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Looking for a Buddy for my life restart plan

User Profile: KaleChips29
KaleChips29 August 31st, 2022

I ruined my life so bad and I just want to start all over again. I need a friend who would like to join me. Let's restart our lives together.

☆healthy lifestyle

☆spiritual life

☆mental care

☆skin care

☆hobbies

and more...

See you soon, buddy~😊

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User Profile: KaleChips29
KaleChips29 OP September 6th, 2022

How is everybody doing? :) It is September 7 where I am right now. Any updates on your goals?


Starting, deciding to restart our lives seems to be the sparkly, interesting part... but the working it out and pushing through with it is the dull, difficult feeling that makes us stay where we don't want to stay.

I know, because I have been like this for the past 10 years of my life.


Anyway, please update me, how are your plans going? We have 3 weeks more. Any accomplishment is fine! Even simple things like getting out of bed, taking a shower, eating a proper meal, these are big things. (I cannot do these for some days)


♡ I love you all ♡

User Profile: RainyDays2020
RainyDays2020 September 7th, 2022

@KaleChips29 hey Kale, a lot of members seem to be very interested in this and this is a pretty good idea. How do u suggest we do this more effectively? Not sure if a thread is effective since I don't always get notifications and we can't track progress here. I hope you can help us make us into a real group of people to make this come true. Thanks.

User Profile: KaleChips29
KaleChips29 OP September 7th, 2022

Yeah. I didn't think I'd get so many comments on this post but I don't know how to make an active group yet.

I was hoping we could do like a weekly update on how everyone is working on their goals.

Could you help me?

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User Profile: Dogsaregreat44
Dogsaregreat44 September 8th, 2022

@KaleChips29 cleared some of the area and got some tasks done that been putting off for months :-) also saw a red belly black snake just as I was doing it, which told me it was perfect timing as the dogs are all safe ✌️🐾🦘🇦🇺 Thank you again for you post.. managed another day without a drink or even wanting one, surprising myself and feeling weirdly proud with that.. it is a hard task as many many years that was my go to.. even had a few bad times where my brain being silly, with the chance to have a drink brought to the property as we always use to do, happily said no thanks, after a few no thanks, I am trying to get my life in order.. my mates were happy, shocked but happy for me.. i told them that I would have one with them on nye, I don’t actually intend too but it made them happy as non drinkers are not the norm..

hope you had a good day / night.. 🌄🌅 👍🐶 thanks again..

User Profile: KaleChips29
KaleChips29 OP September 8th, 2022

Thank you so much for posting today's accomplishments! I am very very proud of you! Let's keep going~☆

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User Profile: AngelButterfly10
AngelButterfly10 September 7th, 2022

I wish I could have that too I too ruined my life pretty badly

User Profile: amicableSkies4381
amicableSkies4381 September 7th, 2022

I'd like to join buddy. I have ruined mine as well. I want to start it all again.

User Profile: kindPeace6407
kindPeace6407 September 7th, 2022

@KaleChips29 It sound like you are passing through a difficult time in your life , you are the couch of your life, you are the one who know how to spend your days 🙏🏻

User Profile: KaleChips29
KaleChips29 OP September 8th, 2022

To all those who saw my post, everyone is free to join. And yes, I can be your life restart buddy. Everyone here is your buddy. We will encourage each other to get our lives back!

Some days, I will chat with you guys in one of the group rooms. I have yet to set a time as I am sure all of us here live in different time zones.


Please keep posting your achievements/accomplishments.

User Profile: BlahBlueBlah
BlahBlueBlah September 8th, 2022

@KaleChips29

Great decision. A positive outlook after a setback. Wishing you well. But I can assure you that you can do all of it without a buddy too. Don’t be discouraged if you cannot find any sooner ;don’t delay your progress. Continue. You can be your best friend in the meanwhile. Which you can be. And which is better.

User Profile: KaleChips29
KaleChips29 OP September 13th, 2022

I imagined something today. There was another me. A much stronger more positive me who cares about the messed up me. The other me would knock on my door every morning and pull me out of bed. Feed me brekfast and push me to go take a shower. Cheer me on as I prepare and go to work...