Yes or No ?? 🍀
You ask the difficult questions lol. It all depends quite frankly, some make honest mistakes and show genuine concern they've messed up and are willing to make things right... That's forgivable.
Some continue on the path of destruction and hurt for the sake of hurting. I've said I've forgiven, I've tried to put it behind me but the open wound has never gotten a chance to heal because they keep pushing my buttons over and over again.
And they do it purposefully and gloatily and happily, so how does one forgive that?
@ScrabbleBrain
Haha 😅! Hard question? However, I’m aware of what everyone would remain like. 😂
Yes, we are unable to forgive someone who chooses to harm another person needlessly. That implies that we are merely pardoning them. That wouldn't be appropriate, in my opinion.
Good answer btw ;)
@AiluraTheCat Thank you for challenging my brain and making me think. I don't often get that :)
@ScrabbleBrain
Ahh!! I see what is going on here, You're just modest 😂💕!!
@AiluraTheCat No-one will ever accuse me of that. I've learned to be really over confident to deal with outside negativity.
False modesty maybe 😳🤣
@AiluraTheCat
Honestly, I can forgive, but can't forget.
I stay away from that person.
I give enough chances to a person, however once the trust is broken I find it very hard to rebuild.
@SimplyCompassionate
I hear you, it is not easy to forget the cause of the wound had made once ):
And it is always okay to stay away from them who make you feel resentful, or any sort of discomfort!
you matter more than anything 😊! *Hugs*
@AiluraTheCat
Thank you so much 🤗
Yes
@sincerePal8181
You are a beautiful soul <3 😊!
forgive or not... i don't know. all i know is that i want to stay as far away as i possibly can from them.
@ramen99
I hear you, and that is totally fine... our own inner peace comes frist than anything else's ❤️! Do what make u feel right as long it doesn't causes any harm to others 😊!
*Hugs*
@AiluraTheCat
@AiluraTheCat Yes. I do. It's human nature.
@patientEyes6228
🤗💕
No, because of him i ended up at hospital
@Whitecalmghost
I'm really sorry to hear that 😔
@AiluraTheCat
I guess? Even if someone hurt me it wouldn't mean that I would leave them hurting if I knew I could do something about it.
I remember after someone had hurt me at school due to a miscommunication, I was given the choice to kick them out for a while and I chose not to because they didn't have anywhere else to be.
@PuellaDreamer
You have a beautiful soul, and i really have to appreciate you here 😊! You have my admiration.
Then you for being kind and thoughtful 😊!
*Hugs*
@AiluraTheCat I actually do, because I like to give the same treatment as I'd like to be given. It seems a little selfish because every time I mess up I have a bad habit of never forgiving myself. But whenever I see someone else make a mistake, I talk them through it and don't blame them for it.