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Trust - a Core Value

User Profile: wonderousApple741
wonderousApple741 November 20th, 2025

Trust is the foundation upon which Inner Development Goals (IDGs) are built. When we trust ourselves, our abilities, and the process, we open ourselves up to growth, learning, and transformation. Trust allows us to be vulnerable, take risks, and step into the unknown, while also being discerning and setting healthy boundaries. Trust, for me, is about my ability to define goals and my capabilities to achieve them. 

Self-trust is like the foundation of a strong building – it holds everything together. As we cultivate trust, we become more resilient, adaptable, and confident. We are better equipped to navigate life's challenges and uncertainties, and we're more likely to achieve our goals. Trust also enables us to form deeper connections with others, fostering a sense of community and support in a way that feels authentic and sustainable.

Questions for you:

What's one area in your life where you would like to build more trust – is it trusting yourself, others, or the universe?

How do you think developing trust in this area could impact your Inner Development Goals?

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User Profile: Amanda84
Amanda84 November 21st, 2025

@wonderousApple741

The area I need to work on most, is trusting in my own instincts and capabilities and not looking for affirmation from other people 🥰

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wonderousApple741 OP November 24th, 2025

@Amanda84

Building self-trust, that's a powerful one!

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Amanda84 November 26th, 2025

@wonderousApple741

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User Profile: Ivy229
Ivy229 November 22nd, 2025

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Questions for you:


What's one area in your life where you would like to build more trust – is it trusting yourself, others, or the universe?

I would choose trusting the process. Not just in myself or others, but in the unfolding of things I can’t fully control. It’s easy to cling to certainty, but trusting the process means allowing space for uncertainty, mistakes, and detours to still carry meaning.


How do you think developing trust in this area could impact your Inner Development Goals?


Impact on Inner Development Goals:

  • Inner Compass (IDG domain: Being): Trusting the process strengthens alignment with values, even when outcomes aren’t immediate.

  • Resilience (IDG domain: Self-awareness): It helps me adapt when plans shift, seeing challenges as part of the journey rather than failures.

  • Connectedness (IDG domain: Relating): It deepens relationships, because trust in the process often means trust in others’ timing and growth too.

  • Courage (IDG domain: Acting): It empowers risk-taking, since the focus shifts from “perfect results” to “meaningful steps.”


In a way, it’s like standing in a river: you can’t control every current, but trusting the flow allows you to move with strength and grace rather than resistance.

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wonderousApple741 OP November 23rd, 2025

@Ivy229

That's so deep, isn't it?  Trusting the process is like embracing the unknown, and it's beautiful how you worded it - allowing space for uncertainty, mistakes, and detours to still carry meaning. It's like life's got its own plan, and we're just along for the ride. 

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fruityMirage6614 November 25th, 2025

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Trusting others because people tend to lie

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electricApple6922 November 26th, 2025


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User Profile: Hope
Hope November 26th, 2025

@wonderousApple741
This is a core value often not talked about enough. Thank you for making the post!

I find that trust has two components, trust in yourself and then trust that things will work out. 

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wonderousApple741 OP December 4th, 2025

@Hope

Trust is like a two-part thing. Trusting yourself to navigate whatever comes up, and trusting that things will unfold as they're meant to. You're totally on point with that breakdown!

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User Profile: softUnicorn9315
softUnicorn9315 December 3rd, 2025

@wonderousApple741 I’d like to build more trust in myself, especially when it comes to making big decisions. I overthink a lot, and it holds me back sometimes. Strengthening that self-trust would probably help me move forward with more confidence and stay committed to my goals without second-guessing everything.

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wonderousApple741 OP December 4th, 2025
@softUnicorn9315

Building self-trust is like building a muscle; you gotta start small and work your way up. One thing that might help is to start practising self-compassion, like being kinder to yourself when you do make mistakes (and you will, we all do!).
Try this: next time you're faced with a decision, big or small, just take a deep breath and ask yourself, "What's the worst that can happen?" and then, "Can I live with that?" More often than not, the answer's yeah, you can. That can help calm the overthinking bit.
Also, celebrating the small wins, like, did you make a decision and it worked out? Pat yourself on the back! That helps build confidence in your decision-making abilities.
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User Profile: Fars79
Fars79 August 26th

@wonderousApple741

I think self-trust is one of those things that sounds simple until you actually have to practice it. You can know what you want and still keep second-guessing yourself at every step. For me, building self-trust would mean making a decision and allowing myself to learn from it instead of constantly wondering if I chose wrong but i also think trust has a lot to do with Courage from the IDG skills. You can’t always wait until you feel completely certain before moving forward. Sometimes you have to trust yourself enough to take the step anyway, even when you’re a little scared.

@wonderousApple741

So well said! ✨ Trust really is the foundation of everything—starting with trusting ourselves opens the door to growth, connection, and so much more. It’s such a core value that shapes every part of our journey. Thank you for this beautiful reminder!