Truth… But Safer 🥀
Answer honestly: what’s something u pretend doesn’t hurt? (･–･) \(･◡･)/
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
When someone tells me I'm quiet. I'm quiet for a reason. I don't like talking to people whose logic doesn't make any sense to me, whose aim is to constantly belittle me and mock me behind my back. I'd rather keep quiet and not give you a reason to start a new drama.
@trueconfidant123
You rock 😣, that's the way you do it...!! Even I do the same with some sorta Ppl's
@AiluraTheCat
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9
I pretend it doesn't hurt when I'm overlooked.
Taken for granted.
When no one asks how my day was.
When no one says thank you.
When I receive no messages or phone calls until someone wants something 💙
@Amanda84
I feel the same ❤️ but i unconscious do this to ppl's ):
@Amanda84
Thank you for being a wonderful helping soul, spreading happiness along the way✨ Stay blessed and Happy 💫btw How was your day?
@Smilingsoul11
Ah thank you, my day is just getting started, so not too bad so far 😁🧡
Being tagged as an "underdog", damn i'm trying my best but y'all really going to remind me i'm still bad in the big scheme?
@SaviSSS
I'm sorry to hear that Ppl's doing this to you ): you deserve good Ppl's around you <3 💗
@Ailuraphilelove8tear9 when someone misunderstands me in a way that "doesn't matter" or when i accidentally lie/say something not correct and I don't have time or just can't correct it.
@Lonely4Flower
(o´･_･)っ
@AiluraTheCat
Sometimes it’s the silence from someone who once felt like home. I tell myself I’m fine with it… But the quiet still echoes. One more thing that I feel is about being strong all the time, people praise it, yet sometimes strength is just a quiet way of hiding where it hurts.
@LopaConnect
Omg, every single word hits truth here...!! It's just the way how I do, i do strong but that doesn't mean it doesn't have hurt me, I'm just good at hiding/pretend it doesn't matter. Thank you for sharing this, i can relate so much of this ❤️
@AiluraTheCat
I pretend that I'm not hurt by the breakup between me and my abusive ex of three years, and that I want the stability of the financials being okay in that time of my life, the connection of always having someone there, but then there's the abusive I pretend to ignore for some reason.
This hit hard.
@AiluraTheCat for me it is failing, it is hard to not get sad whenever I try and fail anyways. I am working on separating myself from the actions :) good luck to everyone trying to get better
@kindPear1356
Hey, i personally could able to relate to this, i hear you... When we try our best, almost out every drop of efforts in that, but in the end it doesn't mean anything. N watching ppl's make thing's effortlessly, when we even struggling to crawl ahead hurts more than anything 😔. But hey... Atleast we tried, we gave our best, we did that we can, that is matter more than anything, i appreciate that you still trying, trying to ground urself. Ik it's not going to be easy as we say but you'll get there, one day at a moment 😊❤️
Thank you so much for sharing this with us <3 *Hugs* (o´･_･)っ
The death of my wife
@Niceguyjack
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@Niceguyjack
I'm sry to hear this, i could imagine myself in ur place..!! I understand how much it must've been hurt you 😞*Hugs*
@Niceguyjack
I'm sorry for your loss. More power to you. ❤️
My heart.
@jesusredeemedme2425
*Hug u closer to my heart* ❤️
Awww, I know I’m safe there <3
@jesusredeemedme2425
Definitely 🤗❤️
@jesusredeemedme2425
@AiluraTheCat
I pretended it was okay when people forgot my birthday.
I wanted it to be a big deal cause it was my 18th birthday but only a handful of people remembered.
It was sad but I told myself that I should be happy that even a handful people remembered and that I also indeed don't remember peoples birthdays.
@impartialPal2301
I'm sry to hear that your Ppl's forgot ur special day ): it might be so hurtful to u... Despite few Ppl's remember !! It's completely okay to feel this way, you're not wrong to feel this way. I can relate this, my parents, siblings, family, friends realised that my birthday passed couple of day's ago n they did laughed at it. I see you..!! But i Appreciate u a lot that you still be grateful with those Ppl's who remember n be there for at the time 🤗❤️
Thank you so much for sharing ❤️ *Hugs*
@AiluraTheCat
Thanks love 🫂
@impartialPal2301
A pleasure 😊
It's okay bro. You don't need to be special to anyone, you just need to be special to yourself. You SHOULD make your 18th birthday a big deal even if others don't make it one. Do it yourself 😉. My parents forget my birthday all the time but you gotta make yourself happy.
Happy birthday <3