Yes or No ?? 🍀

No, I don't because anytime that I do it becomes a cycle. 

@AiluraTheCat we have to forgive ❤️ yes they hurt us they poison us every way possible but forgiveness is a first step towards healing and peace,,, 

@AiluraTheCat Not immediately, but overtime I will 

No

It really depends, if someone is unrepentant, I forgive them, then keep my distance, if they are repentant, I still forgive them, and watch carefully, to see if they mean it, idk, just me TvT...personally, I have a brother who doesn't like to apologize much

Yes I do. Forgiveness is not for the other person, it's for me. By letting go of my hurt and resentment, I don't let that person off the hook for how they treated me. That doesn't mean I forget about it and let them walk all over me. I let go for my own peace, and because I love people. I forgive mistakes and painful actions. I don't forget them.

No

I do forgive everyone. It's an act of release, so I don't carry any emotions associated to them any longer. I think I can forgive them and protect myself with distance at the same time. People seem to think when you forgive them that they're still entitled to the same access but it's not the case at all.

Yes I forgive 🙂 bcs..who hurt us mostly close ones

Yes, and I think it's because that's just how I am. I could never hold resentment for a long period of time because no matter what I do I will always try to understand their side of the story and why they do the things that they do. But just because I can forgive someone it doesn't mean that I will continue to associate with them. I forgive some people by reminding myself that they are not worth the time and space that I give them inside my head. I try to let go for my own sake. Impact is more important than intention after all. I have to keep my sense of peace too and not just let people keep hurting me over and over again. At the same time I believe in giving others enough compassion to show that they have the capacity to change. You can't expect redemption from someone who's never given any sort of compassion or understanding. And even if that fails, I know that the ones who care about me the most will stick by me. And will see that I am worth staying with regardless of who tries to hurt me. I can sense automatically when someone is lying to me or being fake with me, but I still try to be kind to them so that they don't feel like they have to continue being fake around me. I know that we won't always receive the kindness we give in return, but I know when people know who I truly am, they will end up realizing I am worth being kind to as well in the end.