need something  ): I'm sorry to hear this macchi): Hugs ur way ❤️

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User Profile: loyalTalker88
loyalTalker88 April 12th

@AiluraTheCat

being alone

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 12th

@loyalTalker88

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 14th

@loyalTalker88

I'm sorry ): you're not alone, we are here for u, you're loved, cared, you're matter here more than u think ❤️

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User Profile: RunningMachine
RunningMachine April 12th

@AiluraTheCat

Being ignored.

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 14th

@RunningMachine

😔

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User Profile: H3reAlways
H3reAlways April 12th

@AiluraTheCat

When you're hurting and they just say "it's nothing toughen up everyone goes through something"

When the person who's your home just vanishes 

When you terribly need someone anyone to be there for you but there's no one

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User Profile: HappySpecter
HappySpecter April 13th

Other people are hurting too, sure, but their problems don't invalidate yours. Your pain is valid! People saying stuff like this drive me crazy!

I'm sorry about who you've lost. Grieving is hard, messy and terrible. It must be done, though. I wish you the best, and don't forget we're here for you it's you need us ❤️❤️❤️

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User Profile: ClassicIcedMatcha
ClassicIcedMatcha April 12th

@AiluraTheCat For me, it's change. I have a love hate relationship with change. I pretend to not be bothered by it, or even enjoy it. Not gonna lie, sometimes I do enjoy change. It's refreshing to know that life is ever changing and not stationary. But at the same time, it sometimes hurts. To let go the things I like, the people I love, and places I admire, is hard. Sometimes it is not something we can control, actually we can't control it most times, but I've learnt that's the beautiful thing about it. That's also the most beautiful thing about life; the unpredictability of it. For me, it's the uncertainty that makes my life worth living. 

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User Profile: HappySpecter
HappySpecter April 13th

One of my favorite quotes: "The only constant is change." We have to adapt, but that doesn't mean it's easy. It's messy, complicated, and sometimes it hurts. But you're right that it can be beautiful too! It sounds like you've learned to find the beauty in it, and I admire that 🤟

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User Profile: ClassicIcedMatcha
ClassicIcedMatcha April 13th

@HappySpecter

Yeah, I learnt it the hard way, but I grown to like it. Sometimes it can be comforting to know everything will eventually change.

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My Dad caring for other's kids except me

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 14th

@sociableAvocado6284

That's awful ): I'm sorry they doing this to u, ik how it feels to be isolated by our parents... I've been in ur before): *Hugs* 

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User Profile: Leesahhhhh
Leesahhhhh April 12th

When someone points out you insecurities and you go along and laugh about it.

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User Profile: trueconfidant123
trueconfidant123 April 12th

@Leesahhhhh

That's the worst thing ever. I'm so sorry. I know it's incredibly difficult to deal with although we laugh it off in the moment.

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User Profile: lunaGrace15
lunaGrace15 April 12th

Getting ignored by my husband

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 14th

@lunaGrace15

Ugh, that hurts... Sorry to hear this :(

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User Profile: oliveNickel1995
oliveNickel1995 April 12th

Feeling like things have changed between us

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 14th

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User Profile: tsparksgail
tsparksgail April 12th

My body. It hurts all the time. I just try to smile and tell everyone I am ok. But when they aren't here I curl up in a ball.

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User Profile: AiluraTheCat
AiluraTheCat OP April 14th

@tsparksgail

I can relate to this so much 😔 *Hugs*

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