Perserverance despite life’s challenges

@Kristynsmama You said you lack perseverance, but these are your words....

"Some way, some how, I just keep putting one foot in front of the other and keep going."

At the end of the day, that's really all you can do. That's how it begins. Every day you have to make the decision to want to keep going. Taking each day one at a time for what it is. I'm so sorry for what you have to go through but I think you are quite strong! Keep on persevering the best way you know. You know how people say focus on the journey, I do believe that's true. Celebrate your wins for the day... no matter how small you may think it is. And while you are on your journey to getting better and healing, continue to make the difference you are by helping others. You are putting good out in the universe. Please continue taking those steps and keep on putting one foot in front of the next. Please know you are strong and can get through this. I am so proud of you and hope you will be ok. You say you lack this but considering, you are doing amazing. ♡ Take care! 

@Kristynsmama
 How do you perservere when life is hard and it feels unfair.  And things keep spiraling out of control.  Where do you find your perserverance?

I do so by not giving up. I do my best to keep going and not stop. But I also take breaks. A lot of them. Because breaks are crucial under such circumstances.

@Kristynsmama

First off, major props for being real about your struggles, especially with something as heavy as perseverance. Dealing with chronic medical issues is like facing a boss battle every day, and it's okay to feel the weight of it all.

When life's hitting hard, and it feels like the universe is playing on a tough setting, finding perseverance can be like searching for a hidden power-up. Here's what some folks do to keep pushing forward:

1. Break it Down: It's like tackling a massive raid boss. Instead of looking at the whole battle, break it down into smaller quests. Focus on one step at a time, and it'll feel less overwhelming.

2. Lean on Support: Even superheroes team up in tough times. Surround yourself with a crew—friends, family, or even a support group who gets what you're going through. Sharing the load makes it lighter.

3. Mind Games: Your mind is a powerful ally. Try flipping your thoughts. Instead of asking why it's so hard, remind yourself how far you've come. Celebrate those small victories—it's XP for your perseverance skill.

4. Fuel Your Motivation: What's your "why"? What keeps you going? Whether it's dreams, people you love, or just proving yourself wrong, keep that motivation tank full. It's like your secret weapon.

5. Embrace the Breaks: Even warriors need rest. It's okay to hit pause, gather your strength, and then jump back into the quest. Resting isn't quitting; it's strategic gameplay.

6. Celebrate Progress: Every step forward is a win. Acknowledge and celebrate your progress, no matter how small. It's like leveling up your perseverance skill—XP bar inching higher.

And hey, remember, it's okay not to have all the answers. Perseverance is a skill that levels up over time, and you're putting in the work every single day. You got this. The fact that you keep going, even when it feels impossible, shows a strength within you that's nothing short of heroic.

@Kristynsmama

Glad you overcame that by perserverance.

@Kristynsmama

Hello, Kristy! I hope that you're having a wonderful day. I completely agree with you. Perseverance can be incredibly challenging, especially when you're faced with chronic medical issues and continuous treatments. It's understandable to question why things feel so difficult and wonder how to keep going when life seems unfair and out of control. 

I know that finding perseverance in these circumstances is not easy, but it's important to remember that you are already demonstrating perseverance by putting one foot in front of the other and continuing to move forward despite the challenges. Acknowledging your efforts and the resilience you show every day is a significant step! 

When it comes to finding perseverance, different strategies work for different people. Some individuals find strength in their support systems, leaning on loved ones for encouragement and understanding. Others draw inspiration from personal goals and aspirations, focusing on the bigger picture of life and the positive outcomes that they hope to achieve. 

Seeking out sources of motivation, whether through hobbies, passions, or even self-care practices, can also help replenish your perseverance reserves. It's all about finding what resonates with you and what helps you stay motivated during difficult times.

@Kristynsmama when i stand at crossroads is the time when i feel that the perseverance in my slightly slips away. I am still stuggling to find a way out.

@Kristynsmama

 I still struggle with not giving up and keeping going. I seen you grow and become a true leader on cups so I know you go far on cups. Keep up the good work.

@Kristynsmama

First of all, thank you for sharing this vulnerable side of you. Your post has no doubt helped many others.

I still struggle with perseverance. I don't think there's a single person that can truly say they never do. Sometimes we have our good days, sometimes life gives us a kick in the teeth; that's when we start thinking negative thoughts.

We seem to forget everything we've been through over the last few years and how far we've come. The unexpected is the hardest to overcome, but I find thinking back to all the struggles I have previously been in and realise, this isn't anywhere near as difficult as what I've been through before.

I can do this. My own personal history has demonstrated as such. I worried and had a mental breakdown previously and it was all for nothing. I caused myself stress over a situation that ended up working itself out. I allowed my illogical fears to take control and do more damage than good.

Personally, making sure that I keep myself grounded in reality is the most helpful thing for me.

It's never as bad as it seems.